Why do many Muslim men act like Islam is only for Women?

[Queen Ati]

A lot of Muslim men openly carry out Zinah, go clubbing/drinking but when they see their Female Muslim counterparts do the same thing, they lose their minds. Somehow it's as though a lot of Muslim men actually believe that adhering to Islam is for women only and that they can repent whenever they want and live a 'clean' life free of punishment.

Example of such behavior in an Asian household. She also said that her parents turn a blind eye to his behavior. This isn't Islam, this is Cultural and it's all about upholding Patriarchy and cultural notions of "shame" and "shame" can only be brought by women- in their opinion.

 

[Queen Ati]

Ladies: Men with such a mentality tend to have misogynist sinners for sons. Make sure you screen a man for hypocritical munaafaq, misogynist views before marrying him.

Islam is for all, not just for women. Stay far away from males who are obsessed with policing women and have no energy for men who are just as bad or even worse. They are toxic misogynists whose true religion is Patriarchy, not Islam.

 

[Taij4an]

2:44
۞ أَتَأْمُرُونَ ٱلنَّاسَ بِٱلْبِرِّ وَتَنسَوْنَ أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ تَتْلُونَ ٱلْكِتَـٰبَ ۚ أَفَلَا تَعْقِلُونَ ٤٤

Do you preach righteousness and fail to practice it yourselves, although you read the Scripture? Do you not understand?

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[Khanderson]

Islam has always taught women to be obedient:

But the context only works if the father, brother or husband is reliable and qualified through experience in curtain field.

a person can only provide if he knows what his duty is.

A women can’t dependent on a lazy or a person with contradictions.

 

[TekNiKo]

Well a man cant get pregnant with a baby so thats one major difference.

 

[Queen Ati]

2:44
۞ أَتَأْمُرُونَ ٱلنَّاسَ بِٱلْبِرِّ وَتَنسَوْنَ أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ تَتْلُونَ ٱلْكِتَـٰبَ ۚ أَفَلَا تَعْقِلُونَ ٤٤

Do you preach righteousness and fail to practice it yourselves, although you read the Scripture? Do you not understand?

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Jazakallah for sharing.

It's very sad that a lot of Muslim males are drunk on Patriarchal Misogyny and being led to Jahannam. They have made their own doctrines and claim to be Muslim, but upon closer inspection their only 'religion' is enforcing Islam upon women. You can even see them online 24/7, posting their naked bodies (belly button to Knees) as if they have never heard Islam told men to be modest.

 

[Taij4an]

A lot of Muslim men openly carry out Zinah, go clubbing/drinking but when they see their Female Muslim counterparts do the same thing, they lose their minds. Somehow it's as though a lot of Muslim men actually believe that adhering to Islam is for women only and that they can repent whenever they want and live a 'clean' life free of punishment.

Example of such behavior in an Asian household. She also said that her parents turn a blind eye to his behavior. This isn't Islam, this is Cultural and it's all about upholding Patriarchy and cultural notions of "shame" and "shame" can only be brought by women- in their opinion.

Seems like the entire family is non-religious
Judging by her posts she doesn't care about Islam either and nor does her parents its mostly jsut culture
Dysfunctional family she seems to be making certain comments that seems like she dislikes certain things in Islam
Also religion has been mixed into this but I don't think they really should be conflating their family issues with Islam bc its mostly got to do with culture

 

[Queen Ati]

Well a man cant get pregnant with a baby so thats one major difference.

Do you think on the day of judgement that Allah is going to excuse a man for being the sperm carrier and punish the woman for having a uterus? This isn't about society's perceptions, this is about Islamic law.

 

[Queen Ati]

Islam has always taught women to be obedient:

But the context only works if the father, brother or husband is reliable and qualified through experience in curtain field.

a person can only provide if he knows what his duty is.

A women can’t dependent on a lazy or a person with contradictions.

If a man provides and protects, a woman will not find it difficult to not allow random people in her house when her husband is away and so forth. Obedience in Islam is common sense and security.

 

[Taij4an]

Ladies: Men with such a mentality tend to have misogynist sinners for sons. Make sure you screen a man for hypocritical munaafaq, misogynist views before marrying him.

Islam is for all, not just for women. Stay far away from males who are obsessed with policing women and have no energy for men who are just as bad or even worse. They are toxic misogynists whose true religion is Patriarchy, not Islam.

