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relax sahib i fast during ramadan but i just dont pray my daily prayers thats all
You fast but yet you don't pray?
relax sahib i fast during ramadan but i just dont pray my daily prayers thats all
You fast but yet you don't pray?
You can fast if you want to if you’re not MuslimYou fast but yet you don't pray?
You can fast if you want to if you’re not Muslim
I feel this thread has derailed into trying to convert me back to Islam, that’s not going to happen I specifically asked y’all not to do that in the original post.
Thank you to all of the members who gave me advice, I really appreciate it sincerely.
I don’t plan on finishing studying because I hate the program I’m studying (nursing) and from experience in working in a clinical setting I know I won’t be happy doing that so why bother putting more years into that. I’d just be wasting years of my life. I know something else I’m good at and will make good money off. I’m tired of wasting my life. I feel like a coward, keep putting off what needs to be done
I’m leaning towards suggesting the idea of my leaving for school in a different state/country, which my parents will of course immediately reject, then I’ll pack up and leave while they’re gone, call my mother from the airport telling her I’ve accepted the offer to study abroad. Tell her I have to do this and I love her and remain in contact, and slower lessen the contact, so that we talk one or twice a month. And over time I’ll visit on occasion but stay in a hotel as I wouldn’t feel safe being in the home alone with them. I’ll save up while I’m gone and first time I come back I’ll give them at least 50k in cash so hopeful that’ll make them forgive me a bit. This way I don’t cut contact completely but they don’t have control I’ve my life as easily but I’m still there when needed.
You gotta take some risks in life right? This might just be the best thing I ever did. Might be a mistake, but at least it’ll be an exciting adventure. Either way I’m willing to live with the consequences. I’m tired of being cowardly. I need to take this risk.
How close are you too finishing nursing money is super important in life and with money you could change your career. I do wish you luck hopfully you find happiness.I feel this thread has derailed into trying to convert me back to Islam, that’s not going to happen I specifically asked y’all not to do that in the original post.
Thank you to all of the members who gave me advice, I really appreciate it sincerely.
I don’t plan on finishing studying because I hate the program I’m studying (nursing) and from experience in working in a clinical setting I know I won’t be happy doing that so why bother putting more years into that. I’d just be wasting years of my life. I know something else I’m good at and will make good money off. I’m tired of wasting my life. I feel like a coward, keep putting off what needs to be done
I’m leaning towards suggesting the idea of my leaving for school in a different state/country, which my parents will of course immediately reject, then I’ll pack up and leave while they’re gone, call my mother from the airport telling her I’ve accepted the offer to study abroad. Tell her I have to do this and I love her and remain in contact, and slower lessen the contact, so that we talk one or twice a month. And over time I’ll visit on occasion but stay in a hotel as I wouldn’t feel safe being in the home alone with them. I’ll save up while I’m gone and first time I come back I’ll give them at least 50k in cash so hopeful that’ll make them forgive me a bit. This way I don’t cut contact completely but they don’t have control I’ve my life as easily but I’m still there when needed.
You gotta take some risks in life right? This might just be the best thing I ever did. Might be a mistake, but at least it’ll be an exciting adventure. Either way I’m willing to live with the consequences. I’m tired of being cowardly. I need to take this risk.
Management. Yeah I fee I owe them a lot of money to be able to lessen our contact further. Yes I think it’ll be risky living alone in a strange city with no friends or family but I’ll be fine (I hope lol), I’m more resilient than I look. I got me.In what field are you planing to work, 50k is a lot! I hope you stay safe, living by yourself aint easy. You need ppl around you who will check up on you.
Thanks buddy. I have 2 more yrs to get my bachelors in nursing but I don’t wish to finish it because I don’t like the medical field. Only reason I went that way is cus my mother wanted me to do so. Don’t worry, I’m too smart to ever be financially insecure.How close are you too finishing nursing money is super important in life and with money you could change your career. I do wish you luck hopfully you find happiness.
Management. Yeah I fee I owe them a lot of money to be able to lessen our contact further. Yes I think it’ll be risky living alone in a strange city with no friends or family but I’ll be fine (I hope lol), I’m more resilient than I look. I got me.
