Wallahi you're setting women up for failure if you're letting them believe that they can marry the man of their dream when they're 30. I'm not saying it's impossible but that man, if he's very desirable, will most likely look the other way unless the sister is very beautiful and nice to be around. If he's a high earner he probably wants you to stay home and give him children. Picking a 20 year old girl is then far better
It's different for men because youth and beauty aren't that important compared to for women. If he's a hard worker he will be an experienced and established niin who is high commodity
It's different for men because youth and beauty aren't that important compared to for women. If he's a hard worker he will be an experienced and established niin who is high commodity