My Newly married cousin wants to divorce his wife-

[Bohol]

@Karim @Bohol @sophisticate @Ferrari

This is how you have a long lasting and healthy marriage. Women must learn how to make a man happy. These are two simple rules, men are not asking anything more.

Balls empty.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Actually she was the one who initiated the marriage and convinced him. He's 2 years older.

he needs to gag her mouth with socks, tight her up, hands behind her back and take 1/4 Viagra pill and smash her the entire 3 days non stop,

i am sure i read a hadith a female cannot ask for divorce after she is taken home after nikah, there is wisdom, there is a chance she will stay after he makes love to her, double check, dont quote me on it,

 

[AliUK]

Tell him to use Dahabshil or WorldRemit. You can easily make an account backhome with Dahabshil and save money there then re-send it back. It's called Farah finessing system.




The won't notice, I know plenty of Somali brothers who done this in their divorce. Nothing happened to them. They never hear or see their from ex again so she will know nothing about him.

Most Somalis don't legally marry their wife tho, this dude has so he needs better finessing system then dahabshiil which is easily trackable.

 

[Karim]

Most Somalis don't legally marry their wife tho, this dude has so he needs better finessing system then dahabshiil which is easily trackable.

True. Plus, why would I want to use Dahabshiil when I can easily get all my services done by Amal or Tawakal or Taaj.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

She's all positive and happy during the marriage ceremonies but all of a sudden in less than three weeks she became this conniving witch and completely different person.

i knew a london halimo who was divorced in 4 days after she said she will not open her legs during honey moon,

and another who in dadab refused to get off her mobile phone, after a few days the dude returned her to her family,

i always judge a female by her action,

you never know, God may be protecting your cousin, maybe they are siblings,

a dude married a girl once, they did not know they shared the same dad, after a few days he went to a sheikh and said we are both really not interested in being in bed, the sheikh noticed a similar case before, he asked some info, the good thing about somalis having qabil is abtir, so they discovered their soldier daddy was getting married and discovered around somalia and thus the powerful same blood was refusing for both to sexually want each other, there was soldier who married 53 times, just saying, its possible,

or maybe she has been sleeping with his brother/freinds/cousins and feels really guilty, or she has something, a medical check up might help and doesnt want him to know, she is hopping she will be discovered, females have an amazing way of thinking,

 

[Karim]

did he talk to her about it, what did she say, tell him to ask her for help in finding a second wife and see if the jealousy does anything, if not get the Malab from wife 2

The witch is in silent mode.
It's an insane scenario Wallaahi.
She's the one who initiated the marriage and convinced him then three weeks later she's no longer the person he used to know and adore. Absolutely devastating.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

That's why he's extremely cautious with his decision of divorcing her. The stakes are high and he could lose everything he worked for.

he will lose a lot more if he stays longer, better to get his loses short now,

imagine divorcing when they have kids, or worse after she cheats on him,

he needs to be ruthless,

 

[Farjano-Walad]

The witch is in silent mode.
It's an insane scenario Wallaahi.
She's the one who initiated the marriage and convinced him then three weeks later she's no longer the person he used to know and adore. Absolutely devastating.

careful, its backbiting to speak of her bro, do not collect that dambi,

we man do not speak badly of our sisters in laws regardless,

 

[Karim]

i knew a london halimo who was divorced in 4 days after she said she will not open her legs during honey moon,

and another who in dadab refused to get off her mobile phone, after a few days the dude returned her to her family,

i always judge a female by her action,

you never know, God may be protecting your cousin, maybe they are siblings,

a dude married a girl once, they did not know they shared the same dad, after a few days he went to a sheikh and said we are both really not interested in being in bed, the sheikh noticed a similar case before, he asked some info, the good thing about somalis having qabil is abtir, so they discovered their soldier daddy was getting married and discovered around somalia and thus the powerful same blood was refusing for both to sexually want each other, there was soldier who married 53 times, just saying, its possible,

or maybe she has been sleeping with his brother/freinds/cousins and feels really guilty, or she has something, a medical check up might help and doesnt want him to know, she is hopping she will be discovered, females have an amazing way of thinking,

Some critical hidden information is missing from the story. There has to be a reason for this.... And I don't know why.

