Women with high IQ's are less likely to get married

Unfortunately such is the case with Somalis. Personally within my family most of the females are majoring in biology or pre-med whereas the males are doing retarded shit like business; I have taken it upon my moral duty to be the intellectual elite amongst all of them with my superior major (CS/Math).
Computer science is trash. Math is good if u can get into a good job u can earn alot of money, but alot of the jobs involve interest so make sure u get the right experience and right job Inshaallah u can earn above £200k
 
Computer science is trash. Math is good if u can get into a good job u can earn alot of money, but alot of the jobs involve interest so make sure u get the right experience and right job Inshaallah u can earn above £200k

Nah man, tech sector is amongst the most lucrative fields one can get into, i dunno what you're on saxiib
 
Computer science is trash. Math is good if u can get into a good job u can earn alot of money, but alot of the jobs involve interest so make sure u get the right experience and right job Inshaallah u can earn above £200k
I plan on doubling majoring in math so I can do graduate studies in theoretical CS, I don't care about income given I'm not in poverty. But that's the thing with faraxs, they're entirely extrinsically motivated when it comes to school
 

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I plan on doubling majoring in math so I can do graduate studies in theoretical CS, I don't care about income given I'm not in poverty. But that's the thing with faraxs, they're entirely extrinsically motivated when it comes to school
Well, not every Faraax has the luxury of being financially okay, ninyahow. You sound a little out of touch there. I don't blame anybody for going into a field of study mainly for how lucrative it is. We all gotta get our bread and maybe feed the Xaliimo and the little Hodans and Libaans, inshallah.
 
Nope its getting oversaturated now. Getting a good job with a CS is very difficult.

What are you talking about? :jaynerd:

The only part of CS that might be saturated is web development. Even then my sister is a simple web dev and she's getting bombarded with job offers, the ones that into more specialized sectors are in constant demand.

I've almost completed my courses for data analyst and created a linkedin, and already got an offer. And that's in Canada. In the states in even more in demand and with even higher salaries.

Don't get discouraged by a few failed applications or rejections, there are PLENTY of opportunities. My brother in Saudi Arabia, told me he knew this Somali brother who was in cyber security, man worked as a simple consultant barely did any real work and was clearing 30k+ monthly, shit's wild! Don't even get me started with the job sector revolving around blockchain technology, that's even newer and more lucrative!
 
Well, not every Faraax has the luxury of being financially okay, ninyahow. You sound a little out of touch there. I don't blame anybody for going into a field of study mainly for how lucrative it is. We all gotta get our bread and maybe feed the Xaliimo and the little Hodans and Libaans, inshallah.

My father is mashallah a very smart man and educated. He's got 2 masters from one of the top 3 university in Canada, McGill university. However despite his education he never really succeeded in the workforce, collecting diplomas is nice and dandy, but you gotta be able to do something with it.

I'm not saying this to downplay my father's education, thanks to it, he was able to raise 6 kids, and 5 are university graduates and are in the professional market. But for himself, and his personal finances, those degrees didn't take him where he wanted. You gotta take a pragmatic approach to when picking a career path. That's why I heavily regret getting into teaching, wasted 4 years in uni and 3 years teaching, should've went in tech. But it's a lesson learned.
 
Well, not every Faraax has the luxury of being financially okay, ninyahow. You sound a little out of touch there. I don't blame anybody for going into a field of study mainly for how lucrative it is. We all gotta get our bread and maybe feed the Xaliimo and the little Hodans and Libaans, inshallah.
I'm not rich or middle class sxb
 

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My father is mashallah a very smart man and educated. He's got 2 masters from one of the top 3 university in Canada, McGill university. However despite his education he never really succeeded in the workforce, collecting diplomas is nice and dandy, but you gotta be able to do something with it.

I'm not saying this to downplay my father's education, thanks to it, he was able to raise 6 kids, and 5 are university graduates and are in the professional market. But for himself, and his personal finances, those degrees didn't take him where he wanted. You gotta take a pragmatic approach to when picking a career path. That's why I heavily regret getting into teaching, wasted 4 years in uni and 3 years teaching, should've went in tech. But it's a lesson learned.

I wanna take a similar detour. I have a small fam business with my Aabo that's somewhat working but I wanna do side hustles for some extra money and better our business prospects with tech skills. How quickly did you acquire skills like programming and the credentials to get jobs with them, saxiib? I need some direction.
 
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What are you talking about? :jaynerd:

The only part of CS that might be saturated is web development. Even then my sister is a simple web dev and she's getting bombarded with job offers, the ones that into more specialized sectors are in constant demand.

I've almost completed my courses for data analyst and created a linkedin, and already got an offer. And that's in Canada. In the states in even more in demand and with even higher salaries.

Don't get discouraged by a few failed applications or rejections, there are PLENTY of opportunities. My brother in Saudi Arabia, told me he knew this Somali brother who was in cyber security, man worked as a simple consultant barely did any real work and was clearing 30k+ monthly, shit's wild! Don't even get me started with the job sector revolving around blockchain technology, that's even newer and more lucrative!
Entry level jobs are oversaturated and are heavily competitive. a lot of companies are simply unwilling to train people, so to get a job you really need to stand out from your peers.
But once you climb to mid/senior level it's much more easy to land a job.
 
I wanna take a similar detour. I have a small fam business with my Aabo that's somewhat working but I wanna do side hustles for some extra money and better our business prospects with tech skills. How quickly did you acquire skills like programming and the credentials to get jobs with there, saxiib? I need some direction.

Honestly there's several free resources online you can start with:

This the one I'm almost done with:

If you're in Canada, double it up with this program : https://npowercanada.ca/
They got 90%+ job placement rate and it should help you get your foot in the door for the job market.

