He sounds Reer Miyi.
Large families are not the problem. What is pernicious is his attitude toward "women" as dispensable and no more valuable than the number of children they produce. This man is disjointed from reality and life outside of Somalia, where the balance of power is tipped in favour of women that enjoy greater access to education, healthcare, social services, protection under the law, and better employment prospects. Somali women in the west know they have more money to blow, greater options, and do not have to jump into a marriage for financial reasons to become a broodmare. He is the type of man who would disrespect his miskeen wife he sponsored from back home, saddle her with several kids, only to ignore her feelings, and take on a younger wife from the old country to stroke his aging and shriveled ego.