Are we bound to marry ajnabis?

Nafiso Qalanjo

Nafiso Qalanjo

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Only an Ajanbi would do this. #XalimoExit
 
Sophisticate

Sophisticate

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I think a segment of Somalis will remain in the west. There will always be a pocket of those that don't mix who wish to establish themselves and refuse assimilation. I tend to like the Somali aesthetic and believe its hard to acquire outside of Horner groups. I want my children to be proud enough in themselves and give something back to their motherland as members of the 3rd generation I'A. Its easier being a mono-ethnic individual. Zero questions about your origins, less identity confusion and not forced to choose a side or have your loyalties regularly questioned. Once you mix there is rarely a marrying back into your Somali ethnic group (especially for those identifying more with the non-Somali parent) so I don't see it as a net benefit for me or my blood relatives. No hate if you think otherwise.
 
Nafiso Qalanjo

Nafiso Qalanjo

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Villainess said:
I’m not interested in kpop stars. But i do like looking at them. Pretty eye candy but too girly for my taste
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Same with Japanese men :lawd:
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Nafiso Qalanjo

Nafiso Qalanjo

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Amirah said:
I know maybe I’m weird but as cute as this is, this is when my desire to marry skinny arse biijo pasto faraax is further confirmed.
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haye you do you.
 
Nak-Muay-Kru

Nak-Muay-Kru

Out of the 3 mixed Somalis I've known, 2 were plagued by identity issues and the third was very religious mashallah, but identified more with the non-Somali side.

"bUt SoMalINiMo iS pArTerNal" in real life that doesn't mean shit. In fact the ones raises by Somali mothers are slightly better. You're robbing your child of a sense of truly belonging. Even if your family's extremely welcoming, they'll still feel like the "other". It's the cruelest shit you could do to another human being walalhi.
 
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Shogun

Shogun

Waa anaga orodneey, nabad doonaney
stophatingtho said:
Husband/Wife: Ajnabi
Husband/Wife: Somali
Kid: Ajnabi
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Warya the game was laid out by my forefathers. You're disrespecting the culture. My children have the prerogative of being Somali. I don't want to hear about genetics. Being Somali is about name, not genetic.
 
Timo Jareer and proud

Timo Jareer and proud

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Nak-Muay-Kru said:
Out of the 3 mixed Somalis I've known, 2 were plagued by identity issues and the third was very religious mashallah, but identified more with the non-Somali side.

"bUt SoMalINiMo iS pArTerNal" in real life that doesn't mean shit sxb. In fact the ones raises by Somali mothers are slightly better. You're robbing your child of a sense of truly belonging. Even if your family's extremely welcoming, they'll feel like the "other". It's the cruelest shit you could do to another human being walalhi.
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the paternal argument only applies when the half ajanabi yute already lives in a somali dominant area in Africa it means nothing in the West :heh: your closing off sentence is sadly 100% true. My brother is half Algerian & he feels like the outsider of my fam even though he's Isaaq Garxajis like the rest of us.
 
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