Why are there so many unmarried somali women in the west?

[Periplus]

deep down no one knows the reason? are you serious? this is like my fifth time telling you this is RESEARCh and studies that have been done as to why women are more unhappy. bro you argue with you emotios like a woman. like i said u seem very young and your arguments prove it.

You mention this research and studies so much but have yet to provide credible research that proves staying at home is better for women.

Answer me this and lets stay on the topic. Out of these two choice who would you personally marry and don't give me the run arounds:

1. A clean traditional woman from somali that cooks, cleans, raises children and takes care of the household`.

2. A free spirited liberal somali woman that spends her nights at poetry slam with her hair out, that can't cook, dosen't clean, always argues and have no respect for her man.

pick one.

That does not prove your point in the slightest. I would obviously choose the first one because if my spouse does not cook and clean, that means I will be doing all of the housework. As for respect, it is a two way street.

Ideally, I would like someone that shares the housework and the childrearing. That was how I was raised, in a family in which both my parents are uni grads and have jobs.

 

[Toronto95]

Yes, because Maya Jama and Alisha Bø are known to be from functioning families.

I can cherry pick examples too mate.

Lol this matter because I the end of the day they have paternal lineage and don't run around ask people to vidate their somilinimo or even care about it its win win. With you females the child always seeks validation and begs attention from the community. Go check sheeko sheeko videos it was somali women from maternal side who hated and complained about their somali side. Those girls you listed are successful entertainers see the difference lol feminism has really deluded you blm halimos

 

[Daaamn]

you on some other shit. you literally speculating as to why they are unhappy by saying "maybe". While i give you the REASON BEING THAT THEY are not following the traditional ways. that they are getting married LATER and have no experience being a wife/mother, but more so a career woman.

you got some nerve to be talking about stuff you don't know. you seem very young and will learn. hopefully you don't learn too late.

also i did see you saying that shit about analogy....still dosen't forgive u comparing being a traditional housewife to a literal slave....use better example next time.

my nigga, what career focused woman rejected you? why are you going so hard?

 

[Toronto95]

Tell that to Maya Jama

She's successful does not matter. She isn't publicizing her anti somali sentiment like children for maternal lineage.

 

[Periplus]

Lol this matter because I the end of the day they have paternal lineage and don't run around ask people to vidate their somilinimo or even care about it its win win. With you females the child always seeks validation and begs attention from the community. Go check sheeko sheeko videos it was somali women from maternal side who hated and complained about their somali side. Those girls you listed are successful entertainers see the difference lol feminism has really deluded you blm halimos

I am a man first and foremost, just because I am educated enough to understand that equality is common sense does not mean I am woman.

Secondly, your point was about structured family. I proved to you that those two women prove that not all Somali male/Ajnabi woman marriages are peaceful.

Lastly, structure your points before making an argument, your debating style is rather erratic.

 

[newguy0123]

You mention this research and studies so much but have yet to provide credible research that proves staying at home is better for women.



That does not prove your point in the slightest. I would obviously choose the first one because if my spouse does not cook and clean, that means I will be doing all of the housework. As for respect, it is a two way street.

Ideally, I would like someone that shares the housework and the childrearing. That was how I was raised, in a family in which both my parents are uni grads and have jobs.

all that back and forth....to still choose the first option. ain't that something. you gonna grow wiser though my brother.

 

[newguy0123]

my nigga, what career focused woman rejected you? why are you going so hard?

nothing wrong with being career focused, but the reality is if you put your career before family....especially as a women...you probably gonna go unmarried. thats what the topic is.

 

[Toronto95]

yada yada all you Somali men know is to criticise Somali women.
How about make Somalia normal and give us our dignity again? Somali women can’t even be proud of where they’re from because you men robbed us from that dream, everything is destroyed because of you the men from family structures to politics. Somali girls wouldn’t be like this if Somalia was peaceful and we all lived there. Be real men and then everything will follow through.

yada yada all you Somali men know is to criticise Somali women.
How about make Somalia normal and give us our dignity again? Somali women can’t even be proud of where they’re from because you men robbed us from that dream, everything is destroyed because of you the men from family structures to politics. Somali girls wouldn’t be like this if Somalia was peaceful and we all lived there. Be real men and then everything will follow through.

Lol it's a the same with you women you wouldn't be.pround if we were the top in the world. Only thing that makes you guys happy is illhan omar releases a sex tape . Somali will prosper are time is.coming. why do you care lol it's not like dying children from somali state is important you. You rather support blm and go.fund me for police 'brutality victims. Lol somali failures and successes belong to us men. You women always bring up.things that most youth born after 1989 could do.anything about but are trying to fix it. While your sisters are out on l
hub or reddit showing their 'assests'

 

[Periplus]

all that back and forth....to still choose the first option. ain't that something. you gonna grow wiser though my brother.

No its because you put two stupid options.

Obviously, I would not want a spouse who did no housework at all. No one does.

Me choosing the least horrible out of two sh*t options does not mean you are right.

Its like saying: Would you eat sh*t or eat poison?

