Gambar
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WHY are Somali men between 30-34...
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This will be my last post on this topic and alas on this forum. My time has come to a close. So let’s speak freely. Listen up you shitstain on life. I’m speaking to you Lmsa.
Ah, now you cry takfir and claim I am not a Muslim. I wonder who is the worse Muslim the one who has blithely commited a sin the ulema states is Hudud and another now which is one of the worst crimes against Islam? Or little old non-hijab wearing me?
FYI I was born and raised in the West. No one can force me be to Muslim here. If I wasn’t I would proclaim it for all and sunder like @VixR. What could the likes of you peons do to me? You have no power here, remember? You are cucked.
I’ve been very civil with you throughout this thread. Even though what has been told to me about you is very disquieting. If you are currently or have in the past pretended to be a woman on here in order to catfish and sext unsuspecting males. I feel incredibly sad for you.
I may be on a matrimonial site but I have never been as desperate and lonely
as you it seems for male companionship and human interaction. I would suggest Grinder sxb but I expect you must look like a cross between Count Orlok from
Nosferatu and Lord Voldemort. As grotesque on the inside as you are on the outside.
Oh, by the way nobody cares about your podunk fly over state or your fictional female relatives. I refuse to believe the likes of you came out of a woman or is related to any. I expect a demented being such as yourself crawled out of grease pit on a hellishly hot day. That burning heat you felt when you crawled out will be nothing like Jahannam FYI.
@IPushFatKids I have no idea who you are and why you felt compelled to waddle your way into my post to sneak diss me. I can only surmise you are a coward or you too must have felt personally aggrieved by my observations. Sigh, another farax who probably looks like Roger from American Dad. Still repulsed.
I don’t care about you or your opinion. Focus on your womenfolk I am not your concern. And try not to get got by a hijabi with a loose purse on the marriage market.
@Gambar @Reiko @Duchess My MJ sisters I will miss you! All the best in your future endeavours.
@Shamis All the best in your future marriage and with your children. Congratulations again.
@Inquisitive_ Jiggle your way in here you big tittied girdle wearing I got something to say to you! When I first got here I thought you were on the autism spectrum and thus just affable developmentally delayed idiot. The more I read your gross inane anti-woman ramblings the more and more shocked I became. I truly hope you are going to mudug to live out your days and live free in the wild as the glorious snorlax that you are. I am going to say something I have never said to another human being EVER. Jiggly, I truly believe the world would be a better place without you in it. Toodles. Hopefully you get got by some of your thieving clansmen in the wilds of Somalia.
@sophisticate I hope you find the man of your dreams and procreate. We need the progeny of educated, progressive people like you to counteract that of the filth procreating like NYC sewer rats.
@Mercury You’re a nice guy, all the best.
@AussieHustler it’s shocking how as an atheist you have more adab and akhlaq than a lot of these so called Muslim males! I am saddened to see you have in all probability divested from this toxic, hate-filled community. You are needed.
@LarryThePuntite My inadeer I haven’t interacted with you much. One thing you have stated about the Somali-Canadian Community has always stayed with me however. We are increasingly becoming a community of haves and have nots. Those like me educated (advanced degree holding), intelligent, progressive Somali-Canadian men and women with means are choosing to either marry out or marry within and disassociate from the rabble. All that will be left to represent our community in the near future will be disfunction and gun violence. It is sad things have to be this way but caring for yourself above all is an act of self-consideration not selfishness.
@Bahal <3 You always make me laugh!
@Coulombs law You are a nice, respectful young man and I wish you the best in your future endeavours. Do not take what some of these awful people say about beesha Hawiye to heart. I have a great great maternal grandfather who was Hawiye and the BEST Somali men I have come across in my marriage search have been tolka! I don’t know what your mothers are doing but they are getting it right!
@AbdiJew our extraordinary full-time troll sometimes insightful leader. I have enjoyed reading your posts immensely over the years! Please do me the honour of deleting my account in the near future. I have a promotion in the offing, you understand. Some of us work for a living and do not live off ceyr in the United Kollection Plate like @World.
