How to know your spouse is cheating on you?

[sigmund]

There's been so many cases where couples have been together for more than 30 years than one day decides to wake-up and cheat. This is my biggest fear in marriage because even if you believe in him and know his ins and out he could one day be bored and wander around behind his wife back. Heck this also applies to married women she could easily cheat in peace if her husband is at work 24/7.

What tips/advise would you give to couples in general about this situation? having an affair is a common practice regardless of your faith and most are oblivion to this.

 

[Littleme]

There's been so many cases where couples have been together for more than 30 years than one day decides to wake-up and cheat. This is my biggest fear in marriage because even if you believe in him and know his ins and out he could one day be bored and wander around behind his wife back. Heck this also applies to married women she could easily cheat in peace if her husband is at work 24/7.

What tips/advise would you give to couples in general about this situation? having an affair is a common practice regardless of your faith and most are oblivion to this.

Always pray istikhara if you’re ever open to getting to know someone for marriage

 

[sigmund]

Always pray istikhara if you’re ever open to getting to know someone for marriage

yep I'm searching for all islamic related things when I feel like I'm ready to get married. Just the fear of cheating gets to me you just never known in this new technological world.

 

[Ayubi]

Spending or finding time to spend with your spouse would reduce chances of them cheating.

 

[416]

You can’t control your partners every move , it’s all about trust. If they cheat on you that means they don’t respect you and the trust doesn’t exist. Save yourself the time and leave them. Only simps and wacals forgive cheaters.

 

[sigmund]

Spending or finding time to spend with your spouse would reduce chances of them cheating.

true. But at the same time we can't do anything to prevent cheating you could take your spouse a voyage trip around the world and will still gave time to be unfaithful. I heard way too many stories. Ofcourse is important to pit your trust in your spouse

 

[sigmund]

You can’t control your partners every move , it’s all about trust. If they cheat on you that means they don’t respect you and the trust doesn’t exist. Save yourself the time and leave them. Only simps and wacals forgive cheaters.

but how would you know they're cheating on you? how would you know while your working your butt off giving income to your wife and satisfying her for to have an affair remember she's at home 24/7

 

[416]

but how would you know they're cheating on you? how would you know while your working your butt off giving income to your wife and satisfying her for to have an affair remember she's at home 24/7

You’ll eventually find out. They start to feel guilt and shame. And even if you don’t, they’re going to feel Allah’s wrath in qiyaamah which is worse than w.e you could’ve done to them

 

[sigmund]

You’ll eventually find out. They start to feel guilt and shame. And even if you don’t, they’re going to feel Allah’s wraith in qiyaamah which is worse than w.e you could’ve done to them

true lies prevail eventually may allah protect us from having a cheater for a spouse!!!!

 

[Life]

Islamically men are allowed to cheat aka marry other women behind your back.

 

[fox]

You simply taste her p.u.n.a.n.i

 

[Nostalgia]

How he approached you is very important. If he is over confident when he comes up to you then he most likely is comfortable with talking to women and does that a lot. If he seems shy or doesn't approach you directly or talks to your family to ask to get to know you is a good sign.

 

[sigmund]

You simply taste her ******i

for my husband??

 

[fox]

for my husband??

Oh then I don't know.

 

[sigmund]

Oh then I don't know.

I'm doomed

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Hire a detective and follow him.

Once you catch him cheating, call your brothers and cousins on him.

 

[416]

How he approached you is very important. If he is over confident when he comes up to you then he most likely is comfortable with talking to women and does that a lot. If he seems shy or doesn't approach you directly or talks to your family to ask to get to know you is a good sign.

 

[416]

Hire a detective and follow him.

Once you catch him cheating, call your brothers and cousins on him.

What if you are cousins

 

[Radical]

Marry an ugly dude so you don't have to worry

 

[fox]

I'm doomed

And frankly if your husband "cheats", you should just accept it. Evolutionary biologists have dealt with this matter; getting with more than one qalanjo is an inherited evolutionary instinct that we have no control of.