Ladies let’s prove a point to factz

[Abkaal]

Ibn Maajah (1853) and al-Bayhaqi (14711) narrated that ‘Abdullah ibn Abi Awfa said: When Mu‘aadh ibn Jabal came from Syria, he prostrated to the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), who said, “What is this, O Mu‘aadh?” He said, I went to Syria and saw them prostrating to their archbishops and patriarchs, and I wanted to do that for you. The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said, “Do not do that. If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anyone other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman can fulfil her duty towards Allah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse.”

 

[Abkaal]

@Mercury

So a mans role is to work for the family, cook, clean and other household duties.

WTF is a female supposed to do????

The female @Mercury said you should cook while she takes a nap

 

[Muji]

This thread has been going on for two days and not one woman has come out to say she would pack in her career and be a housewife.

Case fucking closed.

 

[Abkaal]

Lol you Muslims can’t decide does Islam promote treating women and men the same or does a woman have to obey her husband.

You can’t have it both ways.

Women have to obey their husbands

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Funny how women forget that men are required to provide and put their life on the line for the wife and kids (a gender role btw), you’d almost think that homemaking and raising the kids would be a fair trade off. Huh.

 

[Muji]

Women have to obey their husbands

Right well you might wanna inform @Factz that Islam does not promote equality as he is going off in other threads.

 

[Muji]

Funny how women forget that men are required to provide and put their life on the line for the wife and kids (a gender role btw), you’d almost think that homemaking and raising the kids would be a fair trade off. Huh.

Shut up @PhaedrusHunt we are not living in middle age Arabia. We have police forces and laws now. Plus women can provide for themselves. Your environment has changed and if you fail to adapt you will die out like the Dodo bird or get divorced like @Factz will.

 

[Abkaal]

Right well you might wanna inform @Factz that Islam does not promote equality as he is going off in other threads.

"And wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excel others. For men there is allotted from what they have earned, (and likewise) from women there is allotted for what they have earned". [An- Nisaa`: 32]

 

[Shams nagi]

Lol hilarious post

“Some women choose to leave university and cook and clean for a man good for them”

She then goes on to say
“But that’s beneath me”

Why do you co-sign something that you yourself wouldn’t want as it would be wasting your time.

I don't think you fully understood what I said. Keyword here 'preference'.

If I PERSONALLY wouldn't want to take that route it doesn't mean that I see it as being 'beneath me'

We all have our own opinions on certain issues, you shouldn't force yours down peoples throats lol

 

[Viva Benadir]

@Mercury

So a mans role is to work for the family, cook, clean and other household duties.

WTF is a female supposed to do????

Nothing apparantly. They are queens.

 

[Viva Benadir]

Lol so some farax is equivalent to my parents foh.

If you are looking for a relationship based on your wife obeying you, then go and marry in Somalia. Oppression does not sit well with educated women.

Educated or not, a religious woman will obey her husband

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

Shut up @PhaedrusHunt we are not living in middle age Arabia. We have police forces and laws now. Plus women can provide for themselves. Your environment has changed and if you fail to adapt you will die out like the Dodo bird or get divorced like @Factz will.

Raising children is an important and noble endeavour, it seems feminism has distorted this truth from you. I’m sure you wouldn’t want Emma from the local day care centre to spend more time/have a more considerable impact on your children’s lives while you’re slaving away in corporate.

 

[Muji]

Raising children is an important and noble endeavour, it seems feminism has distorted this truth from you. I’m sure you wouldn’t want Emma from the local day care centre to spend more time/have a more considerable impact on your children’s lives while you’re slaving away in corporate.

Why don’t you stay at home and look after your children. Some men do it and love the time they get to spend with their families.

 

[Viva Benadir]

This thread has been going on for two days and not one woman has come out to say she would pack in her career and be a housewife.

Case fucking closed.

Ok. Well done. But you cant change our religion for feminism. Im sorry gtfo now

 

[Muji]

I would only stay at home and look after the brats under two conditions.

The man earn over 100k dollars
All of his pay check goes directly to me.

As a home maker it makes sense that his money goes into my account so I can use it as I see fit, rather than going back to him like a child.

@PhaedrusHunt @Factz @Viva Benadir do you have any problems with this?

 

[PhaedrusHunt]

I would only stay at home and look after the brats under two conditions.

The man earn over 100k dollars
All of his pay check goes directly to me.

As a home maker it makes sense that his money goes into my account so I can use it as I see fit, rather than going back to him like a child.

@PhaedrusHunt @Factz @Viva Benadir do you have any problems with this?

Maybe the 100k part but you’re making progress nonetheless.

Jokes aside, I see women who place an importance on their career over their children as selfish. Motherhood in essence is unselfishness, when you become a mother you are no longer the centre of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

@PhaedrusHunt @Factz dp y’all personally know females in college who are actually deciding to become housewives once they get married.

What’s the whole point of going to college if your not going to use your degree. A majority of the hijabis I know here in the states are attending universities. They all pretty much have career goals.

I’m honeslty not expecting to have a housewife at all.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Maybe the 100k part but you’re making progress nonetheless.

Jokes aside, I see women who place an importance on their career over their children as selfish. Motherhood in essence is unselfishness, when you become a mother you are no longer the centre of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children.

Same goes if your a father. That’s why we got all these deadbeat dads that barely hang out with their kids. Even if they do work a busy schedule they wouldn’t even try to hang out with their kids when they were off. Just come home go to sleep and that’s it.

 

[Muji]

Maybe the 100k part but you’re making progress nonetheless.

Jokes aside, I see women who place an importance on their career over their children as selfish. Motherhood in essence is unselfishness, when you become a mother you are no longer the centre of your own universe. You relinquish that position to your children.

We can say the same thing about men.

 

[Muji]

@PhaedrusHunt @Factz dp y’all personally know females in college who are actually deciding to become housewives once they get married.

What’s the whole point of going to college if your not going to use your degree. A majority of the hijabis I know here in the states are attending universities. They all pretty much have career goals.

I’m honeslty not expecting to have a housewife at all.

Don’t bother yourself with these Neanderthals, watch how they ran away when I asked them if they are willing to be the provider and hand over their income.

Silly little boys acting like men