Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
So to be a baddie you need to show skin? Just say that you have a ugly face and need to show off your body to be attractive and keep it moving
Would you marry a Women who doesn't not wear the hijab.
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Yass sis!
Gojo Satoru
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I know several hijabis that engage in haram activitiesWhen people speak of hijab its often synonymous with the headscarf not the holistic view of it all including how one conducts themselves.
Also, not all Somali families were brought up with it. I was not. My mother didn't wear it until she was 40. Obviously, if it is a deal breaker to someone (which most of the time it is) don't even bother with them. You have your standards, a certain way you were raised and you shouldn't have to align it with someone else who clearly isn't on the same page at least attire wise. Most Somali women are hijabis anyway so this shouldn't be a point up for discussion.
What I do find odd is insinuating that a woman without a headscarf is some how engaging in vice (other than not wearing it). You wouldn't believe how many nimaan are shocked when I tell them I don't even date, never committed zina, don't drink, don't smoke nor do I take any over the counter medication (haven't for 20 years) and the like. As though my intrinsic values must be indicative of attire alone (even though there is some correlate). There are tiers to the headscarf just like there are tiers to women who don't wear it. No one cares for nuance though. That's what I find more troubling.Its like they also expect you to exercise your options due to physical attractiveness and are gob smacked when that couldn't be further the truth. Men are very unique creatures. Hence, why I usually stay clear from them. And mostly engage with people for professional or academic purposes.
When I do where the headscarf (I'A) I won't pursue these men who think I'm only wearing it for them or that there is some nefarious past I'm trying to cover up. Nope. The last thing you want in your life is a paranoid or controlling man that is ego encapsulated and can't even trust you. Even when you prefer to lead with authenticity. Why mistrust someone who puts on the headscarf even if its later? I find that very odd. Shouldn't the goal be to promote it?
Odious Delirium
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Yeah I'm talking about the whole package. no point to marrying one with just the scarf if she lacks the proper etiquette and conduct that's supposed to come with it. Plus some wear head scarfs but the rest of there attire isn't even islamically appropriate.
Modesty is key not just the headscarf.
heh, modesty for me ain't even a question, I have high standards for women, modesty is already assumed, meaning no makeup outside no perfume no freemixing touching of opposite gender etc etc all assumed. thats basic stuff, this isn't even a question, the fact this is even a question shows you how irrelgious we are.
Odious Delirium
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You can't assume these things you always have to ask and find out plus most of the guys here are not on the same page as us when it comes to the basic stuff you expect otherwise this thread wouldn't have been a thing in the first place.
Somali_patriotic
Everything unuka leh
attash
Amaan Duule
What do you mean us? Are trying to say that you look half as attractive as these girls?
Besides, all of these girls look freer than a public restroom.
Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
Couples are extensions of one another after they are bonded together through marriage. It doesn’t negate the fact that it’s an act of worship but it still gives a indication on the type of person the man is
No it doesn’t, you lot will come from a football game and then come onto twitter to disparage and discuss women and how they cover their awrah. Many modern men do not respect hijab as a form of worship and see it as control. The way many of y’all speak about hijabi and non-hijabi women says that, just look at how they insult non-hijabis in this thread. I say this as a hijabi. I just saw a video about a niqabi women speaking on men that want niqabi women and how they view niqab and the reason why niqabis wear it. There’s a reason why there’s a double standard against women sinning compared to men in the Muslim community.
Gacmeey
Madaxweynaha Qurbo Joogta 🇸🇴
How would you know if they see it as control? What would a man do to show that? The women being insulted in this thread aren’t mere non-hijabis, they are promiscuous women by most standards.
Every single one of those girls are either ran through or is linking with some "Muslim" roadman
We all know a certain demographic who uses the hijab on and off let's be real 90% of those girls are non hijabis
Gojo Satoru
Staff Member
You would be surprised. Some of these hijabis also wear an abaya too
Same demographic religion on the surface shaytaan minion inside
Gojo Satoru
Staff Member
That can apply to a lot of people
Let's be real here. I knew like 15 hoejabis. If you're looking for "chaste", you're better off going for one that doesn't wear a hijab and then asking her to wear one.
Grimmer
Reer guri
“O Prophet! Ask your wives, daughters, and believing women to draw their cloaks over their bodies. In this way it is more likely that they will be recognized ˹as virtuous˺ and not be harassed. And Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful” [al-Ahzab 33:59]
My wife must wear hijab since it is a commandment from Allah. It is my duty to have some gheera otherwise I’ll be labeled a dayuth. Children are a product of their environment and I want my wife to be a good religious role model for her children.
My wife must wear hijab since it is a commandment from Allah. It is my duty to have some gheera otherwise I’ll be labeled a dayuth. Children are a product of their environment and I want my wife to be a good religious role model for her children.
Women showing their hair was common 20+ years ago. They all wore scrunchies and put it in a bun; it was their signature style that went well with their grey sweaters. Then the garbasaar/hijab revolution came lol
