I once saw this clip about the miiyga & how Somali family lives I was suprised to see the woman doing all the work & the man going for shax in the nearest village them comeback to the house take some money from the wife just so that he could chew khat while the woman has her baby on her back taking the sheep selling vegetables taking care of the house
Somali dhaqan is amongst the most misogynistic in the world & when women complain about there mistreatment Somali make make maahmaah like rag waa shax dumarna waa sheeko
Imagine men that are use to that lifestyle coming to the west & obeying women as they wear the pants around the house so if he doesn't submit then it's bacda madow. The system in the west favours mothers over the father whereas in Somalia it's the other way around. As there's no father in the house there's no male role model for the girl so she developes a deep sense of disdain for Somali men in general.
It's the system that's been rigged out here in the west fathers have no rights over there children & a mother can't discipline a child, show them tough love like a father cause they're not built like that, women are nurturer, too compassionate, hence a present situation in the west many Somali boys in prison & girls getting married to tom dick & harry cause there's no father figure around the house.