I feel this thread has derailed into trying to convert me back to Islam, that’s not going to happen I specifically asked y’all not to do that in the original post.
Thank you to all of the members who gave me advice, I really appreciate it sincerely.
I don’t plan on finishing studying because I hate the program I’m studying (nursing) and from experience in working in a clinical setting I know I won’t be happy doing that so why bother putting more years into that. I’d just be wasting years of my life. I know something else I’m good at and will make good money off. I’m tired of wasting my life. I feel like a coward, keep putting off what needs to be done
I’m leaning towards suggesting the idea of my leaving for school in a different state/country, which my parents will of course immediately reject, then I’ll pack up and leave while they’re gone, call my mother from the airport telling her I’ve accepted the offer to study abroad. Tell her I have to do this and I love her and remain in contact, and slower lessen the contact, so that we talk one or twice a month. And over time I’ll visit on occasion but stay in a hotel as I wouldn’t feel safe being in the home alone with them. I’ll save up while I’m gone and first time I come back I’ll give them at least 50k in cash so hopeful that’ll make them forgive me a bit. This way I don’t cut contact completely but they don’t have control I’ve my life as easily but I’m still there when needed.
You gotta take some risks in life right? This might just be the best thing I ever did. Might be a mistake, but at least it’ll be an exciting adventure. Either way I’m willing to live with the consequences. I’m tired of being cowardly. I need to take this risk.
How did I miss this tread.
galos.
imagine raising a daughter only to find out she joined the community of galos.
Just learn to respect people's opinion
The lack of perspective on this site is honestly downright disturbing.
The world doesn't revolve around your belief.
I really couldn’t care less about your perspective. I would consider myself as complete failure if my daughter became a gaal.
her parents are failures.
alhamdulliah for the niamah of Islam.
A child isn't an extension of your being, only an individual you have great influence.
By your logic prophet Nuh is considered a failure for having a non-believer son.
you misunderstand me. Having galo kids Is not parent thing issue completely. But from experience majority of s9mali galos in the west turn galos because the parents have slacked off or were non existent in first place or raised in a single mom household.
kids can be better than parents too. Case in point Ibrahim as.
Considering your post history, I'm not gonna bother arguing with you, especially considering how badly you backtracked.
Have a good day I guess.
I feel this thread has derailed into trying to convert me back to Islam, that’s not going to happen I specifically asked y’all not to do that in the original post.
Thank you to all of the members who gave me advice, I really appreciate it sincerely.
I don’t plan on finishing studying because I hate the program I’m studying (nursing) and from experience in working in a clinical setting I know I won’t be happy doing that so why bother putting more years into that. I’d just be wasting years of my life. I know something else I’m good at and will make good money off. I’m tired of wasting my life. I feel like a coward, keep putting off what needs to be done
I’m leaning towards suggesting the idea of my leaving for school in a different state/country, which my parents will of course immediately reject, then I’ll pack up and leave while they’re gone, call my mother from the airport telling her I’ve accepted the offer to study abroad. Tell her I have to do this and I love her and remain in contact, and slower lessen the contact, so that we talk one or twice a month. And over time I’ll visit on occasion but stay in a hotel as I wouldn’t feel safe being in the home alone with them. I’ll save up while I’m gone and first time I come back I’ll give them at least 50k in cash so hopeful that’ll make them forgive me a bit. This way I don’t cut contact completely but they don’t have control I’ve my life as easily but I’m still there when needed.
You gotta take some risks in life right? This might just be the best thing I ever did. Might be a mistake, but at least it’ll be an exciting adventure. Either way I’m willing to live with the consequences. I’m tired of being cowardly. I need to take this risk.
I really can't convey how I truly feel about Islam over text but all I can say for now is that I'm trying my best to be a better Muslim
I pray 5 times, I'm on track to finishing the Quran during Ramadan and I haven't miss a single day of fasting.
Yet I still feel a heaviness in my heart and my mind wonders whether I'll truly be happy like this for the rest of my life.
I'm still young and naive so hopefully things change for the better in the future but for now this lifestyle is exhausting me.