Can we pls stop bullying Somali women for being 30 and single

Im sorry but again this is western thinking
Have u ever heard that we do not have enough food to feed the entire world
guess what that is also a lie
We have enough resources to suffice the entire world, we have enough to have billions of more people, Allah said in the Quran that having children increases rizq, this western thinking goes against Islam, in fact it benefits them more bc they can get Muslims to have less children.
Overpopulation in of itself is a myth, the problem is with greedy people not wanting the world to increase in population, its got nothing to do with survival of humanity
Didn’t I read somewhere that in countries such as the UK, the Muslim population is increasing due to many Muslim familes having a lot of chidlren and outnumbering the white British ?
… but you really beilve overpopualtion is a myth ? You really beileve that these food shortages are a myth as well ?
 
Then why are you telling me that?
Because, you said it’s a small number and not many women go through that.
When I know a lot of women who have gone through intensive survives to fix issues form having so many kids.
But I’m not allowed to use that as it’s not speaking for the whole female population which I get… but do you know how many women keep it a secret as it’s shameful to talk about the medical conditions that arises from childbirth ?
 
Didn’t I read somewhere that in countries such as the UK, the Muslim population is increasing due to many Muslim familes having a lot of chidlren and outnumbering the white British ?
Thats because of the refugees and foreigners who ahd alot of children, the second and third generations are having less and less children, u can see this in studies.
It may have been high at first but now it is slowly decreasing due to western influence
 
Because, you said it’s a small number and not many women go through that.
Yes its true.
I have medical conditions too but I don't act like I am the majority, just bc u have something doesn't mean someone always needs to mention the exception when they state a general rule.
 
Take your advice from a thrice divorced deadbeat that died in an apartment away from his family with an escort
Not to mention he was broke b4 youtube and lied about having a high source of income and most of his high income came from lying to people on youtube to buy his courses or whatever, he wasnt even the high value man which he claimed to be, ironically he had to pay a women to have sex with him despite the fact he is such a "high value man"
 
Yes its true.
I have medical conditions too but I don't act like I am the majority, just bc u have something doesn't mean someone always needs to mention the exception when they state a general rule.
I rarely ever say it. I keep it to myself, but this is a public forum and anonymous. I never said cause of my condition I am representing the majority at all.
 
Yes its true.
I have medical conditions too but I don't act like I am the majority, just bc u have something doesn't mean someone always needs to mention the exception when they state a general rule.
I think my main point in all of this… is just I just want people to not question on why women don’t have kids. So even if my issue is a small representation of women, and not all women may have a medical issue … my point still stands on how it’s not fair to question why they don’t have children.
 

Qeelbax

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Thats a very small percentage of the population.
Majority of women do not have that excuse
Excuse? You don’t need any excuse. Sunnah is extra points not wajib.

Not everyone wants kids or likes them. Some women don’t want to mess up their bodies and some don’t want to handle the stress while others are infertile or have a high-risk.

Fantasy Its Your Life GIF by Earth, Wind & Fire
 
I think my main point in all of this… is just I just want people to not question on why women don’t have kids. So even if my issue is a small representation of women, and not all women may have a medical issue … my point still stands on how it’s not fair to question why they don’t have children.
It is fair to question woman in general, because nowadays ppl dont have children just to enjoy life, and it is against the sunnah, obviously u should never overgeneralise but u have to realise women having less and less children is an epidemic and needs to be addressed, and its not always the women sometimes its the mans fault, but medical conditions and exceptions are usually not being addressed when ppl address women in general

If I tell kids they should be working harder and school and getting better grades I don't think anybody would disagree with me
But if someone says I cannot do that as I have to support my family at a young age I am obviously not addressing them in my general response
 
Excuse? You don’t need any excuse. Sunnah is extra points not wajib.

Not everyone wants kids or likes them. Some women don’t want to mess up their bodies and some don’t want to handle the stress while others are infertile or have a high-risk.

Fantasy Its Your Life GIF by Earth, Wind & Fire
No its a sin not to follow the sunnah.
I am not talking about sunnah in the fiqhi sense, but in the fiqhi sense having kids would be waajib upon most ppl unless they have a proper excuse.
 
Excuse? You don’t need any excuse. Sunnah is extra points not wajib.

Not everyone wants kids or likes them. Some women don’t want to mess up their bodies and some don’t want to handle the stress while others are infertile or have a high-risk.

