4 wives: Are you following the Sunnah or your lust?

[Abdurahman_somali]

I'll convert you into one woman kinda guy.
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This is possible of course. Specially for you. But the better question is, what if i convert you first into a polygamie-wifey ?

 

[Regg]

My awoowe had 3, its my duty to surpass him

Cost of living is extremely cheap in the third world which explains why our grandfathers tend to be polygamous, if the West had the same housing prices as back home then polygamy marriages would skyrocket.

 

[Ugaaso]

This is possible of course. Specially for you. But the better question is, what if i convert you first into a polygamie-wifey ?

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looool polygamy wifey? Hani, you get wit me and I will have you defy everything you believe in.

 

[AussieHustler]

By discussing this issue many times with fellow Somali guys, I noticed that a lot of guys from single parenthood households are the biggest proponents of polygamy. They could barely look after themselves and have no desire in gaining practical skills to advance their financial situation and yet, have this passion of having many wives on welfare. Father do, son do.

 

[Lostbox]

Would rather deal with no women

 

[AussieHustler]

Would rather deal with no women

@Lostbox

I wish & hope that the western welfare states introduce a cap on children on welfare for each family. I heard the Danish government wanted to introduce a cap of 2 children per family. If you want to have more, go and work for them. If that happens, we will be forced to learn better work ethics and less time on social media insulting the whole world and each other.

 

[Mercury]

By discussing this issue many times with fellow Somali guys, I noticed that a lot of guys from single parenthood households are the biggest proponents of polygamy. They could barely look after themselves and have no desire in gaining practical skills to advance their financial situation and yet, have this passion of having many wives on welfare. Father do, son do.

Here in Sweden people abuse it by looking for single moms on welfare who got their own place that way the state helps them and they don’t have to provide

 

[Gambar]

Men who are polygamous like to refer to their grandfathers but fail to mention that their grandfathers had enough wealth to sustain multiple households.

I have never heard of Somali grandfathers forcing their wives to live in one Aqal Somali and share one camel.

Yaaaa?????!!!!

 

[Mercury]

Yaaaa?????!!!!

Maybe she seen this


Waa yaab 4 xaas each got their own qol lol

 

[Gambar]

Maybe she seen this


Waa yaab 4 xaas each got their own qol lol

They agreed to it so they must be satisfied.

 

[Tukraq]

Imagine having one income and 4 wives and in 2 years they already given birth to 8 kids and 10 years later

You have 40 kids that you’re financially responsible for

that sounds great, sign me up

 

[NotMyL]

A lot of the young educated men don’t want more than one wife, so ladies stay away from these backwards farahs.

 

[dr.leorio]

A lot of the young educated men don’t want more than one wife, so ladies stay away from these backwards farahs.

That's because they're all broke paying off their student loans. Give any Muslim man a few million dollars and he'll get a second wife without even thinking twice.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Allah has made it halal however, Allah has also decreed that every wife is to be treated equally as does the Sunnah of the prophet Muhammed SAW.

Riddle me this;

1. How does a poor or middle-class man afford to keep 4 wives and multiple children happy? Well fed? Clothed?
2. Do you not want your children to have the best access to education, health care?
3. Are you happy to stand in front of Allah on the day of judgement and stand by your decision to bring 4 wives and multiple children into poverty?
4. Are you proud to say that you chose 4 wives because of your lust? Deep-down, do you believe it is halal?

If these 4 wife loving men were serious about following the Sunnah, they would follow the Sunnah and marry women based on their circumstances, not replace their wife with 3 young, nubile girls.

I find it sad to see 4 weak, poor families over 1 strong family with children who have the best access to everything.

I don't care if wealthy men do it, they have the money and the time to care for multiple homes.

This is assumes that none of the wives are rich lol what if one of them is rich and can supply the man money he needs to support all of his other wives? In this scenario all he has to do is divide his time/affection lol on a serious. note this is none of my business. We never know why a man gets a second wife/wives. If he is unjust is between him and his maker. I am too busy living my life. Btw my grandpa had more than 4 wivesof course not all at once Haha. I have bunch of aunties/ uncles younger than me some I dont even know about Haha oh well. My grandfather was the man he loved me more than his own kids would wake me.up to go pee at night so I dont pee in my bed . He would tell the dugsi teacher to beat all his other kids but if dared to touched me he would shot him lol I had zero fear going to dugsi while my aunties got beat up lol RIP grandpa

 

[Tukraq]

This is assumes that none of the wives are rich lol what if one of them is rich and can supply the man money he needs to support all of his other wives? In this scenario all he has to do is divide his time/affection lol

yeah especially in these days, pretend the husband and four wives each make 80 k a year, now if the husband split equally his 80 k each wive has 100 k to live on, lets assume rent is 12k for a one bedroom house the still have ample money to spend and live on take trips buy a foreign car and have a good life, this would even work if they got half that salary minus the luxuries like trips and you may instead go for a used car, I don't know why they would assume a single income household when women these days go through full education and can easily get a high paying job

 

[Halimo-2018]

yeah especially in these days, pretend the husband and four wives each make 80 k a year, now if the husband split equally his 80 k each wive has 100 k to live on, lets assume rent is 12k for a one bedroom house the still have ample money to spend and live on take trips buy a foreign car and have a good life, this would even work ...
I know of a woman that was in love with my dusty *ass brother for years she asked him to marry her and that she will cover everything.
She had the money he just couldnt do it because of his ego lol I ran into her long after she got married she would still ask him about me although she was married. It confused me because she was not ugly at all. She was gorgeous
Women will do anything for the man they want even stay on food stamps lol it's their business though[ to each their own.
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[Finesse]

In Islam it is a man's duty to provide for a woman and her children. Her money is supplemental if she so chooses to spend it.

Before you say this is not fair, this is from Allah, the most just. So choose your words carefully.


I can understand discussing earnings and sharing 50/50 when having ONE WIFE, but to marry 4 and expect them to provide for themselves, hell no.

Which woman would sign up for such nonsense? Might as well marry a monogamous broke man and provide for him instead of sharing a broke man with 3 other women.

Any man that can pull off such a scam needs to be investigated for practising black magic.

 

[Tukraq]

In Islam it is a man's duty to provide for a woman and her children. Her money is supplemental if she so chooses to spend it.

Before you say this is not fair, this is from Allah, the most just. So choose your words carefully.


I can understand discussing earnings and sharing 50/50 when having ONE WIFE, but to marry 4 and expect them to provide for themselves, hell no.

Which woman would sign up for such nonsense? Might as well marry a monogamous broke man and provide for him instead of sharing a broke man with 3 other women.

Any man that can pull off such a scam needs to be investigated for practising black magic.

Prophet didn’t provide for khadijah, in fact other way around

 

[AussieHustler]

Prophet didn’t provide for khadijah, in fact other way around

@Tukraq

Ciyaal garoobs. La tartan @R.Kelly

 

[Aaegal]

Question for you Muslim women who are into the whole virginity and no sex before marriage thing. Do you really want your man dipping it another women days before he dips it into you? I was under the assumption y'all thought that was nasty.