Why do many Muslim men act like Islam is only for Women?

[Odious Delirium]

Yeah it’s generalising af. Those types of men are a minority amongst muslims as a whole let alone Somalis where they’re 0.1% at most. Most muslim men are well-adjusted, average or weak dayuus. I’m always confused when women say most men are hypocritical players because it’s so out of touch with reality.

I think it’s because the average Joe is invisible and good men are usually low key so they focus on the vocal minority of players and other loud types. IDK why @Queen Ati cares about what Pakistani men think though

It's the lying muslim men do on the net like on this forum about how many girls they conquerored when they are just a bunch of miskeen guys.

They do this to compensate because they feel like there missing out on western degeneracy since things like being a virgin for men is looked down upon and the women are equally engrossed in everything toxic when it comes to non muslim cultures like western culture. Which leads them to always comparing there men to men of other cultures and always judging what's deemed "masculine" based on that same "principle" this is basically the cause if all gender wars.

Seeking female validation is the bane of all men since men directly or indirectly do everything for women.

women on the other hand don't seek the validation of men.

Remember qabil killed his own brother over a women

 

[Angelina]

Yeah the brother also weird for that ,but she exposed him after he married an cadaan girl & not before. So would she keep quiet if went for a desi women?

Very weird family dynamic those timo jileecs

If I was in her situation, him having the freedom to marry an ajnabi will enrage me even more tbh. I completely get it. Imagine not even having the freedom to marry outside of your family because of 'deen' and your abusive hypocritical brother has the freedom to marry a cadaan?

 

[Cosmo]

It's the lying muslim men do on the net like on this forum about how many girls they conquerored when they are just a bunch of miskeen guys.

They do this to compensate because they feel like there missing out on western degeneracy since things like being a virgin for men is looked down upon and the women are equally engrossed in everything toxic when it comes to non muslim cultures like western culture. Which leads them to always comparing there men to men of other cultures and always judging what's deemed "masculine" based on that same "principle" this is basically the cause if all gender wars.

Seeking female validation is the bane of all men since men directly or indirectly do everything for women.

women on the other hand don't seek the validation of men.

Remember qabil killed his own brother over a women

Yeah that too. 90% of these so called pullers are capping, anybody who thinks loads of muslim man are conquering women while the muslim women are virtuous angels is an idiot. There are close to equal proportions of degenerates of either gender. And I agree that female validation is worthless. Being desired by women doesn’t make you a better person than someone who isn’t, by that logic Dajjal will be one of the best men to walk the earth astaghfirullah

 

[Lostbox]

The few bad men represent all men again. How lucky we are

 

[Lostbox]

There plenty of women living double lives in the Muslim community. The difference is they're better at hide it. The twitter poster wasn't

 

[Odious Delirium]

Yeah that too. 90% of these so called pullers are capping, anybody who thinks loads of muslim man are conquering women while the muslim women are virtuous angels is an idiot. There are close to equal proportions of degenerates of either gender. And I agree that female validation is worthless. Being desired by women doesn’t make you a better person than someone who isn’t, by that logic Dajjal will be one of the best men to walk the earth astaghfirullah

The thing women chase isn't the validation of men but rather resources and dajal is going to basically be super human with control over the entire planets resources why else do you think all the women will go to him. He will literally become the ultimate man and then go on to claim to be God.

Even those women who look like they seek male validation like black women don't actually do that. they just get angry when a black guy (which is rare) that they would never give a chance to marries out as a millionaire. These type of situations are the only times you see females getting hyped over men and its because of resources.

All these red pill guy and the incels basically preach one thing: get more resources and you can get more women.

 

[Somalaiklik]

Huh? "The believing women" part refers to Muslim women, "those who have been given the book before you" part refers to Christian and Jewish women

Wrong. And why would any self respecting man want to marry a christian or jewish woman. Haram. Why would allah say this?

 

[Somalaiklik]

What’s wrong with my post? Clearly somebody is having their monthly mood swing

I am not on my period. Problem?

 

[Taij4an]

So Christians and Jews aren't considered gaals?