 

[Tukraq]

The witch is in silent mode.
It's an insane scenario Wallaahi.
She's the one who initiated the marriage and convinced him then three weeks later she's no longer the person he used to know and adore. Absolutely devastating.

bro he has to confront her noway around it, this isn't normal he has to sit down and ask her whats wrong to see if its salvageable, in the mean time tell him to start scouting for another wife,
if he hasn't payed the maher yet id just keep her to save money while having another wife for the Malay to see if she's jealous, if not she's probably cheating and getting it in somewhere else and he should divorce

 

[Karim]

@Teeri-Alpha you said he shouldn't have shared this private information with you. Telling family members about a serious situation like this is necessary and the religion has commanded us to take the necessary steps possible to save the marriage. Consulting and seeking help from others is crucial. He's no DAYUUS.

 

[Karim]

bro he has to confront her noway around it, this isn't normal he has to sit down and ask her whats wrong to see if its salvageable, in the mean time tell him to start scouting for another wife,
if he hasn't payed the maher yet id just keep her to save money while having another wife for the Malay to see if she's jealous, if not she's probably cheating and getting it in somewhere else and he should divorce

The guy is well of and paid 10k worth of jewelries, clothes and The Mehr. She took her Mehr already. Her Mehr was 4k. Pretty normal.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Some critical hidden information is missing from the story. There has to be a reason for this.... And I don't know why.

doesn't matter, she either lied about something or is not interested,

again, i always judge my females for their actions, never ever for words,

a beautiful girl is born every day saxib, there is a billion, nay, 4 billion much better girls out there,

my Portuguese neighbour used to have a crush on me for years, she started at 13, i was 21, of course i never did anything,, now she is 23, a beautiful girl is born everyday saxib, there is plenty of fish in the sea,

there is a 150% chance she will cheat or become xasid on him if she refuses jigijiigi in the honey moon phase, 150% chance,

 

[Farjano-Walad]

@Teeri-Alpha you said he shouldn't have shared this private information with you. Telling family members about a serious situation like this is necessary and the religion has commanded us to take the necessary steps possible to save the marriage. Consulting and seeking help from others is crucial. He's no DAYUUS.

but our deen doesn't say share it on somalispot, personally you should have kept it, these crazy people here will give them the evil eye, you never know, come on man, basra is in here

 

[Yaquub]

This is messed up
Reminds me of a sad story. A Somali couple wanted to have kids, they found out the wife couldn't have kids. So the wife suggested her husband get another woman to have the kid for them. The woman agreed and said the child would be the woman child once she gives birth. What happens is the naag fucked the husband and nine months later she refused to hand the kid over.

The Somali couple were heart broken and the courts couldn't do anything because they didn't sign a legal contract. So this Somali lady finessed herself a child from a poor couple.

True story told by a family friend.

 

[Karim]

but our deen doesn't say share it on somalispot, personally you should have kept it, these crazy people here will give them the evil eye, you never know, come on man, basra is in here

Did I name them?! No.. they're anonymous and I'm anonymous on this platform. It's not like I shared their names, pictures and their address.

 

[Tukraq]

I think she got sixir/evil eye on her. You need to call the culumaas asap. The guy too, one would think he would have divorced her but as you are telling something is holding him back...he also needs quraan saar. You also mentioned he is pretty wealthy and they are both religious...another reason why to think this is sixir related. Seriously, call the sheiksh of your city and see if Ruqiya Sharia and Quran helps to restore the love, joy and peacefulness in their household inshaAllah.

If it doesnt work they need to see a terapist, also have they even talked about this issue? Like what is her answere to this situation and why the heck is she refusing him to enter the kitchen?! She never prepares any meal for him? Does she only prepare for herself?, xaasidsanaa
I think the ”sixir” is in the kitchen tell the sheikhs to throw some holy water in the kitchen and bedroom and look for some fishy knotted hair or nails in the house...

never thought of that that might be just about right, I would follow that plan after asking her what the issue was and to stop being a weirdo

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Did I name them?! No.. they're anonymous and I'm anonymous on this platform. It's not like I shared their names, pictures and their address.

all the best to them isnha Allah,


shaytan loves to break up couples,

 

[Sophisticate]

@sophisticate I BET YOU WOULD LOOVE TO GET DEVOURED BY A MERCILESS GEELJIRE KKKKKK


C'MON girl... Admit it.

Ninyahow, I'm only interested in a Somali man with the capacity to be a good provider and father with a pretty face, health-conscious and a spotless mind. Our minds work in reverse. I'm looking for stability, competency, commitment, status, kindness, and looks. You're not as focused on the long term and probably have a smaller list of requirements. Nimaan are simpler.

 

[Farjano-Walad]

Balls empty.

the only thing bohol picked up from this entire thread waa those two words,