Steamdevolopment
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1: Encourages your carrier:
She encourages you to pursue your goals, but she doesn’t micromanage. She trusts you to make the right decisions in your own life. She’s the cheerleader, not the coach.
2: No jealousy
She doesn’t try to make you jealous. She’s secure in her worth, and your ability to recognize how valuable she is. She doesn’t need to play games to “trick” you into seeing her her for what she is.
3: Doesn't act like a princess
She doesn’t have a princess complex. She demands that you treat her with respect — but because she is a person you love, not because she is a woman and therefore magically entitled to something.
4: Has a life of her own:
She has a part of her life that doesn’t involve you. Friends, hobbies, career — whatever. She’s confident and independent enough to not need your involvement in everything she does.
5: She can handle herself with grace
You wouldn’t think twice about inviting her into different parts of your life: a dinner in blue ocean London with your college friends, a dinner with your parents, a fancy work party — she knows how to handle herself in different settings and with dignity.
6: Keeps her hot for her man (or @Steamdevolopment)
She takes care of herself. Even after been together for some years she still makes sure to clean herself, perfume her scent away and work on that body to keep men or @Steamdevolopment happy. She's always improving and YOU enjoy the benefit of that.
7: She is confident
When she is in a situation where she doesn’t know people, she introduces herself confidently. She doesn’t cling meekly to your side waiting for you to facilitate every social interaction.
8: Good social media use
Even the most conservative imam could look at her social media presence and approve or want to eat her ass (@Shamis).
9: No stranger to sex but doesn't exaggerate
She isn’t shy about sex and is willing to experiment but she lets you lead and keeps the fowl language and sex acts to the bed instead of making her day-time job, unlike @The Cushitic One .
10: Has strong opinions
She has opinions more than “idk” and she can talk calmly and non-hyperbolically about them. If she disagrees with you, you can have a conversation about it.
11: Doesn't fall victim to "ashy abdi syndrome"
She would never joke with her friends or family (or worse, your friends or family) about how ashy abids are “stupid” or childish, or whatever “happy wife happy life” mantra you’ve heard women use to put down the partners they love.
12: She has ambitions but within her means
She knows what she wants in life. She doesn’t change her values or goals to tailor fit the guy she is with.
13: You feel lucky for having her
You feel lucky to be dating her because you know she would never date anyone just to date them. You know she is dating you because she’s attracted to you and she thinks that you will help each other grow to be even higher quality, together.
She encourages you to pursue your goals, but she doesn’t micromanage. She trusts you to make the right decisions in your own life. She’s the cheerleader, not the coach.
2: No jealousy
She doesn’t try to make you jealous. She’s secure in her worth, and your ability to recognize how valuable she is. She doesn’t need to play games to “trick” you into seeing her her for what she is.
3: Doesn't act like a princess
She doesn’t have a princess complex. She demands that you treat her with respect — but because she is a person you love, not because she is a woman and therefore magically entitled to something.
4: Has a life of her own:
She has a part of her life that doesn’t involve you. Friends, hobbies, career — whatever. She’s confident and independent enough to not need your involvement in everything she does.
5: She can handle herself with grace
You wouldn’t think twice about inviting her into different parts of your life: a dinner in blue ocean London with your college friends, a dinner with your parents, a fancy work party — she knows how to handle herself in different settings and with dignity.
6: Keeps her hot for her man (or @Steamdevolopment)
She takes care of herself. Even after been together for some years she still makes sure to clean herself, perfume her scent away and work on that body to keep men or @Steamdevolopment happy. She's always improving and YOU enjoy the benefit of that.
7: She is confident
When she is in a situation where she doesn’t know people, she introduces herself confidently. She doesn’t cling meekly to your side waiting for you to facilitate every social interaction.
8: Good social media use
Even the most conservative imam could look at her social media presence and approve or want to eat her ass (@Shamis).
9: No stranger to sex but doesn't exaggerate
She isn’t shy about sex and is willing to experiment but she lets you lead and keeps the fowl language and sex acts to the bed instead of making her day-time job, unlike @The Cushitic One .
10: Has strong opinions
She has opinions more than “idk” and she can talk calmly and non-hyperbolically about them. If she disagrees with you, you can have a conversation about it.
11: Doesn't fall victim to "ashy abdi syndrome"
She would never joke with her friends or family (or worse, your friends or family) about how ashy abids are “stupid” or childish, or whatever “happy wife happy life” mantra you’ve heard women use to put down the partners they love.
12: She has ambitions but within her means
She knows what she wants in life. She doesn’t change her values or goals to tailor fit the guy she is with.
13: You feel lucky for having her
You feel lucky to be dating her because you know she would never date anyone just to date them. You know she is dating you because she’s attracted to you and she thinks that you will help each other grow to be even higher quality, together.