You shoulnd't marry jews or christians, Umar ibn ulkhattab forbade his companions from doing it during his khalifah due to it only being needed in timmes of extremty like bringing peace between nations and tribes, because marrying a gaal causes a man various issues both dunya and deen
If that was in the sahabas time what about now?
No scholar will ever advise you to marry a gaal in fact they warn against it.
Plus the women has to be a practising women of the book she follows and little to none practice their book nowadays, Muslim men who want to marry gaals want an excuse to marry a non-Muslim women they are in Love with
In fact i don't know how a Muslim man could willingly marry a non-Muslim, how can u spend ur life with someone who doesn't even worship Allah alone or follow Islam, I would vomit
Also the brother is clearly not marrying practising women of the book, hes marrying atheist *oe becky from down the road which is completely haram

 

[Taij4an]

why should I believe in something so blatantly sexist.

If u believe anything from the deen is sexist then u can become a kuffar

 

[Taij4an]

If something stops you from committing haram - whether an abusive brother, weather conditions, car breaking down, etc.- would you say it's a net positive outcome? Or is it more beneficial to be allowed the opportunity to fail/sin?

No abusing a person for commiting a sin will only cause more harm and push them away from Islam

 

[Somalaiklik]

You shoulnd't marry jews or christians, Umar ibn ulkhattab forbade his companions from doing it during his khalifah due to it only being needed in timmes of extremty like bringing peace between nations and tribes, because marrying a gaal causes a man various issues both dunya and deen
If that was in the sahabas time what about now?
No scholar will ever advise you to marry a gaal in fact they warn against it.
Plus the women has to be a practising women of the book she follows and little to none practice their book nowadays, Muslim men who want to marry gaals want an excuse to marry a non-Muslim women they are in Love with
In fact i don't know how a Muslim man could willingly marry a non-Muslim, how can u spend ur life with someone who doesn't even worship Allah alone or follow Islam, I would vomit
Also the brother is clearly not marrying practising women of the book, hes marrying atheist *oe becky from down the road which is completely haram

Muslim men nowadays think they are allowed to marry whoever they want. Also its haram to marry a gaal. It is haram.

 

[Taij4an]

How should men reconcile jealous protectiveness with a woman's perceived agency and boundaries which can vary widely between locations/cultures? What is the extent of the Wali's responsibility and accountability?

He does it with hikma and mercy and he doesn't act like a hypocrite, the man obviously doesn't care about Islam or anything, his disapproval has nothing to do with his taqwa rather his ego and cultural beliefs

 

[Somalaiklik]

If u believe anything from the deen is sexist then u can become a kuffar

Said who?

 

[Taij4an]

Do you believe more care should be given in raising a young girl or a boy of similar age and why?

Both the same

 

[Taij4an]

Said who?

Allah

 

[Somalaiklik]

Allah

Proof.

 

[Somalaiklik]

Are you gaal? You seem to have a lot of disdain.

Muslims should not interact with gaals. You are not allowed to ever under any circumstances to marryi a gaal. Male of female.

 

[Taij4an]

Proof.

24:47
وَيَقُولُونَ ءَامَنَّا بِٱللَّهِ وَبِٱلرَّسُولِ وَأَطَعْنَا ثُمَّ يَتَوَلَّىٰ فَرِيقٌۭ مِّنْهُم مِّنۢ بَعْدِ ذَٰلِكَ ۚ وَمَآ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ بِٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ ٤٧

And the hypocrites say, “We believe in Allah and the Messenger, and we obey.” Then a group of them turns away soon after that. These are not ˹true˺ believers.



24:48
وَإِذَا دُعُوٓا۟ إِلَى ٱللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِۦ لِيَحْكُمَ بَيْنَهُمْ إِذَا فَرِيقٌۭ مِّنْهُم مُّعْرِضُونَ ٤٨

And as soon as they are called to Allah and His Messenger so he may judge between them, a group of them turns away.



24:49
وَإِن يَكُن لَّهُمُ ٱلْحَقُّ يَأْتُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهِ مُذْعِنِينَ ٤٩

But if the truth is in their favour, they come to him, fully submitting.



24:50
أَفِى قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ أَمِ ٱرْتَابُوٓا۟ أَمْ يَخَافُونَ أَن يَحِيفَ ٱللَّهُ عَلَيْهِمْ وَرَسُولُهُۥ ۚ بَلْ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ هُمُ ٱلظَّـٰلِمُونَ ٥٠

Is there a sickness in their hearts? Or are they in doubt? Or do they fear that Allah and His Messenger will be unjust to them? In fact, it is they who are the ˹true˺ wrongdoers.

 

[Taij4an]

I am not on my period. Problem?

PMS