Question for the females

[CaliTedesse]

As we all know there are more females than males on Earth.
I just want to ask you females, would you have a problem with becoming a 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife to a male.
I mean i really can't understand why not, seeing you will have other females to be friends with forever, to help
with chores and all and if the male dies to accompany you.

I would love to give me future wife another wife its the best present ever.

What do you think ladies. Would you accept becoming or having your husband marry more wives?

 

[Gedogyal]

Mr. Cali, issa no from me

 

[Abdisamad]

Mr. Cali, issa no from me

Why

 

[Gedogyal]

Why

I do not share what's mine

 

[Abdisamad]

I do not share what's mine

So you are against what allah has made permissible for selfish reasons

 

[sambuusi]

it's only me or none of me
like @Gedogyal said, i don't like to share what's mine

 

[Sophisticate]

Its a bad deal. I won't deal with a fraction of a man's wealth since it must be concentrated on me. I have my own money. Its not like you're a Khalej. And I won't ever share a man or be friends with someone under your nightmarish scenario.

 

[lalayariis]

So you are against what allah has made permissible for selfish reasons

Isn’t it selfish to go against your wife’s wishes? Imagine how you would feel if you were a second husband.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

No need for a poll walaal. We already know females are jealous by nature.

 

[lalayariis]

No need for a poll walaal. We already know females are jealous by nature.

So men aren’t jealous? It’s selfish to try and force the idea of a second wife to someone who doesn’t want no part of it, and that’s the majority.

 

[anyways]

share my husband??

with whom??

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

Isn’t it selfish to go against your wife’s wishes? Imagine how you would feel if you were a second husband.

Come on now you know it isn't the same! You can't please everybody either that's just how life goes.

 

[Gedogyal]

So you are against what allah has made permissible for selfish reasons

Not really, I just don't want that in my life

 

[Abdisamad]

Not really, I just don't want that in my life

That's not really an intelligent answer you know

 

[lalayariis]

Come on now you know it isn't the same! You can't please everybody either that's just how life goes.

How isn’t it the same? Is it because yours is a fantasy and for women it can become a reality with all you thirsty males on here proving it.

 

[anyways]

if you have me trust me, you don't need anything else.

 

[sambuusi]

Not really, I just don't want that in my life

same
i'm not gonna wait all my life only to become numero dos

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

So men aren’t jealous? It’s selfish to try and force the idea of a second wife to someone who doesn’t want no part of it, and that’s the majority.

Of course men can be jealous as well it's just that it's a feminine trait please don't take offense men have bad qualities as well it's just natural. And who said anything about forcing? A man does as he pleases or he isn't a man at all. What kind of beta male lets his wife make decisions for him? Kulahaa force the idea. it ain't her getting married!

 

[Abdisamad]

Isn’t it selfish to go against your wife’s wishes? Imagine how you would feel if you were a second husband.

Well simply put I can't relate because it's haram to have two husband.. But if it was halal and I'm a muslim I wouldn't question it.

 

[lalayariis]

Of course men can be jealous as well it's just that it's a feminine trait please don't take offense men have bad qualities as well it's just natural. And who said anything about forcing? A man does as he pleases or he isn't a man at all. What kind of beta male lets his wife make decisions for him? Kulahaa force the idea. it ain't her getting married!

I don’t understand men like you that try to pin all bad traits onto females. Good luck finding someone with an attitude like that and perspective.