Don't get married then.Not only would I not go above 3999$, she will have to invest in her wedding as well. Ain't no way I am paying ridiculous meher followed by a wedding plus money to her parents. Absolutely not. I will pay 10k meher if she finances 70% of the wedding, 20k meher if she finances 99% of the wedding. Did i slave away all those years for her?
Hope you marry a wench