They know that no one wants stuck up expiring mid 30s women even over 21 is pushing it these daysSomali hablo turn down MANY decent guys through mid 20s(becuz they love the cat mouse chase) then when they hit 30s they panick
Any single women on SSpot feel like this sometimes . .
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the thing is the top 20 percent of women shouldn't lower their standards however they are competing with the top 80 percent of women for the same small pool of men
so it becomes difficult because women want to date up or at most settle for their equal
another problem is the top 20 percent of men don't have that high of standards infact no men do
so they actually have an equal shot which is why women are facing this problemNigga stop trolling.
Most girls marry between the ages of 23 to 28
Its rare for under 22s to marry as they are in uni studying.
but feminism is against marriage. what r u gonna do Mz feministo?
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eh the statistics say some interesting truths
so the perfect age seems to be a 21 year old women and a 23 year old man as its the only age where both match
eh the statistics say some interesting truths
so the perfect age seems to be a 21 year old women and a 23 year old man as its the only age where both match
We are not talking about statistics of male interests but real life marriages in the Somali community. Do you live under a rock, or let me guess your hooyos basement.
The average western Somali girl marries after she finishes uni and marries a guy who is of a similar age group.
I am not trolling and would never settle for an over 21 year old unless she is an obedient garoob which is the perfect woman as she is willin to be a sista wife so no need for you cheap but think your expensive dusty western xalimos who should lower their standards after 25 or end up being those 30 something desperate to find any man to marry them who is not a convict convert that is
He will stay at 21 even when 40 but her 23 is her only chance unless she finds a 33 year old liberal/consertive push overeh the statistics say some interesting truths
so the perfect age seems to be a 21 year old women and a 23 year old man as its the only age where both match
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its not just male interest but also women intrest and when you look at both 23m and 21w is the best, also most finish uni at 21 since its only 4 years anyways so I don't know what your talking about, wouldn't 21 be the perfect age then since she just got out of uni and finds 23 year olds the most attractive?
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what age did you think people finished uni? mostly at 21 so the 23 male 21 female marriage is still the most ideal as its when both find each other the most attractive
the fact is any man will find a woman cos men marry down in most cases as they not relying on womens' pocket and many women at lower spectrum will have homes at early age as they not that choosy.
the problem with educated women is they looking for someone who already made along with the looks and status and these men are not only a minority but also marry across the board ,they marry from poor,middle and upper class.they unlike college women not restricted to certain class. so the pool gets shrinking for many educated women that will ultimately force thm to settle for less later in live or stay single all the way. for women the more they get higher the less they get engaged or have unstable relationships. an ego problem that many educated white women have lately come to realize.
the problem with educated women is they looking for someone who already made along with the looks and status and these men are not only a minority but also marry across the board ,they marry from poor,middle and upper class.they unlike college women not restricted to certain class. so the pool gets shrinking for many educated women that will ultimately force thm to settle for less later in live or stay single all the way. for women the more they get higher the less they get engaged or have unstable relationships. an ego problem that many educated white women have lately come to realize.
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Single women in their 30s are the ones with high standards.
He must be 195cm height, he must have the perfect smile, he must have muscles, he must be romantic 24 hours a day, he must make very high income, he must have a Master's degree.
Be alone your whole life. We don't give a shit!! Kufaar women are much better than you women. They will marry their men at a young age and will be with their men when he is poor with nothing. They will build their future together. Wallahi kufaar women treat their men better than most of today's Halimos. They marry for love, you marry for status.
He must be 195cm height, he must have the perfect smile, he must have muscles, he must be romantic 24 hours a day, he must make very high income, he must have a Master's degree.
Be alone your whole life. We don't give a shit!! Kufaar women are much better than you women. They will marry their men at a young age and will be with their men when he is poor with nothing. They will build their future together. Wallahi kufaar women treat their men better than most of today's Halimos. They marry for love, you marry for status.
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If I’m doing great, or actually have goals and I’m working toward something, and I’m reasonably attractive, and reasonably smart, why tf would a layabout look good to me? You love the word hypergamy, but very few women on the grand scale of things actively pursue millionaires and the so-called top 20, it’s much more the norm to want someone who’s similar to them (similar education, and some kind of ambition). That’s hardly unreasonable (though it becomes a problem when the pool of men are not performing as well as the women, and leave something to be desired). For me, I get off on a smart guy. Intelligence.How is it easier for men?Seems like your just having a tough time competing for the top 20 percent of men, well the thing is the top 80 percent of women are also competing for the 20 percent
The Somali word darbi jeff (lol wall sleeper, what a beautiful expression), is a word my mom used on us as kids when we’re not doing what we’re supposed to be lol, is both so beautiful and so apt. At some point, it’s just not a sign of intelligence for someone to be wiling away their life and doing the least, or get mixed up in dubious stuff when you have all the opportunities open to you in country like this.
And I’ll have you know, it’s not just Somalis, a lot diaspora immigrants/refs, and heck even mainstream American males are suffering from darbi jeff mentality. It somehow appears more rife in our community tho, which must be a function of our baggage, bc other communities have higher expectations of their men (sometimes impossible, which can also damaging in its own way, but seems to reap better outcomes). It is what it is. The more Somalis overcome this, the better off the community will be. If the parents become of better quality, their children will be in a better place for it.
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So basically you did these non married Somali men a favor. Dont come back used.
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Welp. The state of my privates is not your concern, thank you very much.
Oh. I dont care about you . lakiin waxa noqoneysa shimbir raadkeeda ka taagtay tii nebigana gaariweyse.
Bye Felisha
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I don't consider top 20 percent millionaires as they are literally the top 1 percent in the world lol, but yeah top 20 percent includes some of the guys you mentioned i.e. doctors, engineers, the successful and what not, you also don't seem to be in the top 20 percent of women, (older, previously married) luckily the top 20 percent of men date down so you can still score the only problem is you will have fierce competition as most women will also be competing for such a man leading you to think theres a small pool, when in reality theres a big pool of men outside the top 20 percent that are available
Haunts you? Are you another victim of "trauma" that every Somali girl claims to have gone through with an ex
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