Help-I'm attracted to adeero's!

[kaluumayste]

What are the odds this will happen when the couple is Somali?

Walaal it happens i don't know where this irrational fear of marrying young faraax came from.

 

[landheer]

I am quickly developing a bidaar. So I now look like an adeer so seduce me now.

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

No I meant if i marry an old guy now he can never leave me for a younger girl because that is me (and won't get the time to do that bcos by the time Im older he is *very* old, if he's alive)

Abaayo that's a bit insecure. That shouldn't be one of the reasons you want an older man, just my opinion . Also abaayo when he grows old you have to take care of him and the kids

 

[XaawoLuul]

I will probably marry a teenager when I’m old, since they appear to like oldies...

Oi you can't do that, sit by your prayer mat and tusbax.

 

[XaawoLuul]

Walaal it happens i don't know where this irrational fear of marrying young faraax came from.

Yeah it happens like in 1/1000 couples and then their stories get plastered all over SomaliFaces where they go viral because we're all so shocked.

 

[Abkaal]

As Somalis say Nin Kaa weyn ayaa ku dhaqi kara get yourself an adeer, nothing wrong with that. The inexperienced incels in the west have no shukaansi game whilst your typical adeer courted many reer miyi woman that is hard to pull.

 

[Slickback]

@XaawoLuul how old are we talking

 

[kaluumayste]

Yeah it happens like in 1/1000 couples and then their stories get plastered all over SomaliFaces where they go viral because we're all so shocked.

I'm sure you know that not all Somalis are on social media

 

[XaawoLuul]

Abaayo that's a bit insecure. That shouldn't be one of the reasons you want an older man, just my opinion . Also abaayo when he grows old you have to take care of him and the kids

True, I have issues and I know it deep down. No worries, this Ramadan, on Laylatul Qadr I'll be asking ilaahey to cleanse me of this Old Man fetish inshallah.

 

[XaawoLuul]

I am quickly developing a bidaar. So I now look like an adeer so seduce me now.

Kuma rabo.

 

[XaawoLuul]

@XaawoLuul how old are we talking

35+

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Kuma rabo.

So blunt mashallah
Hadda ba waa ku sheegey that user is Saqajaan waxid

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

35+

Adna meeqa jirtaa?
How old is your father if you don't mind me asking?

 

[XaawoLuul]

Adna meeqa jirtaa?
How old is your father if you don't mind me asking?

Im in my early 20s, my dad is in his 50s

 

[XaawoLuul]

Are you a single mother or still not married yet?

Never married

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Im in my early 20s, my dad is in his 50s

I think you need to lower the age a teeny bit make 35 your maximum then it won't be so close to your father as that I assume will be rather awkward.

 

[landheer]

Kuma rabo.

Why you gotta be so rude?

 

[Jake from State Farm]

She probably gets turned on to Donald trump speeches

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

She probably gets turned on to Donald trump speeches

Sxb that's not nice she said 35 not 70

 

[Somali Legend]

Dhamaan waad salaaman tihiin,

Basically my issue is I enjoy entertaining the advances of the uncles and dare I say I enjoy conversing with them more than my peers. Now because of education marriage isn't on the cards anytime soon however in a few years time I am wondering whether I even want to marry a guy of similar age to me. Is this just a phase? Quite frankly I could only imagine the shock horror of my parents if I were to bring home a guy of their age. This realisation I have had is tearing me apart. Perhaps I need Quraan Saar.

Edit: Im not talking about my actual adeer, just older somali guys that could be my uncle.

Go after what your heart wants. Give older Somali men a chance. They just want a side piece.