Ladies let’s prove a point to factz

[Horner]

I’ve never seen women who want to be a simple housewife, it’s only an ignorant guys dream

Me neither. It sounds absolutely dreadful. What's the point of working hard on your education and career if you're just going to give it all up later?

 

[Shushue]

Me neither. It sounds absolutely dreadful. What's the point of working hard on your education and career if you're just going to give it all up later?

The 21st century Somali man is a paradox, he’s got an iPhone but a 7th century brain

 

[Omnya]

Nin Rag ah waxa waye qofka xaaskisa cawiyo haday iyadu cuntada diyarinayso isagu caruurta bananka ha saro amba he cooks and She takes a nap

Exactly. Hadaba dad badan ba oo bahan ina intaas laga dhadhicyo

 

[Factz]

Qawwam in arabic doesnt mean obedience its a role of caretaking and protecting not lordship, ownership or guardianship

Its not a position of superiority it is however one of responsibility

Thats why A husband can islamically make final decisions in a family But its not permissible for him to act like a dictator doing whatever pleases him
Acting in such a way wouldnt be qawwam

Sometimes I feel like you're a Xalimo pretending to be a Farax. Listen, Allah made men and women different meaning we have different roles and the Qu'ran does explicitly talk about mothers being housewives.

If I work for many hours and come back home very tired. I expect my wife to do all the chores at home since it's not hard especially compared to my future job. I like to repeat myself again and again, if women choose to be mothers then it's their role and duty to be housewives, period.

 

[Viva Benadir]

I didnt change the religion you should study it again the "duty" that hadith refers to is having sex with your wife thats the obligation other Than that her responsibility is protecting youre house and not letting anyone in who you Dont approve it says no where she must Cook and clean

If a man commands his wife to cook or clean should she disobey him?

 

[Viva Benadir]

I’ve never seen women who want to be a simple housewife, it’s only an ignorant guys dream

Maybe you need to stop pre judging people and forcing them to adapt western mentality

 

[Mercury]

Exactly. Hadaba dad badan ba oo bahan ina intaas laga dhadhicyo

Kaligagi inaad isku filnato ba ficaan kawaran you smell good food hablaha xafada bad waydinaysa cuntadada macaan wax IgA siya

Only to be told wiilka yar ba sameystay isaga waydi hadu wax ku rebay ceeb maha

 

[Viva Benadir]

Actually she is right, Islamically, the women doesn't have to cook or clean. That's the overwhelming Islamic concensus.
In fact, if she was a woman who came from a wealthy home where her father/guardian used to look after her and pamper her, she is entitled to the exact same priveliged lifestyle from her husband.
Kitab Nikah 101

Sure. But what if her husband commands her to cook or clean, sould she disobey him?

 

[Muji]

Maybe you need to stop pre judging people and forcing them to adapt western mentality

If you hate the West so much and don’t want to adapt to your environment, why don’t you leave??

Serious question. You’re a hypocrite and a munafaq. Equality is literally built into Western law so if you don’t like it there are many countries where you are allowed to treat women as sub-human, so go there.

You are only pro-longing your misery even your cadcad cousin Won’t tolerate you and will divorce your ass.

 

[Muji]

Sure. But what if her husband commands her to cook or clean, sould she disobey him?

Lol look at the language you are using

Obey and disobey

We are not slaves you fool! Were you raised here??

 

[Shushue]

Can’t live them can’t live without them

 

[Viva Benadir]

If you hate the West so much and don’t want to adapt to your environment, why don’t you leave??

Serious question. You’re a hypocrite and a munafaq. Equality is literally built into Western law so if you don’t like it there are many countries where you are allowed to treat women as sub-human, so go there.

You are only pro-longing your misery even your cadcad cousin Won’t tolerate you and will divorce your ass.

I dont hate the west. But i dont lime it when ppl force me to adapt its mentality. Its technicaly blackmail. Its also an extreme

 

[Viva Benadir]

Lol look at the language you are using

Obey and disobey

We are not slaves you fool! Were you raised here??

I am meant to OBEY my parents. Does that make me a slave?

 

[anonymous34]

This thread is lowkey hilarious.

 

[anonymous34]

If you want good deed in the bed help the wife around the house. Women get turn on when their men help them with the house chores.

YOOO so women get turned on when they see their husband washing dishes

'Aboowe the way you are washing the dishes got me feeling xaaax'

 

[Shams nagi]

You do find girls who actually get married right after uni and settle to become housewives. but you see that's what you call preference, good on them and to each their own

That being said, I don't think the guy should expect a girl to drop everything after she gets married, you don't stop living after marriage.

Personally I wouldn't, can't let 6 years of uni go down the drain

 

[Abkaal]

Nin Rag ah waxa waye qofka xaaskisa cawiyo haday iyadu cuntada diyarinayso isagu caruurta bananka ha saro amba he cooks and She takes a nap

Naag dirac ahna waxa weeye naagtii Xaajigeeda markuu shaqada ku maqanyahay Cuntada u diyaarisa iyo markuu jiifaba

 

[World]

@Mercury

So a mans role is to work for the family, cook, clean and other household duties.

WTF is a female supposed to do????

 

[Muji]

I am meant to OBEY my parents. Does that make me a slave?

Lol so some farax is equivalent to my parents foh.

If you are looking for a relationship based on your wife obeying you, then go and marry in Somalia. Oppression does not sit well with educated women.

 

[Muji]

You do find girls who actually get married right after uni and settle to become housewives. but you see that's what you call preference, good on them and to each their own

That being said, I don't think the guy should expect a girl to drop everything after she gets married, you don't stop living after marriage.

Personally I wouldn't, can't let 6 years of uni go down the drain

Lol hilarious post

“Some women choose to leave university and cook and clean for a man good for them”

She then goes on to say
“But that’s beneath me”

Why do you co-sign something that you yourself wouldn’t want as it would be wasting your time.