Why are there so many unmarried somali women in the west?

[newguy0123]

I fucked up MASSIVELY by going down the engineering route. I'm honestly convinced that fertility clinics are an untapped goldmine wallahi, they're going to booming in the next decade lol

yeah, even women without men want children. fertility clinics are literally begging men for their semen, because there is such a high demand.

 

[Periplus]

Its sunnah to marry young with the high rate of fitnah and mixing with collegues at work its inadvisable for a woman to remain single this long without "slips" happening.

She can get married to a student her age and go to school/work together but will these women accept this? 50k Meher comes to mind before stability

Your pushing a feminist agenda

Its sunnah not fard. Its not haram, its not makrukh.

There is no dembi in a woman choosing to secure her life before she settles down and no dembi if she wants to marry young.

Feminism literally means to advocate for the equality of genders, Islam believes in equal not identical. What is wrong about that?

 

[TekNiKo]

Its sunnah not fard. Its not haram, its not makrukh.

There is no dembi in a woman choosing to secure her life before she settles down and no dembi if she wants to marry young.

Feminism literally means to advocate for the equality of genders, Islam believes in equal not identical. What is wrong about that?

Feminism is NOT part of Islam, Islam has already guaranteed rights for women and doesnt require foreign idealogies like feminism which is a Marxist construct created by our foes who wish to destroy Islam from within.

Cultural Marxism go research it that is what SJW push.

 

[Periplus]

Come on man. I am having an honest discussion with you. Don't make it seem like i hate our women, just because point out why the marriage rate is horrible in the west.

Also, nobody talked about "financially stable". i talked about GENETICS. you can disagree with me all you want, but you can't disagree with the fact that older women are having a harder time conceiving AND giving birth to a child. How are you arguing with literal scientific studies right now?

Alot of them are being lied to. They are told to become "independent" and focus on their careers. Then by the time they become 30+ start looking for a husband they are lost and have no clue in what to do. they might have all the degrees in the world, but don't know what a wife is or have skills regarding cooking, raising children and running a house. Everybody wishes they had spent more time with family when they on their deathbed....not their job.

its only so long you can put off something. Why are you acting like everything is cool, when you have women killing themselves over this?

Ideally no-one should be telling them anything.

I am saying that women should be able to marry whenever they want. You are telling them to marry younger.

Will you be responsible if a woman marries at 25 and is not ready for it, resulting in it collapsing and the family breaking down?

Have you thought about the lies you could be feeding to women, telling them to get married at a young age despite it not being the right decision for some?

Neither option is a one-size fits all situation like you are making it out be. People should have right to choose when they get married and not judged for it. I respect a woman that is unmarried at 30 building her career as equally as a young mother at 23.

 

[Periplus]

Feminism is NOT part of Islam, Islam has already guaranteed rights for women and doesnt require foreign idealogies like feminism which is a Marxist construct created by our foes who wish to destroy Islam from within.

Cultural Marxism go research it that is what SJW push.

Yeah but we are not in a Muslim country where rights are granted by the Quran. In fact, there is no nation on earth in which its legal system comes from the Quran.

Feminism is a movement that attempts to bring equality to the inherent inequality in society towards males. If we lived in a perfect Islamic society then I agree but we do not. We live in societies, both in muslim-majority and non-muslim majority nation, in which the legislation is man-made and favours men.

I do not need to research cultural marxism sxb. No offence, laakin I know what I am talking about when it comes to these topics.

 

[Macalin dheerow]

There are not that many somali guys looking for marriage, if more somali guys married then there would be less unmarried somali women. Men iniate the marriage.

Wallah I can’t tell if anyone is serious or just trolling, the lines have blurred too much.

 

[newguy0123]

Ideally no-one should be telling them anything.

I am saying that women should be able to marry whenever they want. You are telling them to marry younger.

Will you be responsible if a woman marries at 25 and is not ready for it, resulting in it collapsing and the family breaking down?

Have you thought about the lies you could be feeding to women, telling them to get married at a young age despite it not being the right decision for some?

Neither option is a one-size fits all situation like you are making it out be. People should have right to choose when they get married and not judged for it. I respect a woman that is unmarried at 30 building her career as equally as a young mother at 23.

What i tell them is something that has been normal and working for thousands of years, what you talking about is something that has destroyed the family structure in the west. Look at Japan....a dying nation with women and men killing themselves, shut ins, overworked...its a disaster.

but even though i point to all the evidence, people like you won't listen. You one of them "its their choice" guys. I don't blame them for their choice, but when stuff blows up and you are lonely in an empty apartment at 40. Don't come crying about it.

 

[Guardafui]

I love having my own space I would like to have 1-2 children but love is not for me companionship maybe not so sure.

 

[Psychologist]

they get educated and understand that having kids and marrying someone isn't the only thing life can offer.

 

[Mercury]

Everything is written by Allah who you gonna end up marrying and when you might even end up not marrying at all or even die before you get married only Allah knows

It's dumb question to ask why someone isn't married when its not in their hands its qadr Allah he does whatever he wills

 

[Periplus]

What i tell them is something that has been normal and working for thousands of years, what you talking about is something that has destroyed the family structure in the west. Look at Japan....a dying nation with women and men killing themselves, shut ins, overworked...its a disaster.

but even though i point to all the evidence, people like you won't listen. You one of them "its their choice" guys. I don't blame them for their choice, but when stuff blows up and you are lonely in an empty apartment at 40. Don't come crying about it.