And then when you choose to eat sh*t, I say "aha so you do agree that eating sh*t is delicious". No, it just means I prefer it less to dying.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

you on some other shit. you literally speculating as to why they are unhappy by saying "maybe". While i give you the REASON BEING THAT THEY are not following the traditional ways. that they are getting married LATER and have no experience being a wife/mother, but more so a career woman.

you got some nerve to be talking about stuff you don't know. you seem very young and will learn. hopefully you don't learn too late.

also i did see you saying that shit about analogy....still dosen't forgive u comparing being a traditional housewife to a literal slave....use better example next time.

LOL

Do you even believe in Qadr? Allah decrees who gets married or not married and when someone gets married.

A woman marrying or not marrying has nothing to do with her ability to be a good wife. There are countless neglectful men and women who are married and in fact, plenty of them are on their second or third marriages. It is very easy to get married.

 

[Toronto95]

Most Somali men and women in the west are generally religious muslims.

However, there are more Somali men that commit zina, drink and "follow madoows" than Somali women.

Argue all you like but that is the reality.

You sound beta with that statement. Women hide their sex life more often while men are open about theirs. Stats prove women are more sexually active and men much more likely to be virgins. Now put that into perspective in somali culture. I promise you halimos are out here doing crazy things. You can just do easy Google search. One girl from London was expose taking backshots from white man. Two girls from Toronto have public sexual content with white men as well. Another girl was seen as escorts the list goes on. I'm not here to judge them for their choices but somali men should not be naive. Make sure I show the truth to my brothers. Stop the cap more somali men are virgins that the fact.

 

[Periplus]

You sound beta with that statement. Women hide their sex life more often while men are open about theirs. Stats prove women are more sexually active and men much more likely to be virgins. Now put that into perspective in somali culture. I promise you halimos are out here doing crazy things. You can just do easy Google search. One girl from London was expose taking backshots from white man. Two girls from Toronto have public sexual content with white men as well. Another girl was seen as escorts the list goes on. I'm not here to judge them for their choices but somali men should not be naive. Make sure I show the truth to my brothers. Stop the cap more somali men are virgins that the fact.

Link the proof that proves your point.

Let us see some peer-reviewed journals from credible institutions that prove your point.

You said you can prove it, now prove it. We are all waiting.

 

[newguy0123]

No its because you put two stupid options.

Obviously, I would not want a spouse who did no housework at all. No one does.

Me choosing the least horrible out of two sh*t options does not mean you are right.

Its like saying: Would you eat sh*t or eat poison?

And then when you choose to eat sh*t, I say "aha so you do agree that eating sh*t is delicious". No, it just means I prefer it less to dying.

bro, what are you on? on one hand you comparing being a traditional housewife to being a slave, then the next you talking about not wanting a spouse that did no housework. Don't you see the contradiction is what you saying?

now you talking about shit and poison? you trolling me?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

For those of you who are unaware:

Just as provision is written and connected to its means, so too marriage is also written and preordained. For both spouses it is written that he or she will be the spouse of this particular person. Nothing is hidden from Allaah on earth or in heaven. End quote.

Please educate yourselves on your religion and stop basing your self-worth on being attached to another person, even if you marry a good person, they can drop dead at any second and so can your children.

I find it so annoying when some people on here are obsessed with policing what Allah SWT has predestined.

 

[Toronto95]

Link the proof that proves your point.

Let us see some peer-reviewed journals from credible institutions that prove your point.

You said you can prove it, now prove it. We are all waiting.

Wallahi it's true abti I won't post sexual content on here but I would not.lie and make big statements just to troll. Somali women are not as pure and wholesome as you make them to be. They want to live like this. They're influence and controlled by urban culture and Liberalism.

 

[World]

bro, what are you on? on one hand you comparing being a traditional housewife to being a slave, then the next you talking about not wanting a spouse that did no housework. Don't you see the contradiction is what you saying?

now you talking about shit and poison? you trolling me?

He don’t know what he wants, i think he just argues for the sake of arguing. Sounds like a Mercury 2.0.

 

[Periplus]

bro, what are you on? on one hand you comparing being a traditional housewife to being a slave, then the next you talking about not wanting a spouse that did no housework. Don't you see the contradiction is what you saying?

now you talking about shit and poison? you trolling me?

You are actually being deliberately dense at this point.

I said I would prefer someone that shared the housework.

I never said being a traditional housewife was akin to being a slave, you are just horrible at understanding analogies.

You are the type of guy to ask George Orwell why he compared the USSR to farm pigs. I am sure you find that joke funny laakin after your performance today, I highly doubt you would get it.

 

[empressjamila]

Yaab the incels took over this thread

 

[Periplus]

Wallahi it's true abti I won't post sexual content on here but I would not.lie and make big statements just to troll. Somali women are not as pure and wholesome as you make them to be. They want to live like this. They're influence and controlled by urban culture and Liberalism.

No one asked you to link sexual content here.

We asked for the statistics you claim that prove your point.

 

[Toronto95]

Link the proof that proves your point.

Let us see some peer-reviewed journals from credible institutions that prove your point.

You said you can prove it, now prove it. We are all waiting.

Go Google it yourself it was release saying 28% percent of men between 18 and 30 never had pussy or girlfriend. While for women it was 18 %.