My dad left me as a child

[IBRAHIM.]

I’m giving you another reason to live as an act of zakat . I know you live for this website.

This could’ve been us but I fear your dad.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

You sell your ass somahan, that's why you make lots of $$$

Prostitution ? Somali prostitutes don’t go online , they are too busy getting their back blown out for 50 dollars.
Don’t insult me gross...

What I did was find niche markets in my early 20s.. save up and exploit the lack of goods there. I also did some courses in high paying fields that really don’t require degrees. There’s always a shortcut to that 6 figure job you can learn by listening and sneaking knowledge by people (white people) and that’s what I did. I’m trying to to refine my techniques but I’m gonna write a definite guide for Somalis in the west on how to do that sometime in the new year.
Be on the look out.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

Explains your lack of respect for men. You are bound to fail in your social life if you continue on with this mindset.

Your dad is your dad even if he was a failure.

I respect all humans I just don’t respect bums. I helped many Somali guys pass high school and avoid jail.

 

[Abdalla]

Prostitution ? Somali prostitutes don’t go online , they are too busy getting their back blown out for 50 dollars.
Don’t insult me gross...

What I did was find niche markets in my early 20s.. save up and exploit the lack of goods there. I also did some courses in high paying fields that really don’t require degrees. There’s always a shortcut to that 6 figure job you can learn by listening and sneaking knowledge by people (white people) and that’s what I did. I’m trying to to refine my techniques but I’m gonna write a definite guide for Somalis in the west on how to do that sometime in the new year.
Be on the look out.

I love hustling. Go make a YT channel

 

[IftiinOfLife]

I love hustling. Go make a YT channel

You are really pushing for me to lose my privacy ? Why don’t you make a YouTube channel?

How else can I have my escapades and adventures if someone is cussing me out in my YouTube comment section?


It’s better for Somalis not to be famous or recognizable. The lowkey life is better.

I’m gonna write a .pdf for you guys and drop it here about shortcuts to different fields I learned.

Even though this entire site is people in their 30s who should already have wealth saved up should thus be teaching me, but I think too logically.

But I will still help you regardless.

 

[Abdalla]

You are really pushing for me to lose my privacy ? Why don’t you make a YouTube channel?

How else can I have my escapades and adventures if someone is cussing me out in my YouTube comment section?


It’s better for Somalis not to be famous or recognizable. The lowkey life is better.

I’m gonna write a .pdf for you guys and drop it here about shortcuts to different fields I learned.

Even though this entire site is people in their 30s who should already have wealth saved up should thus be teaching me, but I think too logically.

But I will still help you regardless.

You're too ambiguous. I receive a salary because I have a good degree with great grades.

Show us your money stash or your La Perla lingerie

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

I respect all humans I just don’t respect bums. I helped many Somali guys pass high school and avoid jail.

You a case worker? Come get me out of trouble little one. I can use the counsel. Except it will be the case of the helper being helped and all will work out fine in the end.

 

[Jiron]

Sorry to hear ur bad experience growing up @IftiinOfLife, it's a tragedy no child should ever experience but look what you became, you not only survived but also thrived at life, you are a true winner and I am glad that you are looking after your mom and siblings. god bless you queen

 

[Jiron]

@ZakWantsToPlay, unrelated but I noticed that you have demon slayer on ur avi, did they stop the show out of the blue? there hasn't been any new episodes for like a month now.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

@ZakWantsToPlay, unrelated but I noticed that you have demon slayer on ur avi, did they stop the show out of the blue? there hasn't been any new episodes for like a month now.

Season One is over. It is at episode 26 and depending on the fan interest, the creator wants to move on to the next project and a movie.

One of the best anime of late. Beautifully made. It is dark, thrilling and keeps you on the endge of your seat(bed if you like me and watch it on your bed) in certain battle scenes.

I wish it didn't end saxib.

 

[Amal44]

how do you know how much money he makes when you haven't contacted him or talked to him since you were 11?

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

how do you know how much money he makes when you haven't contacted him or talked to him since you were 11?

She found old pay stubs buried in her mom's drawers. Ironically, this is what should happen and kids must and should make more money than their refugee parents. It should be a point of pride not that of derision.

But that is me. What do I know?

 

[Amal44]

She found old pay stubs buried in her mom's drawers. Ironically, this is what should happen and kids must and should make more money than their refugee parents. It should be a point of pride not that of derision.

But that is me. What do I know?

I'm not defending her deadbeat dad's actions which are atrocious, but making more money than her dad is hardly an achievement.

Learning a new language, being around such foreign territory, learning the culture, etc, puts someone at such a disadvantage over someone being born in the West.

especially back when there weren't as much refugees and you didn't have as many people that you can relate to.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

I'm not defending her deadbeat dad's actions which are atrocious, but making more money than her dad is hardly an achievement.

