I was insinuating a woman couldn't convince a man to switch sides without real reasoning, the mere virtue of vagina doesn't cut it. As the saying goes... Men get with women with the hope they will never change, but they do. Women get with men with the hope they will change, but they don't.
Yes but Somali woman know how to treat their men.
It is well known that men don't change yes, culture and religion would be the factors that draw me to Somali men. I assume, it's the same for Somali men too.