Nope. Forcing your kids will never help you. They WILL find a way to choose the thug they want. You can’t force someone to be a doctor if their IQ is not high.
Would you raise your kids the same way your parents raised you ?
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Lady Whistledown
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It depends where they're raised. If you mean Deen and dhaqan, yes. I would do the exact same. But I will be easier on my children it they're born and raised here, because this is a different environment. Psychology has proven time and time again that the authoritarian and passive roles don't work for western raised children. You have to be assertive.
Also,
Somali parents believe in constructive criticism whilst I believe in positive affirmations.
Also,
Somali parents believe in constructive criticism whilst I believe in positive affirmations.
Honestly i would make some changes but overall my mother raised me wellI would personally raise my children with the same morales/qualities my parents raised me and my siblings however, it’s not a great idea to raise them in the same style because it’s a completely different generation.
If your parents taught you the Quran you are very lucky an should have no regrets and you should raise your kids the same way, If they didn’t then this is the only thing you should change about the way you raise your future offsprings.
Religion, culture and identity is very important at a early age for kids and plays a significant role in their upbringing and determines which way they go in life,they learn manners respect, decency, behavior, morals, discipline, politeness etiquette an respect for their elders,akhlaq wal adab.
Would you raise your kids the same way your parents raised you ?
Gosh I mean life* not thug
