Reminder: it’s about the quality not the quantity.
Same with me both my awoowes had multiple wives. You gotta spread your seed far Nd build many treesWhat is the point of getting married if not to have as many children as possible and increase the size of your clan? If you are not willing to give birth to boys that will further my lineage, what good are you?
Both my grandfathers had over 24 children each. 10 children are a compromise.
I dont think not wanting kids is haram... u dont have to have children i feel like ppl r so wrapped up with society and to pleasing society. Theres nothing in the quran that says u must have kidsNot wanting kids completely is haram.
But planned parenthood were you take breaks ect isn't.
Wouldn’t you say it has more to do with the man you married rather than having children?I dno how somali women do it wallahi.. i gave birth twice with the worst ptsd ever i am still depressed to this day im not even 30 yet and im feel like an ancient person... also i had no help from the father, my mother is my only support