Why do successful somalis...

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They don’t bail out they just keep their lives private from other Somalis the evil eye is real. On Ramadan they are ones who give a lot of money at the charities of the Somali mosques on th 27th day
 
Those "successful" ones stoo intergrating within their own community and start creating athiest and pro lgbt children. When you thibk bout it like that, they arent really successful
 

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@Comewithrealness what are you expecting successful Somalis to do for the Somali community?

I dont only expect from successful somalis, but what i expect from all somalis is something like the jewish community, where we all pool our money, rich or poor doesnt matter.
With That money we are going to
Open all kinds of business, where that money will be benefitting the next generation of somalis, and those companys are going to employ newly graduated somalis, so we dont have to deal with discrimination regarding work. Thats actually going to be my next post.
 
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Succesful Somalis should befriend likeminded successful Somalis, this would then expand as educational attainments are raised. I don't believe that you can help certain low level members of the Somali community but then again I also think their numbers are disproportionately represented since they're heavily polarised and receive most the attention.
 
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Associating with Somalis is high risk behavior. High risk behavior is only partially worth it if there is an associated high rate of return. With Somalis, at best you gain and lose nothing.
 
Bail out of the somali community, its like they dont want anything to do with it.
Same way successfull AA disassociate with their community.
Tbh i can understand why they wouldn't as @zeinap83 said yesterday there is big similarity between AA community and somali community, both are to some extent ratchet.
Even though i love the somalis and the community we cant ignore the fact that we do have a lot of xaasidnimo, backstabbing, gossiping, and slandering in our community.
I wouldn't want my kids to be raised among diaspora somalis tbh, sad , but we do have a lot of toxic in our community.
TRUE, WE JUST NEVER HEAR OF THE SUCCESSFUL SOMALIS THEY ARE NOT FAMOUS BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT IN ENTERTAINMENT LIKE MOST SUCCESSFUL BLACKS , THEY ARE IN TOP SECTORS(Manufacturing,Finance,Investment,Technology AND etc) AND LIVE IN HIGH/MIDDLE CLASS NEIGHBORHOODS.:kanyeshrug::kanyeshrug:

THEY ARE GENERALLY VERY SECULAR PEOPLE :gaasdrink:AND NOT CULTURAL AT ALL, THEY DON'T LIKE ASSOCIATING THEMSELVES WITH SOMALI GEELJIRES,
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MOST OF THEM MARRY OUTSIDE, especially the men.:dabcasar:
 
The community starts at the family level and if they are successful, happy and united, you have a successful community. Attending fadhi ku dirir and neglecting your own family is the sort of community that the Op is talking about. I’ve seen the so called Somali community leaders who have children convicted of terrible crimes. Why bother with them?
:hahaidiot:I KNEW THIS "SOMALI COMMUNITY LEADER" WHO HAD ALL THREE OF HIS SONS ON THE STREETS SELLING DRUGS SKIPPING SCHOOL.:russ:MEANWHILE HE WAS STRESSING OVER OTHER SOMALI YOUTH:what1:

THEY ARE ALL DOING MORE THAN 10 YEARS IN JAIL:tacky::tacky:
 
Mainly inspire the youth. Somalis lack role models, besides Ayaan Hirsi Ali. :gaasdrink:
even though i am a muslim and i hate what she says about nabi being a pedo, ayaan hirsi ali actually sort of inspires me, i admire her courage to stand for what she believes in, she stayed strong in in the face of adversity and somali hate, she is the most hated somali person worldwide, she came to Europe in her teens, uneducated and broke, and she worked her way up to become high earning politician while most somalis were lazy and victimizing themselves in europe. she is defo an outlier when it comes to the somali iq bell curve :pachah1:
 
Because they are more interested in increasing their educational credentials, looking after their investments, carving out a comfortable and worthy life for themselves. What is to be gained by associating yourself with ignorant Somalis, except a big and continuous headache? I think a lot of successful Somalis—a loose term btw, I would use it to describe people with a good career, degree from recognized schools, and who don't speak English with a terrible and incomprehensible accent— would be open to helping Somalis, but the issue is that Somalis have compounded their ignorance with arrogance and stubbornness so usually the best decision is just to avoid them, they cannot be helped by anyone except the almighty who also seems to be ignoring them.
 
I don't think it has anything to do with them not being proud, but simply when you have high ambitions, and your work hard somalis tend to gossip, and talk behind your back, i've noticed this first hand, sad but true.
And what makes you think other communities don't? Or do u think those leaving are gonna cut off socialising with all humans?
 
There are a lot if good somalis individually, but in large groups they are often bad influences lol. So like of you are in college its ok to have a couple of somali friends, but you'll get better grades if you study with the chinese people. Because somalis in large groups waste time going to starbucks and gossip
 

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Those "successful" Somalis with "good" jobs who abandon their community are not good people to associate with. I have an uncle like this and he never wanted to visit us with his kids and we live in the same city. He only sees us when a relative comes over from another country and he only does that so there is no suspicion that the local families are distant. As soon as he got a high paying job, he moved in a white area with his kids. The kids have white, Pakistani and other immigrant friends but no Somali friends. His wife has a sister as well in another city and they visit that family but she doesn't let her kids visit their other maternal cousins because they live in council housing. There is definently a class clash going on. We are losing our culture and decency. They act like we will be a bad influence on their kids. That is very unlslamic. They are just middle class and we are treated like an enemy. My father recently told me why we don't see them and only told me because I kept asking why we are not close with them. He will only invite his own brother for lunch, never to his house because he thinks me and my brothers will be coming over to influence them in a negative way. We are Allah fearing good offspring but just because we are living not as well we are rubbish
 
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