How do you know ? Go ahead and ask them.I think these new generation of women is very pampered and spoiled, our hooyos and grandmothers have 7+ kids with no complaints.
How do you know ? Go ahead and ask them.I think these new generation of women is very pampered and spoiled, our hooyos and grandmothers have 7+ kids with no complaints.
Marriage is Sunnah. Not getting married is not haram. In fact, at times it is preferable not to. Example, if you're assexual or if for whatever lifestyle reasons you feel like you won't be able to give a spouse their rights. Famous scholars like Ibn Taymiyyah never married.The notion of blaming men for females being single in their 30s is wrong.
It actually is in alot of casesNot getting married is not haram.
This is an exception to the rule and even other scholars criticised him for this, he spent every waking hour seeking knowledge he didnt have time, noone in this day and age can even compare themselves to himFamous scholars like Ibn Taymiyyah never married.
I know, but we cannot say not marrying is haram. It is preferred to marry and that is the Sunnah, but not marrying isn't haram and if someone hates children, then that could infringe on the rights of the children/wife which is haram without a doubt, so the situation isn't black and white.This is an exception to the rule and even other scholars criticised him for this, he spent every waking hour seeking knowledge he didnt have time, noone in this day and age can even compare themselves to him
A person should still have children if he hates children,they should try their best to make their heart at ease with having children, just because u hate something doesnt mean u dont do it, we go our entire lives doing stuff we hate because we have to,d if someone hates children,
The problem is with the culture of society is forI know, but we cannot say not marrying is haram. It is preferred to marry and that is the Sunnah, but not marrying isn't haram and if someone hates children, then that could infringe on the rights of the children/wife which is haram without a doubt, so the situation isn't black and white.
That is too much of a risk as they may not be able to control themselves.A person should still have children if he hates children,they should try their best to make their heart at ease with having children, just because u hate something doesnt mean u dont do it, we go our entire lives doing stuff we hate because we have to,
1.Not hate children to the point they show no mercy to them
2.Should treat children with the best way possible despite the way they feel
Somalis are used to known for being extroverted etc, we never shy away. But look now, unfortunately the new Somali generation after the first generation fobs, this new Somali generation is hella insecure and introverted with no confidence to talk to each other, look how Somali guy and a Somali girl get awkward when they see each other on the streets, compared to the old Somali generation where the men had confidence etc to at least approach. Unfortunately maybe it’s the technology that’s destroying our social interaction etc too much social media and online dating (which doesn’t work in my opinion to get a spouse) created a sense of comfort zone.More women across the board are delaying marriage. This isn’t just a current phenomenon in the community. People are less incentived to marry and if they don’t find someone suitable why pressure them to settle? It would just cause unhappy and toxic relationships and the cycle would repeat.
I think it is a case to case scenario. I cannot make an overgeneralisation.That is too much of a risk as they may not be able to control themselves.
I think a scholar needs to be asked. We know that if a man or woman isn't attracted example assexual, then marriage is not encouraged for them due to worry that they may not be able to fulfill rights which is more important. So, looking at that logic, how can people that hate kids be encouraged?
I agree we need to help people get married and find people instead of leaving haram alternatives or online dating apps.I don't fault anyone for not marrying
there is no other options for alot of ppl thoIt’s sad to see the amount of Somali ladies and men on a dating apps like muzmatch, this shouldn’t be a case. We the new generation should seek getting marriage through interactions in real life, like how it suppose to, not from online apps which is a sham. That’s again back to what I said about lack of confidence within the new generation.
Tell me why isn’t there an option for a lot of people other than using muzmatch for example?t
there is no other options for alot of ppl tho
All you have to do is go out and approach in real life, in an halal way, surely most can go outside other than using online dating apps?t
there is no other options for alot of ppl tho
Omg When did they expose him? Send link please.Not to mention he was broke b4 youtube and lied about having a high source of income and most of his high income came from lying to people on youtube to buy his courses or whatever, he wasnt even the high value man which he claimed to be, ironically he had to pay a women to have sex with him despite the fact he is such a "high value man"
Well, at least you understand. Stop blaming the women now. If a girl has hayaa and only hangs out with other girls, guys are too shy to approach in real life and online dating has its pitfalls, parents and families hardly introduce youngsters, then how can you be suprised that a woman in her late 20s pushing 30s is single?!Somalis are used to known for being extroverted etc, we never shy away. But look now, unfortunately the new Somali generation after the first generation fobs, this new Somali generation is hella insecure and introverted with no confidence to talk to each other, look how Somali guy and a Somali girl get awkward when they see each other on the streets, compared to the old Somali generation where the men had confidence etc to at least approach. Unfortunately maybe it’s the technology that’s destroying our social interaction etc too much social media and online dating (which doesn’t work in my opinion to get a spouse) created a sense of comfort zone.
Back home when I went to hargeisa, the confidence the men had surprised me when I came back here in the U.K. iI’s about time the new generation change their approach, stop using iPhones every one minute, go outside. Enjoy the nature etc, talk to people, reset your mind, eat healthy, pray your salahs, I guarantee you, as a whole the new generation will benefit from a change in lifestyle etc, you will see an increase in marriage numbers among our community.