Fantasy Its Your Life GIF by Earth, Wind & Fire
t was narrated from Anas that there was a group of the Companions of the Prophet, one of whom said: "I will not marry women." Another said: "I will not eat meat." Another said: "I will not sleep on a bed." Another said: "I will fast and not break my fast." News of that reached the Messenger of Allah and he praised Allah then said: "What is the matter with people who say such and such? But I pray and I sleep, I fast and I break my fast, and I marry women. Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not of me."

أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ، قَالَ أَنْبَأَنَا عَفَّانُ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ، أَنَّ نَفَرًا، مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ بَعْضُهُمْ لاَ أَتَزَوَّجُ النِّسَاءَ ‏.‏ وَقَالَ بَعْضُهُمْ لاَ آكُلُ اللَّحْمَ ‏.‏ وَقَالَ بَعْضُهُمْ لاَ أَنَامُ عَلَى فِرَاشٍ ‏.‏ وَقَالَ بَعْضُهُمْ أَصُومُ فَلاَ أُفْطِرُ ‏.‏ فَبَلَغَ ذَلِكَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ ثُمَّ قَالَ ‏ "‏ مَا بَالُ أَقْوَامٍ يَقُولُونَ كَذَا وَكَذَا لَكِنِّي أُصَلِّي وَأَنَامُ وَأَصُومُ وَأُفْطِرُ وَأَتَزَوَّجُ النِّسَاءَ فَمَنْ رَغِبَ عَنْ سُنَّتِي فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي ‏"‏ ‏.‏

Grade: Sahih (Darussalam)
 

Qeelbax

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It isnt an individual women or an exception
It is a growing trend for women now, all you have to do is a simple google searches on statistics and you can see the population growth is going down and number of children are going down with Muslims in the west and even in Muslim countries, this culture will eventuallly destroy us
I am not talking about exceptional cases
Is that not what’s meant to happen? The world ends innit?
:reallymaury:
Also you only need two kids to maintain constant population. Muslim countries are way above that. We aren’t sorry that woman don’t want to pop 7 kids for no reason
I Dont Care Shrug GIF by Puss In Boots
 
No its a sin not to follow the sunnah.
I am not talking about sunnah in the fiqhi sense, but in the fiqhi sense having kids would be waajib upon most ppl unless they have a proper excuse.
Ok so some people excuse are … they don’t like children. Wallahi, the amount of people I know .. men and women who have admitted that to me …
Said they flat out don’t like them and are too selfish to raise them and ruin their bodies and give up their life …
They’ve said why should I be a parent to a kid I’ll resent ? Ide rather not have them and perhaps regret it, then have kids knowing I don’t like them and may end up resenting them…

Shouldn’t we want chidlren to be born to parents who genuinely love and wnt them ? And not just have them cause sunnah or society said so ?
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
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No its a sin not to follow the sunnah.
I am not talking about sunnah in the fiqhi sense, but in the fiqhi sense having kids would be waajib upon most ppl unless they have a proper excuse.
LMAO. You don’t have to get married or have kids. It’s not haram wtf is you even talking about.
It’s not a sin to not have kids even if it isn’t following Sunnah.
:what:
 
Is that not what’s meant to happen? The world ends innit?
:reallymaury:
Also you only need two kids to maintain constant population. Muslim countries are way above that. We aren’t sorry that woman don’t want to pop 7 kids for no reason
I Dont Care Shrug GIF by Puss In Boots
No u need an average of 3 kids, factor in that there will be ppl who have less than that then u need other parts of the population to have way more than 3.

Also having as many children as possible is mustahaab
 
LMAO. You don’t have to get married or have kids. It’s not haram wtf is you even talking about.
It’s not a sin to not have kids even if it isn’t following Sunnah.
:what:
If the person has no excuse for doing it that it can count as a sin.
And "I want to enjoy my life" Is not a valid excuse
If u cant not get married to concentrate on religion than what do u think about the one who doesnt want to get married bc of dunya reasons.
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
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No its a sin not to follow the sunnah.
I am not talking about sunnah in the fiqhi sense, but in the fiqhi sense having kids would be waajib upon most ppl unless they have a proper excuse.
Didn’t prophet muhammed saw not have children with most of his wives?
:mjhaps::snoop:
If you aren’t stopping a pregnancy and you just never have a child then that’s that. There’s personal choice in Islam bro, marriage and procreation is encouraged in Islam, it isn’t a must.
Y’all making the deen harder than it already is.
 

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