That's the path I took, I first took free courses, then join the google course, signed up to npower and it's starting in few weeks, 4 month long program and will get a job thru them. Inshallah the plan is after all of that is done, and I got 6 month to a year experience under my belt, i'm going to the states.
 
They are too PC and have a complaint about everything, its very annoying.
Plus they will always use u being less smart in order to win arguments and make u feel like u are constantly fighting them
They are also defensiv about every little thing as if anything u say is at attck to them
I know, but as man of God I am not like the rest of men, most men want to be better than everyone, their male peers and their woman, therefore they will use any tactic possible to get one over the woman
Woman do the exact same thing given the chance, especially in a marriage.
But bc I am a man of God I donot care about being better than anyone else, im not marrying a girl to constantly be in a brain maze where im tryna figure out wat i did wrong and dealing with a broken woman who still has issues where she feels so insecure that she needs to be aggresive and use her smartness in order to exult herself above me so that she can feel good about herself.
Both me and my wife are slaves of Allah nd working together to go jannah, there should not be a constant tug of wat between who is better.
This idea of constantly exulting urselves above each other is kuffar thinking. We muslims shouldnt think like that. But i give girls a chance to change themselves b4 I judge, some girls r misninformed and its not their fault and they r willing to change, thats the best woman
Facts sxb! But people are insecure this times, alot of pictures of photoshoped models everywhere make girls chase ideals that aren’t real, and stories of men cheating give them trust issues long before they even meet a man.
 

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I don't take IQ or much if anything out of the field of psychology deathly serious but you strike me as high IQ and certainly not humorless. In fact, another smart sister by the username @Sophisticate can be incredibly hilarious.

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I knew I would be mentioned somehow. :lol:
:stressed:My mind is untamable.
:mjdontkno:My heart is unclaimable.

:lolbron: Some guys are gluttons for punishment, though.
 
Honestly there's several free resources online you can start with:

This the one I'm almost done with:

If you're in Canada, double it up with this program : https://npowercanada.ca/
They got 90%+ job placement rate and it should help you get your foot in the door for the job market.

That's the path I took, I first took free courses, then join the google course, signed up to npower and it's starting in few weeks, 4 month long program and will get a job thru them. Inshallah the plan is after all of that is done, and I got 6 month to a year experience under my belt, i'm going to the states.
Are you doing the IT version through NPower or data anaylst??? Heard they pay for it also
 
Most women have some crazy headstart. Hiring them literally solves black + women minority for companies.
They get internships and jobs far easier than men it's a joke.
+ Nowadays because of black lives matter diversity spots are becoming more common.
So, you'll have a 26-27 year old woman who graduated at 21 and with like half a decade worth of experience chatting shit about how men aren't shit from a senior manager position lol.
Most guys will grind in their 20s not have the same results and then get married to some princess whose never failed in her life. No wonder divorce rates are so high. When a guy enters his late twenties that time is so crucial to putting your foot on the pedal, instead they normally go for the massive liability that's an anchor. Either marry young or marry when you've achieved something simple.
 
women who are successful tend to use their success against men and don’t respect the man if they are more successful. Hence men don’t want to be in such negative situation. Nothing to do with intimidation.
Excellent point Jayden, an unfortunate truth but what some folks need to hear so get ready for my long response, apologies in advance-


As a woman I’ll admit that many of the women I’ve known and met in their 30s who are successful and educated, unfortunately tend to look down on a man who isn’t on the same level as them.
It’s great you worked hard for what you got mashallah, but they look down on a lot of potential great husbands but don’t want them cause they ain’t on the same education or career level as them.

The irony these men with these jobs they look down on, ( truck drivers, or scaffolders ) are making great money and would love to start a family, but these same women complaining about not being married don’t want them.

Most of my uncles have told me that it’s not that they don’t want a educated woman, it’s just that these types tend to look down on them and belittle them and become very masculine in the relationship and overall marriage.
Also they would rather have a daycare or baby raise their kids.

Alot of the career ladies I do know who are married with children, went back to work immediately after their births and tell me how their husbands would rather they stayed at home to raise the children.
So I do think that’s also something that needs to be addressed prior to having children and getting married is that how will the career work while raising the children.
 
Men being intimidated by high IQ women is the biggest cope in the world. High IQ women pursue higher education and because they have that education, and likely the salary to match, they only want a man who either matches their status or exceeds it. If said women are making six figures they will be looking for a man who also makes six figures, and that drastically reduces the pool of available men. Their standards are too high.
It’s super haasid to say but the sad truth is the men they want, that have those qualities are very few in between ( considering age and race and what not ) and these same men would rather a girl who will stay at home and raise the kids, not go to work all the time and put their careers in first place and let the daycare take care of them.


They also would ultimately want a woman who’s in good shape, nurturing, cooperative, good deen, and overall very fit to raise the kids. These same “high value men” they want are not looking at these career women the same way the career woman look at them.

Let’s be honest, we ladies bring a man home to our families, and the first thing they ask is “what job he do” and “how much money he making”.

Whereas men bring women to their families or friends the first thing they ask is “how she look like ?” Not “damn what a beautiful masters degrees they have !”

And before anyone says I must not be educated to say this about the career women, I’ve completed my studies alhamdulliah, and got a good education for myself.

This is just what my abo and many older male relatives have told me who have successful marriages and I ask them about advice.

They said that most men don’t care about a woman making six figures, they would instead focus on the fact that whether you are kind , smart, religious, and attractive and will be a good mother.


Most men love a smart woman, it’s just they don’t want one who will use their education to make themselves better than them.

End of my Ted Talk.
 

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