Nomad2054
There is nothing permanent except change.
in my short years on this earth i have witnessed something that has extremely confused me.women for the most part say they want a man who is caring, attentive and considerate but i found the opposite to be true, let me give you one example from my life.
Exhibit A:
there was this woman in a course i once attended she was both good looking and classy, i really didnt give her any attention unlike the other guys in our course. this one guy i befriended fell head over heals for the girl and wouldnt stop talking about her beauty.
A few head nods later and the occasional hello the girl approaches me and tells me about her economical situation and how she is late on rent and might lose her apartment, after listening to her story i wished her the best and gave her a few words of encouragement. Days later the friend i told you about informs me that he helped her out after hearing the same story she told me.
At the start of the course we were all assigned seats and i was seated next to these two somalis guys, the girl spoke to one of them and changed seats with him. even though i didnt pay her much attention she would initiating convos with me, talking in detail about her personal life. one day she invites me to her place for some "tea", i declined respectfully.
while all this was taking place the one friend i had tells me how she didnt pay him back the money she loaned from him, he actually didnt care much for the money but what bothered him the most was how she deprived him of her attention, and in some sick twisted way i was making her pay for the hurt she was causing this guy, he was really a miskiin the poor sucker lool.
on the day the course ended the of three us went to a pizza place to celebrate, i suggested we all pitch in but he would have none of it, so while he was ordering the food the girl asks me what plans i had for the day and how the offer of "tea" was still on the table. i told her i had some family business i had to take care of.the guy got back to the table and started talking to her attempting to seal the deal, she shot down every attempt and rather engaged with me, in turn i shot her down and turn the spot light back to him. After what felt like an eternity of cringe, i excused myself and told them i had to take a phone call so they could have some quality time alone, it didnt work out well the girl bounced as soon as i got back.
this is not the only time this kind of thing happened i chose this story because its the shortest one i have.
the guy treated the girl like a queen and she saw him as a peasant and i barely acknowledge her existence and was reward for it.
so what gives ladies, is it low self esteem, your love of reverse psychology or your need for mystery???
Exhibit A:
there was this woman in a course i once attended she was both good looking and classy, i really didnt give her any attention unlike the other guys in our course. this one guy i befriended fell head over heals for the girl and wouldnt stop talking about her beauty.
A few head nods later and the occasional hello the girl approaches me and tells me about her economical situation and how she is late on rent and might lose her apartment, after listening to her story i wished her the best and gave her a few words of encouragement. Days later the friend i told you about informs me that he helped her out after hearing the same story she told me.
At the start of the course we were all assigned seats and i was seated next to these two somalis guys, the girl spoke to one of them and changed seats with him. even though i didnt pay her much attention she would initiating convos with me, talking in detail about her personal life. one day she invites me to her place for some "tea", i declined respectfully.
while all this was taking place the one friend i had tells me how she didnt pay him back the money she loaned from him, he actually didnt care much for the money but what bothered him the most was how she deprived him of her attention, and in some sick twisted way i was making her pay for the hurt she was causing this guy, he was really a miskiin the poor sucker lool.
on the day the course ended the of three us went to a pizza place to celebrate, i suggested we all pitch in but he would have none of it, so while he was ordering the food the girl asks me what plans i had for the day and how the offer of "tea" was still on the table. i told her i had some family business i had to take care of.the guy got back to the table and started talking to her attempting to seal the deal, she shot down every attempt and rather engaged with me, in turn i shot her down and turn the spot light back to him. After what felt like an eternity of cringe, i excused myself and told them i had to take a phone call so they could have some quality time alone, it didnt work out well the girl bounced as soon as i got back.
this is not the only time this kind of thing happened i chose this story because its the shortest one i have.
the guy treated the girl like a queen and she saw him as a peasant and i barely acknowledge her existence and was reward for it.
so what gives ladies, is it low self esteem, your love of reverse psychology or your need for mystery???