Many women are their own worst enemies. They are in constant competition and try to bring other women down if it makes them feel better. I see it all the time, especially pre covid when it was more visible at work. You're right they do not have lasting friendships. Men still speak to friends from kindergarten. Women have to be insane to get marriage advice from other women as many do not want what's best for them. My mom only spoke to unrelated women on the phone or had them over when my dad was home. She never told me why but now I know exactly why she did that. She never told us her marital problems if she did have them, forget about other hooyos. That's why women leave decent men all the time. They will try to break up your marriage if you have a minor issue that can be settled through communication. "Oh you can do better". "He's nothing". I wonder how many marriage breakdowns affecting children happened in the Somali community due to other women convincing women in workable marriages that it's unfixable. Almost all Somali men are decent and understanding so it makes no sense why the majority have divorced. It must be other women who got in their heads.
you might see it as a major accomplishment to have worked in another country or gotten on the property ladder & / paid bills. But I tell you that is not what a man values.Burden? Pry tell in a world in which women also understand the burden of what it is provide and can apply for the exact same jobs you do whilst also going through life altering and life threatening things like giving birth and raising infants, what extra burden do you have? It’s even more laughable when I know you’re a teen who hasn’t lived in the real world. Have you ever paid bills, rent? Tried to get on the property ladder? Worked in another country? I have done all that and I’m a woman, so you can’t tell me about any particular burden and I probably know more than you do atm.
Gone are the days in which men would go off to war, defend a whole tribe/nation and list goes on. Gone are the days when making money and provision was for men only.
your life is no different to the millions of women who probably do the exact same job as you do as well, unless you work in a oil rig, build houses ect which I know you don’t from my deduction from your other thread. There is nothing extra and there is nothing unique that only men do.
Btw, a marriage can’t be happy if it soley hinges on the happiness of the wife, both parties must make each other happy. You don’t seem to wants to do that you’re coming up with silly childish excuses.