For most of human history, women were not allowed to vote. Is the decay of politics seen today, a result of women voting? Your analogy of its been working for thousands of years is false if women were mistreated, even by Quranic standards, for most of it.

Japan is an entirely different case. As you said, men are also facing mental/social issues due to the working culture there and the societal impact of the Meiji restoration as well as the loss in WWII.

I am just someone that thinks ppl should have a choice for their major decisions, if you wanna clown me by calling me "its their choice guy" good for you. Ffs man.

 

[TekNiKo]

Yeah but we are not in a Muslim country where rights are granted by the Quran. In fact, there is no nation on earth in which its legal system comes from the Quran.

Feminism is a movement that attempts to bring equality to the inherent inequality in society towards males. If we lived in a perfect Islamic society then I agree but we do not. We live in societies, both in muslim-majority and non-muslim majority nation, in which the legislation is man-made and favours men.

I do not need to research cultural marxism sxb. No offence, laakin I know what I am talking about when it comes to these topics.

Nope Islam is timeless and shariah applys everywhere even in gaal country for example Somalis dont marry through courts but through religion.

Feminism is a cancer now we have reached a point where men cant even approach women

 

[Periplus]

they're not unmarried there just dating behind closed doors.or.having flings. You somali men think these women are just staying at home lol. They're outside getting their feather plucked by gallos. Most gen z like 50% are bound to be concubines for foreigners. Unless you step up and bring 6 figures and western liberal values to the table she's as good as gone. Mohammed Stevenson is going to be common in the English speaking world. Toronto has escorts London has cheap and clean. US has no justice no peace. Pick your poison. Or book your ethiopian airlines ticket 🎟 .

Another new user in which nearly all his posts are about Somali women.

You know, I can click on your profile and see what threads you have commented on.

 

[Toronto95]

Another new user in which nearly all his posts are about Somali women.

You know, I can click on your profile and see what threads you have commented on.

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I don't make the threads I just post on em. Sue me

 

[Periplus]

I don't make the threads I just post on em. Sue me

You talk all this talk about diaspora Somali women being destined to be concubines.

Are your sisters destined for this life or are they exempt from your broad generalisations?

 

[Toronto95]

You talk all this talk about diaspora Somali women being destined to be concubines.

Are your sisters destined for this life or are they exempt from your broad generalisations?

Lol the truth hurts but it's the facts. It's inevitable. They're already trying to implement half breeds into the community because the other cultures does not accept them. People like you are delusional wake up smell the . The weaker a community socioeconomic structures is the more likely women become accessible to others. I.e Filipinos, Thai, ethiopians, somalis.

 

[newguy0123]

For most of human history, women were not allowed to vote. Is the decay of politics seen today, a result of women voting? Your analogy of its been working for thousands of years is false if women were mistreated, even by Quranic standards, for most of it.

Japan is an entirely different case. As you said, men are also facing mental/social issues due to the working culture there and the societal impact of the Meiji restoration as well as the loss in WWII.

I am just someone that thinks ppl should have a choice for their major decisions, if you wanna clown me by calling me "its their choice guy" good for you. Ffs man.

for most of human history most people were not allowed to vote. only a select few. then its became those who were landowners, then it became regular folk, then it becme this and so forth. this is new. so i have no idea why you talking about that.

Also, it has worked for thousands of years. thats why you even see old school hooyos and ayeeyo's talking how bad the situation is. you literally shitting on something women have been apart of and done for thousands of years because you disagree with it.

its not just japan...its china, india, south korea and alot of western countries. Japan is just a good example..because their population will shrink like 50% by 2100.

women always had a choice, especially in somali communities. this notion that they are forced is false. we don't have honor killings in our community like the pakistanis and kurds do. you don't even gotta ask me....99% somali women agree with what i am saying..this shit ain't new.

 

[Periplus]

Lol the truth hurts but it's the facts. It's inevitable. They're already trying to implement half breeds into the community because the other cultures does not accept them. People like you are delusional wake up smell the . The weaker a community socioeconomic structures is the more likely women become accessible to others. I.e Filipinos, Thai, ethiopians, somalis.

Answer my question:

You said on a thread, Somali women in the West are destined to be concubines.

Do your sisters fit this prediction or are they exempted from your omnipotent judgement?

 

[Toronto95]

Answer my question:

You said on a thread, Somali women in the West are destined to be concubines.

Do your sisters fit this prediction or are they exempted from your omnipotent judgement?

No they seem to be culturally loyal from some reason

 

[Basra]

There is many factors to this but what factor would yous ay is the biggest in this?

50 % They are used to seeing their single mothers exist being single & powerful, so they lived a western lifestyle of giving out free milk (including divorced single mothers just like their mothers)

30% Career women. Woke independent woman.


10 % They do not have good net work of family structure to initialize marriage hook ups and arrangements, so a rose dies silently eating laxox and masturbating at home


10% lesbians