Learning a new language, being around such foreign territory, learning the culture, etc, puts someone at such a disadvantage over someone being born in the West.

especially back when there weren't as much refugees and you didn't have as many people that you can relate to.

True. Older generation had it tough and their children have it easier now because of their parent's endurance. One group is born into the culture and language of the west whilst the other had to learn to adopt to make any progress economically. Getting up the economic ladder wasn't easy and minimum wage jobs were the best jobs many could only get. Their paycheck would look small for that reason.

IftiinOflife may have grown into an adult lady, but she displays that she is still her father's daughter. Perhaps all her angst and expressions are desperate scream for him.

That is why those who are advising her to find her dad and make peace with him have the best advise. Without justifying failures, one must take a better course in life and do what is right.

 

[IftiinOfLife]

@ZakWantsToPlay i am a well adjusted and successful adult , but uh thanks for the kind words.

For all the others somalis in similar situations. Don’t stop believing, make goals and stick to them, avoid people who don’t want goodness for you.

 

[HalimaJ]

You didn't read my post, who is talking about blame at all?

As far as we know from Noah he was still married, a compassionate man who even during the flood pleaded for his Non Muslim son to join him and when he didn't still made dua to Allah for him after 950 years of Dawah

As far we know from Nabi Lut was still married and informed by Allah about the evils of his wife.

I find it strange you want use Prophets as an example for this shameful thread, the Prophets are in a complete different category when it comes to tests, they face the harshest of tests, do you think they would condone what this sister did and is planning to do?

As for bringing Ramla as an example equally shameful, the best of all men to walk this earth became her husband as a result of her patience and struggles for Islam.



Those are just your false assumptions, if anything your the arrogant one in this conversation with your philosophy of absolving yourself of any blame while blaming everyone else.

This what the accursed Shaytaan did blaming Allah, while Adam did the opposite and blamed himself which is my philosophy in conflict resolution and marital disputes.

Of course it's not in my hand so I always make dua against such trials and pray istikhara for any major decisions in life including marriage, it's part of the reason why I have been saved from marrying a diaspora female despite coming close 5 times.

Having to end up with someone like yourself that is short-sighted, lacks compassion/empathy and when it comes to conflict by default puts all blame on her partner while absolving herself is the epitome of arrogance and a recipe for disaster.

I hope for your own good and the good of your marriage you change this poisonous mindset which has to potential to destroy your marriage because serious conflicts will happen in your marriage and how you navigate through it will determine the course of it.

She herself never said that, it's just your own interpretation, she is keen to meet him for the wrong reasons and we can extrapolate from that she doesn't feel any danger or threat from him.

Unless you want to make the case she is crazy at the age of 30 and you don't trust her judgement, in which case you open a pandora box of problems.

Besides we only heard one side of the story and not the other, I am sure your well aware of the incident of Dawud in the Quran..

You're stupidity is showing. We are in charge of our actions. If I was to beat and mistreat my husband due to my narcissism, the main person to blame would be me, NOT him.If I was to drink alcohol, the main person to blame would be me. NOT him. Since the gender has been flipped, i know deep down you wholeheartedly agree with this point. If I was to behave in such a shameless manner, you would brand me an evil women and not once would you question what my husband might have done.

Your point isn't about taking responsibility, i can see right through you. Every thread of yours is about blaming women, even in times when women are oppressed.

If a person was to punch you in the streets, they would be to blame for oppressing you.

Also, since when have I absolved myself of any blame? Are you not the same man that is blaming an abused woman and iftin who was in fact a child when she tried to push her father? So you blame an abused woman and a child, before an adult man who drinks alcohol. Your agenda is clear to see.

Your evilness is so clear to see that today you defend an abusive drunkard.

Don't speak to me about my marriage or compassion, I have more compassion in my little finger than you have in your whole body.

I used the Prophets as a an example to show that people's spouses can be a test for us. Another human beings abuse, narcissism and evilness is not a direct reflection of us. Even the most righteous of people ended up married to horrible people, so what makes you think you can blame and look down on people who are misfortunate to be tested with such a marriage?

Every marriages has ups and down and I know this more than you. Before dishing out marriage advice, get married first. You have no idea what you are talking about and many of your posts are contradictory and hypocritical.

4 women every week are murdered by their husbands. Domestic violence against women and children is a world wide issue. I can imagine, you are the type of man that would defend the husband and scream 'what did the wife do to get herself killed!'

 

[Galool]

This whole thread you brag about how much money you made and how you wanna roast your mentally ill dad & brag to him.


From the information you gave, he sounds like he has psychological problems, heal