xalimo kills faraxs on twitter

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Most men Somalis or not born in the west don’t become rich. They become normal workers getting paid once a month.

some of these women are unrealistic. Handsome, rich, intelligent, marriage oriented and faithful. Then she mentions athletes lool

I have known Somali guys that came from money or were on track to being financially independent/ higher networth.:mjdontkno: That alone doesn't ensure there will be (1) mutual understanding (2) attraction and (3) compatibility. It's great if it's all there.

You know she's just being sensational. A lot of these athletes and entertainers come from dysfunctional homes so modeling healthy and stable relationships would not be their strong suit. Couple that with living a lifestyle that requires being on the road regularly and you have the perfect storm.

Most people aren't seeing the forest for the trees, white men are generally considered more high value in the west and yet they kickstarted this whole MGTOW/redpill movement, based on white women standards becoming unreasonable, as well as this divest movement from black women and their dysfunctional gender wars online with black men.

All this is just a symptom of the problem, the problem is most men do not meet the requirements for most women, this gender divide goes beyond race and culture.

I think the problem is overstated. I don't see a crisis where women are refusing to couple because they think they are too good for these largely average men.:kanyeshrug:
 
Wallahi I’m not sensitive at all. In fact I find this all too amusing. I’m laughing at the hypocrisy. I’ll try to be respectful as it’s Ramadan but there’s a saying “Those who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones”.
Exactly, hence, you faraxs should pipe down a bit, telling us we’re the “bottom of the barrel”, as if you lot don’t fill every major western prison. Practice what you preach :camby:
 
I have known Somali guys that came from money or were on track to being financially independent/ higher networth.:mjdontkno: That alone doesn't ensure there will be (1) mutual understanding (2) attraction and (3) compatibility. It's great if it's all there.

You know she's just being sensational. A lot of these athletes and entertainers come from dysfunctional homes so modeling healthy and stable relationships would not be their strong suit. Couple that with living a lifestyle that requires being on the road regularly and you have the perfect storm.



I think the problem is overstated. I don't see a crisis where women are refusing to couple because they think they are too good for these largely average men.:kanyeshrug:
I don’t think compatibility and mutual understanding is big deal when securing the bag. Some women get pregnant on purpose by men with means or marry them with the sole goal of securing money.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I don’t think compatibility and mutual understanding is big deal when securing the bag. Some women get pregnant on purpose by men with means or marry them with the sole goal of securing money.

So, do you think women are a monolith? :kanyehmm: People have different reasons for entering into a relationship and financial wherewithal is a part if the equation but there are different spokes to the wheel of a relationship and I would imagine having other things in common (beliefs, interests and values) would be of great importance to women in the 21st C where marriage isn't merely transactional (reduced to getting the bag in exchange for sexual access).
 
So, do you think women are a monolith? :kanyehmm: People have different reasons for entering into a relationship and financial wherewithal is a part if the equation but there are different spokes to the wheel of a relationship and I would imagine having other things in common (beliefs, interests, values) would be of great value to women in the 21st C where marriage isn't merely transactional (reduced to getting the bag in exchange for sexual access).
No women are not monolith. But people are more materialistic than ever and we are seeing a lot of young women enter relationships for financial gain only. Luckily for these men most of these women don’t have the long term plan and intelligence to pull this off. I think we live in time where most women and men don’t really know what they want and don’t understand you always have to sacrifice something. You can’t have everything
 
No women are not monolith. But people are more materialistic than ever and we are seeing a lot of young women enter relationships for financial gain only. Luckily for these men most of these women don’t have the long term plan and intelligence to pull this off. I think we live in time where most women and men don’t really know what they want and don’t understand you always have to sacrifice something. You can’t have everything

It just feels that way as social media has given a voice to every Tom and Harry. We live in an age where househusbands exist and women are splitting things 50/50 in the West.

I think you'll find that in more conservative societies in which women are not given the option to work or reach their potiential, women mostly get into relationships for financial reasons. Men know this, even more so Western Abdis know this when they talk about getting a pretty Xalimo back home. They simply don't complain about those Xalimos because the cost to keep them content is low. That is why I find it hypocritical when Abdis talk about Western women being materialistic.
 
It just feels that way as social media has given a voice to every Tom and Harry. We live in an age where househusbands exist and women are splitting things 50/50 in the West.

I think you'll find that in more conservative societies in which women are not given the option to work or reach their potiential, women mostly get into relationships for financial reasons. Men know this, even more so Western Abdis know this when they talk about getting a pretty Xalimo back home. They simply don't complain about those Xalimos because the cost to keep them content is low. That is why I find it hypocritical when Abdis talk about Western women being materialistic.
i aint never seen a househusband in my life if thats the thing sign me up :rejoice:
 
I never understood why Farax's get mad so much when a woman wants a famous, rich, good-looking man as a husband. Every woman on Earth wants these types of men. Just like every man on Earth would want a wife that a 9 or 10 in natural looks. However, in both cases, these types of people are not easy to get in a relationship with as they have many options.
 
It just feels that way as social media has given a voice to every Tom and Harry. We live in an age where househusbands exist and women are splitting things 50/50 in the West.

I think you'll find that in more conservative societies in which women are not given the option to work or reach their potiential, women mostly get into relationships for financial reasons. Men know this, even more so Western Abdis know this when they talk about getting a pretty Xalimo back home. They simply don't complain about those Xalimos because the cost to keep them content is low. That is why I find it hypocritical when Abdis talk about Western women being materialistic.
I agree it is minority on social media. The problem with social media is its influencing young peoples thinking. So it can take some small minority do, normalise it to younger people do as it gives them the idea most people do it and before you know it has become the norm. If someone told us 10 ago there will be something called only fans sand normal girls would be on it and get paid to show type it body. We wouldn’t believe it. You had webcam sex sites, but those were clearly sex workers. Now you had Beyoncé biggest female artist sing about making only fans and be on demon time. The owner of only fans even said to have someone like Beyoncé mention us was huge and played role in changing perception. So who knows where we will be in 10 years time
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
No women are not monolith. But people are more materialistic than ever and we are seeing a lot of young women enter relationships for financial gain only. Luckily for these men most of these women don’t have the long term plan and intelligence to pull this off. I think we live in time where most women and men don’t really know what they want and don’t understand you always have to sacrifice something. You can’t have everything

You guys need to get outside and stop using socials as a barometer for what women are looking for. :drakewtf: I will agree with your last point. Many individuals do not have a definite and very specific idea of what it is they are looking for in a prospect.
 

Juke

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I see where she's coming from but ask yourself why would a Farax that made it settle for a Somali ting when he has access to better cadaan queens :mjpls:
 

Dharbash

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Why is she assuming that the average non Somali female has the ability to date athletes and successful entrepreneurs these people are already rare and of course within the Somali pool it’ll be more rare. No one is stopping her from dating/marrying successful non-Somalis. She sounds bitter and is using Somali men and somalimo as a scapegoat for her lack of success.
Idk about the last bit but yeah she does make it seem like a lot of Somali women keep in contact with celebrity men lol.
 

Dharbash

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I see where she's coming from but ask yourself why would a Farax that made it settle for a Somali ting when he has access to better cadaan queens :mjpls:
From what I’ve seen, it looks like successful Somali men continue to date somali women, maybe it’s where you live.
 
Will never understand people who complain about “dating pools”. Nothing good comes out of comparing your life with how other’s are living.
 

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