Thats nature sxb, men intimidate or fight to solve issues and women use brains as they are weaker physically. But i have seen men do that aswell use brain power and talk smack to not get knocked out.
I know, but as man of God I am not like the rest of men, most men want to be better than everyone, their male peers and their woman, therefore they will use any tactic possible to get one over the woman
Woman do the exact same thing given the chance, especially in a marriage.
But bc I am a man of God I donot care about being better than anyone else, im not marrying a girl to constantly be in a brain maze where im tryna figure out wat i did wrong and dealing with a broken woman who still has issues where she feels so insecure that she needs to be aggresive and use her smartness in order to exult herself above me so that she can feel good about herself.
Both me and my wife are slaves of Allah nd working together to go jannah, there should not be a constant tug of wat between who is better.
This idea of constantly exulting urselves above each other is kuffar thinking. We muslims shouldnt think like that. But i give girls a chance to change themselves b4 I judge, some girls r misninformed and its not their fault and they r willing to change, thats the best woman