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Reborn
You fast but yet you don't pray?
Exmuslims- Cutting contact with family- Advice needed
- Thread starter Jacki
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You fast but yet you don't pray?
You can fast if you want to if you’re not Muslim
0117
Reborn
Yh of course you can do that but I thought he was a muslim
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Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
In what field are you planing to work, 50k is a lot! I hope you stay safe, living by yourself aint easy. You need ppl around you who will check up on you.
How close are you too finishing nursing money is super important in life and with money you could change your career. I do wish you luck hopfully you find happiness.
Management. Yeah I fee I owe them a lot of money to be able to lessen our contact further. Yes I think it’ll be risky living alone in a strange city with no friends or family but I’ll be fine (I hope lol), I’m more resilient than I look. I got me.
Thanks buddy. I have 2 more yrs to get my bachelors in nursing but I don’t wish to finish it because I don’t like the medical field. Only reason I went that way is cus my mother wanted me to do so. Don’t worry, I’m too smart to ever be financially insecure.
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Laa ta aamin nin wa law kaana ninkaaga- bom!
Masha‘allah, I wish you success and safety. I hope you find whatever you are looking for. May Allah give you guidance. But yeah cutting ties with family is a tough one, hopefully you find a better solution. One were you and your family are safe and happy
Oh and to the people who replied to this and are saying things like “my family is accepting, they don’t bother me over my lack of religion. You’re over reacting, just tell them, they won’t care” gFUCK YOUUU. Everybody is not as lucky as you are, how incredible disrespectful and inconsiderate to dismiss something as huge as cutting relations with your family as “over reaction” “it’s not that serious” fight me b
You need some money saved up, don't cut ties without having at least 30k in the bank. You will also be working dead end jobs to just SURVIVE, take calculated risks not jusr risks.
psyche
To each their own
Just learn to respect people's opinion
The lack of perspective on this site is honestly downright disturbing.
The world doesn't revolve around your belief.
I really couldn’t care less about your perspective. I would consider myself as complete failure if my daughter became a gaal.
her parents are failures.
alhamdulliah for the niamah of Islam.
psyche
To each their own
A child isn't an extension of your being, only an individual you have great influence on.
By your logic prophet Nuh is considered a failure for having a non-believer son.
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you misunderstand me. Having galo kids Is not parent thing issue completely. But from experience majority of s9mali galos in the west turn galos because the parents have slacked off or were non existent in first place or raised in a single mom household.
kids can be better than parents too. Case in point Ibrahim as.
psyche
To each their own
Considering your post history, I'm not gonna bother arguing with you, especially considering how badly you backtracked.
Have a good day I guess.
good day gaal lover
Do you think 50k or any amount of cash will mend your parent’s hearts?
Wallahi you’re going to break your mother’s heart. You can never understand what it means to be a mother until you’re one yourself.
You grew in her stomach for 9 months, she went through the pain of labour, she nursed you and had sleepless nights taking care of you. She watched you take your first steps, say your first words...she watched you grow up...happily sacrificing anything for you.
Wallahi i feel so bad for your mum. Is it worth chasing after the freedom you’re seeking even if it means tearing your mum’s heart apart?
Even if you are no longer Muslim...your mum deserves your compassion and companionship.
If you would take my advice I would implore you not to make any drastic decisions. Don’t just leave...don’t tell them you’re no longer Muslim. Rather think about pleasing your mother before yourself... because at the end of the day you can never repay her enough for the love and affection she gave you from the day you were conceived.
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “When Allah created Paradise and Hellfire, he sent Gabriel to Paradise saying: Behold it and what I have prepared therein for its people. Gabriel came and looked at it and what Allah had prepared therein for its people. He returned to Allah and he said: By your might, no one will hear of it but that he will enter it. Allah ordered that it be surrounded by adversity and he said: Return to it and behold what I have prepared therein for its people. Gabriel returned and found that it was surrounded by hardship. He returned to Allah and he said: By your might, I fear that no one will enter it. Allah said: Go to the Hellfire and behold it and what I have prepared therein for its people. Gabriel found that it was in layers, one above another. He returned to Allah and he said: By your might, no one who hears of it will enter it. Allah ordered that it be surrounded by desires and he said: Return to it. Gabriel returned and he said: By your might, I fear that no one will escape it.”
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2560
Bro strive no matter what. Fighting against the islamophobia and all the doubts prevalent today is a hardship...doing good deeds, fasting, waking up at night to pray etc is a hardship... fighting against your jinn qareen who wants to mislead you and beautify your desires is a hardship...fighting against iblees and his army of shaytaan from mankind and jinn who want you to disbelief in Allah and join them in the hellfire is a hardship.
Jannah..the happiness of your Lord is only attained after fighting against all the hardships placed against you in this temporary world.
However, know that with imaan and anticipating reward...that all these hardships in this life will become sweet.
Praying 5 times a day will become something that you look forward to and find happiness in.
Fasting in the month of Ramadan will be a month that you heart finds peace in.
Happiness is only attained when you seek the pleasure of Allah wallahi....everything else in this life pales in comparison.
Those who believe (in the Oneness of Allah), and whose hearts find rest in the remembrance of Allah, Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.
Surah a’raad 13:28
