I’m only 1/4th married so far. I still have 3 spots available. But I have no spinster policy. I don’t want to be all up in the Sahara desert.
@Angelina i never said the father is not responsible for raising children. But in the west, gaalo society favours women even if she’s not fit, so they end up raising most of the kids who end up being dysfunctional. The question is what did this woman do wrong to drive the man away. That’s the root of the problem and why there are issues with Somali family structure in the west. No man will leave a good woman who works hard at home and brings in money to help with finances. What makes you better than your grandmother who not only took care of the kids but built a home. This selfish mentality by modern women who need to be equal to women is causing serious haram.