Men have big egos and need to fuel their ego by looking down on other people, alot of men will use religion to gain power, this is the main reason why the jews at the time of the prophet sallalahu alayhi wasalam denied him, they had status as rabbis amongst their people and were learned in religion therefore they had a upper hand over them and could twist scripture for thei own benefit, becoming Muslim would mean they lose this power.
If u read surah baqarah and Aali Imraan and read various tafaseer you will realise that Allah talks about the mentality of jews alot, and what they did in the past, alot of the reason is so we Muslims will imitate the jews so we are being warned of what not to do.
I think women are easier for men to impose and blame things on because women are usually weaker in society and don't have a voice, this allows men to establish their dominance and power.

 

[Taij4an]

Well a man cant get pregnant with a baby so thats one major difference.

Yes but he can impregnate a women with a baby

 

[Queen Ati]

Yes but he can impregnate a women with a baby

Men with a Haram misgynist view in life, genuinely think they are exempt from sin because they can hide it from people. All they care about is how people see them, not that Allah SWT sees them. Maybe they think their fellow males will drag them out of hellfire.

 

[Taij4an]

Men with a Haram misgynist view in life, genuinely think they are exempt from sin because they can hide it from people. All they care about is how people see them, not that Allah SWT sees them. Maybe they think their fellow males will drag them out of hellfire.

Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of you are the best to their families, and I am the best to my family. When your companion dies, then do not abuse him.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 3895

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and his children and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7138, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1829

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

 

[Queen Ati]

Men have big egos and need to fuel their ego by looking down on other people, alot of men will use religion to gain power, this is the main reason why the jews at the time of the prophet sallalahu alayhi wasalam denied him, they had status as rabbis amongst their people and were learned in religion therefore they had a upper hand over them and could twist scripture for thei own benefit, becoming Muslim would mean they lose this power.
If u read surah baqarah and Aali Imraan and read various tafaseer you will realise that Allah talks about the mentality of jews alot, and what they did in the past, alot of the reason is so we Muslims will imitate the jews so we are being warned of what not to do.
I think women are easier for men to impose and blame things on because women are usually weaker in society and don't have a voice, this allows men to establish their dominance and power.

Agreed.

What angers me about this is that it's all SHIRK. As in, they are bullying women into covering up because they care about what humans think of them and their 'family name'. If they feared Allah, they'd cover their own bodies also and lower their eyes and control their tongues and private parts.

 

[Lebron James]

White people won in life, they are the only group which other races argue about all day while they don’t do the same for them. This is white peoples world

 

[Queen Ati]

Aisha reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The best of you are the best to their families, and I am the best to my family. When your companion dies, then do not abuse him.”

Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 3895

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
Abdullah ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock. The leader of people is a guardian and is responsible for his subjects. A man is the guardian of his family and he is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband’s home and his children and she is responsible for them. The servant of a man is a guardian of the property of his master and he is responsible for it. No doubt, every one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 7138, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 1829

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

Patriarchy worshippers don't even want to tend to their own 'flock', they resent women and hate that they have to provide and protect. The only thing they enjoy is bullying the physically weaker gender. Especially males who refuse to compete economically and socially with other men, these tend to be the worst. You can see them on this forum, 24/7 finding ways to belittle women for no reason.

 

[Taij4an]

What angers me about this is that it's all SHIRK

Idk if I is shirk but I know it is a very big sin, I also know that alot of the time these "Muslims" don't actually believe in Islam it is just culture. Allahu A'lam

Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Do you know who is bankrupt?” They said, “The one without money or goods is bankrupt.” The Prophet said, “Verily, the bankrupt of my nation are those who come on the Day of Resurrection with prayers, fasting, and charity, but also with insults, slander, consuming wealth, shedding blood, and beating others. The oppressed will each be given from his good deeds. If his good deeds run out before justice is fulfilled, then their sins will be cast upon him and he will be thrown into the Hellfire.”

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2581

Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Muslim

 

[Queen Ati]

White people won in life, they are the only group which other races argue about all day while they don’t do the same for them. This is white peoples world

The only White people that are "Winning" are those who fear Allah. You should read up on the high-rates of debt, suicide, infidelity and other mental and social issues they are suffering from.

 

[Taij4an]

White people won in life, they are the only group which other races argue about all day while they don’t do the same for them. This is white peoples world

U sure?

 

[Lebron James]

The only White people that are "Winning" are those who fear Allah. You should read up on the high-rates of debt, suicide, infidelity and other mental and social issues they are suffering from.

Yet people cry online that their brother married a white girl and they cant. White people won I never see them talk about the shit minorities cry about it’s sad wallahi.