Any single women on SSpot feel like this sometimes . .

[VixR]

Haunts you? Are you another victim of "trauma" that every Somali girl claims to have gone through with an ex

No, it was a really good relationship.

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[Nin-culus]

If I’m doing great, or actually have goals and I’m working toward something, and I’m reasonably attractive, and reasonably smart, why tf would a layabout look good to me? You love the word hypergamy, but very few women on the grand scale of things actively pursue millionaires and the so-called t[/SPOILER]

Good for you, you’re free to join the ajnabi lovers as for me I’ll continue do what I do and soon when I’m in the 1%. I’ll find a trustworthy one. And ghost

 

[Mckenzie]

No, it was a really good relationship.

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[TekNiKo]

No, it was a really good relationship.

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You still haven't got over him and thats normal, grieving is a very long process

 

[VixR]

Good for you, you’re free to join the ajnabi lovers as for me I’ll continue do what I do and soon when I’m in the 1%. I’ll find a trustworthy one. And ghost

I wish all the success for you in the world, but maybe when you get there you’ll be smart enough to rethink that.

You still haven't got over him and thats normal, grieving is a very long process

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I don't consider top 20 percent millionaires as they are literally the top 1 percent in the world lol, but yeah top 20 percent includes some of the guys you mentioned i.e. doctors, engineers, the successful and what not, you also don't seem to be in the top 20 percent of women, (older, previously married) luckily the top 20 percent of men date down so you can still score the only problem is you will have fierce competition as most women will also be competing for such a man leading you to think theres a small pool, when in reality theres a big pool of men outside the top 20 percent that are available

A successful man isn’t just dxs and engineers, that’s ridiculous. It’s anyone who has some kind of vision, fam, and who’re good at whatever they’re doing/pursuing.

If you look around you’ll see there the standouts in some sense, everywhere. Standout mothers, standout fathers, standouts in whatever they’re pursuing bc that’s who they are. It’s so much more attractive than the mediocrity that’s sweeping the nation.

I only mentioned the dx, bc I wanted to throw that out there some Somali guy went and became a neurosurgeon (and he came here at 14 yrs of age). I swear, ppl either don’t care to be good, or don’t see what they can achieve if they apply themselves. And I’m not “older or previously married”. It’s nowhere near 20% of men who’re doing something worthwhile with their lives in the community, and there’s no reason for them not to attempt to succeed.

I’m somewhat sympathetic when I hear about ppl who grew up in poor areas, but I really believe the lack of drive has a lot to do with laziness, or not having the esteem to believe you can get there. And that’s something that can be changed. It has to start at home.

 

[IstarZ]

You’re only 22!!! Live your life. Marriage should be the last thing on your mind.

 

[Dibleyy]

Single women in their 30s are the ones with high standards.

He must be 195cm height, he must have the perfect smile, he must have muscles, he must be romantic 24 hours a day, he must make very high income, he must have a Master's degree.

Be alone your whole life. We don't give a shit!! Kufaar women are much better than you women. They will marry their men at a young age and will be with their men when he is poor with nothing. They will build their future together. Wallahi kufaar women treat their men better than most of today's Halimos. They marry for love, you marry for status.

Why am I getting so many MGTOW guys on my thread? yall are so extra, now its forbidden for women to practice hypergamy? Most women past 22 do not care about a mans looks as long as he's decent, most just care that he's on the same level and is responsible and resonable. Most grow up in single parent homes so its only natural for them to be cautious as to not end up like their mothers and struggle as a single parent. I dont understand this phenomenon of men who act so feminine, some are socially awkward and too much of a to approach women and some are just broke and cannot practice hypergamy so they decide to blame and bash women and say we have high standards in terms of looks which is rare when men literally will NEVER pay a woman attention unless she is attractive

 

[Suldaanka]

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Again. Hada intaba fahmi weyse. Khasaraha kala dhex bax rag somaliyeed. Waadad ku qulqul

 

[Tukraq]

You’re only 22!!! Live your life. Marriage should be the last thing on your mind.

most graduate uni at 21, by 22 your in your career and established so why put marriage off at that point what in the world are you waiting for
how long can it wait its much better than doing the haram as urges will come what do you mean "live your life" aren't you doing that in marriage?

 

[Abdalla]

I was about to side with @Dibleyy but now that I see her bashing Somali guys, I changed my mind. Naaya you're the single one, not us