Inquisitive_
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I’m laidback and chill and so is she I don’t enforce rules nor do I see the point of Controlling the household cause we both are in charge of the household we cook and clean together and any changes we think about we sit and communicate about it
Anybody worried about authority in marriage isn’t ready for an adult relationship
Every organisation, cooperation or business has hierarchies, a clear chain of command and authority that is handed down from top to bottom.
Without this, there is confusion, which leads to chaos and the eventual collapse of that business, organisation or cooperation.
Our Prophet (PBUH) even went as far as to say that we should appoint a leader if we are more then 2 people for this very reason!.
Your idealistic machinations have no application in the real world and for you to come with the ridiculous notion that a household which is worth far more then any business, cooperation or organisation should have no hierarchy and no leader, show's how disturbingly out of touch you are with reality.