Would you marry a Women who doesn't not wear the hijab.
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it depends on her other qualities. If she is perfect everywhere else, then yes. I'd marry her
mohamedismail
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I personally wouldn't. Reason being I would want a woman that is practicing the religion fully. Hijab meaning the full islamic attire ie Jilbaab.
At the same time I won't deny that hijab alone doesn't make someone righteous. There are sisters that wear the hijab and are less modest then sisters that don't wear hijab.
At the same time I won't deny that hijab alone doesn't make someone righteous. There are sisters that wear the hijab and are less modest then sisters that don't wear hijab.
Odious Delirium
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Never.
u cant be perfect everywhere else if you cant do something as simple as putting a cloth on your head
Odious Delirium
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Hijab isn't just the headscarf.
it's covering your awrah entirely and acting right when it comes to both your mannerisms/etiquettes and your physical body in away where you don't reveal your form.
hijab in modern colloquialism refers to the khimaar on a women, the hijab isn't even an Islamic term, its a modern new term.
when you are taking about hijab, you are referring to a women covering her entire awrah and not freemixing etc..
so we were referring to 2 different things,
also everyone who talks about hijab is talking about the scarf on a womens head, otherwise they would have say modest clothing abaya jilbaab etc...
Ngl that's a fact. The hijab is a good indicator, something off if it's absent.
I don't want to get banned but a certain demographic only has the hijab journey who will be a bad influence on your daughters
It's a huge indicator but be careful women with a past put it on to be married background search is desired
that u in ur profile pic?
When people speak of hijab its often synonymous with the headscarf not the holistic view of it all including how one conducts themselves.
Also, not all Somali families were brought up with it. I was not. My mother didn't wear it until she was 40. Obviously, if it is a deal breaker to someone (which most of the time it is) don't even bother with them. You have your standards, a certain way you were raised and you shouldn't have to align it with someone else who clearly isn't on the same page at least attire wise. Most Somali women are hijabis anyway so this shouldn't be a point up for discussion.
What I do find odd is insinuating that a woman without a headscarf is some how engaging in vice (other than not wearing it). You wouldn't believe how many nimaan are shocked when I tell them I don't even date, never committed zina, don't drink, don't smoke nor do I take any over the counter medication (haven't for 20 years) and the like. As though my intrinsic values must be indicative of attire alone (even though there is some correlate). There are tiers to the headscarf just like there are tiers to women who don't wear it. No one cares for nuance though. That's what I find more troubling.
Its like they also expect you to exercise your options due to physical attractiveness and are gob smacked when that couldn't be further the truth. Men are very unique creatures. Hence, why I usually stay clear from them. And mostly engage with people for professional or academic purposes.
When I do where the headscarf (I'A) I won't pursue these men who think I'm only wearing it for them or that there is some nefarious past I'm trying to cover up. Nope. The last thing you want in your life is a paranoid or controlling man that is ego encapsulated and can't even trust you. Even when you prefer to lead with authenticity. Why mistrust someone who puts on the headscarf even if its later? I find that very odd. Shouldn't the goal be to promote it?
Also, not all Somali families were brought up with it. I was not. My mother didn't wear it until she was 40. Obviously, if it is a deal breaker to someone (which most of the time it is) don't even bother with them. You have your standards, a certain way you were raised and you shouldn't have to align it with someone else who clearly isn't on the same page at least attire wise. Most Somali women are hijabis anyway so this shouldn't be a point up for discussion.
What I do find odd is insinuating that a woman without a headscarf is some how engaging in vice (other than not wearing it). You wouldn't believe how many nimaan are shocked when I tell them I don't even date, never committed zina, don't drink, don't smoke nor do I take any over the counter medication (haven't for 20 years) and the like. As though my intrinsic values must be indicative of attire alone (even though there is some correlate). There are tiers to the headscarf just like there are tiers to women who don't wear it. No one cares for nuance though. That's what I find more troubling.
Its like they also expect you to exercise your options due to physical attractiveness and are gob smacked when that couldn't be further the truth. Men are very unique creatures. Hence, why I usually stay clear from them. And mostly engage with people for professional or academic purposes.When I do where the headscarf (I'A) I won't pursue these men who think I'm only wearing it for them or that there is some nefarious past I'm trying to cover up. Nope. The last thing you want in your life is a paranoid or controlling man that is ego encapsulated and can't even trust you. Even when you prefer to lead with authenticity. Why mistrust someone who puts on the headscarf even if its later? I find that very odd. Shouldn't the goal be to promote it?
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We’re automatically labelled as s simply because of us not wearing a head scarf.When people speak of hijab its often synonymous with the headscarf not the holistic view of it all including how one conducts themselves.
Also, not all Somali families were brought up with it. I was not. My mother didn't wear it until she was 40. Obviously, if it is a deal breaker to someone (which most of the time it is) don't even bother with them. You have your standards, a certain way you were raised and you shouldn't have to align it with someone else who clearly isn't on the same page at least attire wise. Most Somali women are hijabis anyway so this shouldn't be a point up for discussion.
What I do find odd is insinuating that a woman without a headscarf is some how engaging in vice (other than not wearing it). You wouldn't believe how many nimaan are shocked when I tell them I don't even date, never committed zina, don't drink, don't smoke nor do I take any over the counter medication (haven't for 20 years) and the like. As though my intrinsic values must be indicative of attire alone (even though there is some correlate). There are tiers to the headscarf just like there are tiers to women who don't wear it. No one cares for nuance though. That's what I find more troubling.
When I do where the headscarf (I'A) I won't pursue these men who think I'm only wearing it for them or that there is some nefarious past I'm trying to cover up. Nope. The last thing you want in your life is a paranoid or controlling man that is ego encapsulated and can't even trust you. Even when you prefer to lead with authenticity. Why mistrust someone who puts on the headscarf even if it’s later? I find that very odd. Shouldn't the goal be to promote it?
Sometimes I really want to know if they genuinely believe women who do wear them do it for them?
In my experience, the way a women dresses is not necessarily related to how promiscuous she is, as well as other vices
men think women who dress in an attractive way, must be promiscuous/worldly, as in our heads we see women as more open and out there if she doesn't cover up.
but I know girls who are non-muslim, dress revealing, and aren't very promiscous, don't do drugs etc. and are conservative, So i dont see why it would be impossible for a Muslim women to do that and be even better
Also, women are different to men, men probably have 3x more desires than women, we project onto women, as a man its hard to believe a person who could have as much relationships as they want and do anything they want and be absolutely pure and uninterested, as in the womens position, the man would become a degenerate wh0re, but women think differently to men, and usually are not as evil as men and degenerate,(although nowadays this is changing).
1. pretty girls are insecure and easy and anyone can tell you from experience, alot of these girls have much lower standards than pious Muslim women
2.Noone wants a girl who dresses like a wh0re outside the house anyway
3.Are you insinuating that women without hijab are ugly?
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