walle I feel the same way. Good on you for not going through with it. There is huge stigma associated with it. A lot of people enjoy the single, solitude life. Plus the quiet is khatar.
I'm still in my early 30s so I'll give myself some time. I'm kind of vain and I want a child to take care of me in old age. We'll see how long this lasts. I could settle for marriage if there is no buuq and harassment for malaab.