Why do successful somalis...

[Subeer]

Bail out of the somali community, its like they dont want anything to do with it.
Same way successfull AA disassociate with their community.
Tbh i can understand why they wouldn't as @zeinap83 said yesterday there is big similarity between AA community and somali community, both are to some extent ratchet.
Even though i love the somalis and the community we cant ignore the fact that we do have a lot of xaasidnimo, backstabbing, gossiping, and slandering in our community.
I wouldn't want my kids to be raised among diaspora somalis tbh, sad , but we do have a lot of toxic in our community.

 

[Jiron]

Hey sxb,

I know plenty of successful somalis who are active in the community. Doctors, nurses, lawyers, politicians, engineers etc.

Those who are not proud of their identity and make the conscious decision to distance themselves from the community probably have their reasons but I would always suggest never to generalize because of bad experience. Everyone is not the same, we are as diverse as any other community.

 

[Subeer]

Hey sxb,

I know plenty of successful somalis who are active in the community. Doctors, nurses, lawyers, politicians, engineers etc.

Those who are not proud of their identity and make the conscious decision to distance themselves from the community probably have their reasons but I would always suggest never to generalize because of bad experience. Everyone is not the same, we are as diverse as any other community.

I don't think it has anything to do with them not being proud, but simply when you have high ambitions, and your work hard somalis tend to gossip, and talk behind your back, i've noticed this first hand, sad but true.

 

[Basra]

Bail out of the somali community, its like they dont want anything to do with it.
Same way successfull AA disassociate with their community.
Tbh i can understand why they wouldn't as @zeinap83 said yesterday there is big similarity between AA community and somali community, both are to some extent ratchet.
Even though i love the somalis and the community we cant ignore the fact that we do have a lot of xaasidnimo, backstabbing, gossiping, and slandering in our community.
I wouldn't want my kids to be raised among diaspora somalis tbh, sad , but we do have a lot of toxic in our community.

Well they have made it! They dont want the Somalis and the Blacks to drag them back! They are competing with the JONES: The successful White people! Its logic for human to self preservation.

 

[Karim]

Surround yourself with your family and stay away from the toxicity of Somalis and you'll be successful. It's a proven theory.

 

[Geeljire lotus]

I’ll become a multi millionaire one day and help my people inshallah

 

[Apollo]

Habits are contagious. When you socialize with fobs, you will catch their anti-Western, anti-effort attitudes.

 

[Basra]

I’ll become a multi millionaire one day and help my people inshallah

Help yourself first

 

[Geeljire lotus]

Help yourself first

Of course but my family actually has millions of dollars to help

 

[Basra]

Of course but my family actually has millions of dollars to help

So...if your family has 'millions' WHY r u in somali spot wishing one day u will have millon to help? Why cant u have the millions now?

 

[Geeljire lotus]

So...if your family has 'millions' WHY r u in somali spot wishing one day u will have millon to help? Why cant u have the millions now?

I’m a broke college student my dad is the one the lacaag

 

[Basra]

I’m a broke college student my dad is the one the lacaag

 

[landheer]

Coons the lot of them.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Do y’all still think qabil will still cause issues for dispora western raised Somalis. Second generation and 3rd generation somalis and later generations. I’m interested in this. @World @Yaquub @Sheikh @Geeljire sanbuur @zeinap83 @landheer



I have assumed it won’t since I haven’t met a qabilist that was around my age. But you guys on here are making me second guess this assumption.

 

[White]

Habits are contagious. When you socialize with fobs, you will catch their anti-Western, anti-effort attitudes.

Stop disrespecting FOBs, they are the most hard working people I've ever met.

 

[Subeer]

Do y’all still think qabil will still cause issues for dispora western raised Somalis. Second generation and 3rd generation somalis and later generations. I’m interested in this. @World @Yaquub @Sheikh @Geeljire sanbuur @zeinap83 @landheer



I have assumed it won’t since I haven’t met a qabilist that was around my age. But you guys on here are making me second guess this assumption.

go create your own thread niyahow

 

[Wardheere]

Bail out of the somali community, its like they dont want anything to do with it.
Same way successfull AA disassociate with their community.
Tbh i can understand why they wouldn't as @zeinap83 said yesterday there is big similarity between AA community and somali community, both are to some extent ratchet.
Even though i love the somalis and the community we cant ignore the fact that we do have a lot of xaasidnimo, backstabbing, gossiping, and slandering in our community.
I wouldn't want my kids to be raised among diaspora somalis tbh, sad , but we do have a lot of toxic in our community.

They are successful when their kids become kuffar and gay.

Success by the way has nothing to do with how much wealth you have. I dont know when people will get that.
You need a decent life.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

go create your own thread niyahow

qabil shit could be the reason why some Somalis distance themselves from the community.

Why hang out and associate with people that call you "midgaan" and other slurs.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

I see they censored the M word. That's awesome. I been called that shit on here multiple times by some random dick in the booty European niggas on here

 

[Apollo]

They are successful when their kids become kuffar and gay.

Success by the way has nothing to do with how much wealth you have. I dont know when people will get that.
You need a decent life.

Gayness is spread all over the population. It doesn't just affect irrigelious people. It's an irrelevant tiny minority anyway (2-4%) ... +96% chance their kids won't be gay. Stop fear mongering.