Question for the females

[Xasusi]

Theyd do anything for the right man

 

[Gedogyal]

same
i'm not gonna wait all my life only to become numero dos

T H A N K Y O U

That's not really an intelligent answer you know

Ik and it's mostly bc I never imagined to be wife number 2, ever. If that makes you and your future wives happy.. Then by all means, carry on

 

[sambuusi]

Of course men can be jealous as well it's just that it's a feminine trait please don't take offense men have bad qualities as well it's just natural. And who said anything about forcing? A man does as he pleases or he isn't a man at all. What kind of beta male lets his wife make decisions for him? Kulahaa force the idea. it ain't her getting married!

usually, a husband getting another wife means the first one wasn't good enough
no thank you

 

[lalayariis]

usually, a husband getting another wife means the first one wasn't good enough
no thank you

Or he’s the selfish one in the relationship

 

[Strike6times]

these females don't understand that all wives get the same treatment

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

How isn’t it the same? Is it because yours is a fantasy and for women it can become a reality with all you thirsty males on here proving it.

You damn well know the answer so stop playing dumb with me here. Men are a lot more reluctant to the idea of sharing their wife with another man and it just isn't right my fantasies are irrelevant. It's also a lot easier and more common to find a man with multiple wives than vice versa it's simply contradictory to our masculinity to share with other men wtf??? And trust me I'm not thirsty for any woman I never chase these hoes they come to me.

 

[Abdisamad]

T H A N K Y O U

Ik and it's mostly bc I never imagined to be wife number 2, ever. If that makes you and your future wives happy.. Then by all means, carry on

You haven’t given any valid reason why you are against polygamy other than for selfish reasons.. So you are against what allah has made permissible because you can't see past your ego and jealousy

 

[lalayariis]

I said my peace of mind on this multiple times in a thread already. I don’t care if you want a second wife, you’ll just have to start over because I’m divorcing your ass.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Isn’t it selfish to go against your wife’s wishes? Imagine how you would feel if you were a second husband.

Not bad at all??? Maybe even happy God forbid.

 

[Gedogyal]

You haven’t given any valid reason why you are against polygamy other than for selfish reasons.. So you are against what allah has made permissible because you can't see past your ego and jealousy

I do have a reason though but it's such a drag to write it down Plus knowing this site, it wouldn't really satisfy anyone lol

 

[lalayariis]

You haven’t given any valid reason why you are against polygamy other than for selfish reasons.. So you are against what allah has made permissible because you can't see past your ego and jealousy

Go find someone that wants to be a second wife instead of forcing someone that doesn’t want to. Every human has free will, and it’s haram to force a second wife upon a wife that doesn’t agree.

 

[strawberrii]

these females don't understand that all wives get the same treatment

That would be very hard to do practically. I know that’s what you’re supposed to do if you have multiple wives in Islam but you really think guys with more than 1 wife would treat everyone totally equally.

 

[Abdisamad]

usually, a husband getting another wife means the first one wasn't good enough
no thank you

Not necessarily.. It could also be for a noble reason such as the urge to take care of a miskiin woman who needs a good husband.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

I don’t understand men like you that try to pin all bad traits onto females. Good luck finding someone with an attitude like that and perspective.

I literally just explained that I wasn't, both genders have both positive and negative traits but go ahead and ignore I said that I guess. And I'm pretty confident I won't have any issues with women in fact that's about my least concern at the moment.

 

[sambuusi]

and don't even bother bringing up how the Prophet SAWS was able to have so many wives
the modern day man can't compare to him
nowadays, many men just want a harem and wouldn't hesitate to get a wife even though they can't afford to financially support one

 

[Abdisamad]

Go find someone that wants to be a second wife instead of forcing someone that doesn’t want to. Every human has free will, and it’s haram to force a second wife upon a wife that doesn’t agree.

I'm not forcing anyone.. We are having a discussion/dialogues.. Don't get all emotional on me now.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

That would be very hard to do practically. I know that’s what you’re supposed to do if you have multiple wives in Islam but you really think guys with more than 1 wife would treat everyone totally equally.

Finally someone with a genuine question.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

and don't even bother bringing up how the Prophet SAWS was able to have so many wives
the modern day man can't compare to him
nowadays, many men just want a harem and wouldn't hesitate to get a wife even though they can't afford to financially support one

Not always but I do see what you mean.

 

[lalayariis]

I literally just explained that I wasn't both genders have both positive and negative traits but go ahead and ignore I said that I guess. And I'm pretty confident I won't have any issues with women in fact that's about my least concern at the moment.

Is that how you would treat your second wife if you got into an argument? Name calling I see, how classy.

 

[CaliTedesse]

Mr. Cali, issa no from me

I see. Well that is normal