Marry young @18 so you can get a council property from the local council. Don’t worry Allah-I mean Tony Blaire/David Cameron/Theresa May/the welfare state will provide. Get a job loser.
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I Wish you the best on your Journey Inshallah you Will find a person with good character and deen Im rooting for you!
Good luck on finding your soulmate. Although I would advice that if you want to find a good Somali man - put a hijab on first and try to look modest. Most decent Somali men out there want a good girl who knows her deen. Some of them judge by looks and how you carry ourself. When they see you without hijab they will or would look the other way because in our community..not wearing hijab is associated with a nonreligious and a ""
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Take care and best wishes sister @Periodicbrilliance
Good luck and all the best mate.
Jamal
You are dead wrong because not only 40 year olds are giving birth today, but also 50 year olds and we have seen 60 something years old giving birth. With the speedy advancement of medical sciences and on particular IVF, soon, it will be possible men to carry the pregnancies and give birth by C-section. Google male pregnancy.
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All the best abaayo in your search! I am rooting for you! 
Thank you sis. Why are you leaving, if I may ask?
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You hounded the poor girl off the forum you savages!
All she wanted to do was vent..
27 ain't even old, especially if you are Uni educated with a few years of work experience. It means you hadn't wasted your life, and are a valuable asset - in my opinion more so than a bird-brained 22 year old. It's all relative right?
And why isn't anyone taking religion into account? A pious 35 year old is a 100% better as a wife, than a new-age 20 year old dhoocil. That dainty 21 year old might keep your sack warm, but she'll ruin your children and reputation. We pray to Allah SWT to protect us from these young neo-Marxist Xalimo-bots.
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All she wanted to do was vent..
27 ain't even old, especially if you are Uni educated with a few years of work experience. It means you hadn't wasted your life, and are a valuable asset - in my opinion more so than a bird-brained 22 year old. It's all relative right?
And why isn't anyone taking religion into account? A pious 35 year old is a 100% better as a wife, than a new-age 20 year old dhoocil. That dainty 21 year old might keep your sack warm, but she'll ruin your children and reputation. We pray to Allah SWT to protect us from these young neo-Marxist Xalimo-bots.
I have nothing more to add.
VixR
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She’s 28 probably turning 29 soon, which is very old. In the UK you finish university at 21 years old, meaning she has 7 years of work experience? Why do you need to wait 7 years after getting your degree to get married? Why would a 22 year old be bird brained? My mother got married at age 16, my ayeeyo gave BIRTH at 13. The fact that you only view women nearing their menopause age(natural fertility decreases at 30 years old) as mature is despicable!You hounded the poor girl off the forum you savages!
All she wanted to do was vent..
27 ain't even old, especially if you are Uni educated with a few years of work experience. It means you hadn't wasted your life, and are a valuable asset - in my opinion more so than a bird-brained 22 year old. It's all relative right?
What our Prophet saw recommended us is to get married YOUNG(which in his time would have been 13-17 let alone 35 year olds acudubillah), which this girl repeatedly has mocked.And why isn't anyone taking religion into account? A pious 35 year old is a 100% better as a wife, than a new-age 20 year old dhoocil. That dainty 21 year old might keep your sack warm, but she'll ruin your children and reputation. We pray to Allah SWT to protect us from these young neo-Marxist Xalimo-bots.
I have nothing more to add.
There is no difference in my opinion between a careeist feminist women who wants to be independent and a BLM SJW women. So the only difference between a 35 year old and a 20 year old cursed with these ideologies would be AGE. And I sincerely doubt that a 35 year old women raised in the west would be able to keep their dignity and honor, when we have 12 year olds losing their virginity in the West. Do you really think such a woman would also accept traditional Islamic gender roles when it goes against her life she’s been living for decades?
No women should delay her marriage past 18-21. This is my personal opinion, and it may be that you prefer a careerist women who chases materialism over family so each to their own.
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You hounded the poor girl off the forum you savages!
All she wanted to do was vent..
27 ain't even old, especially if you are Uni educated with a few years of work experience. It means you hadn't wasted your life, and are a valuable asset - in my opinion more so than a bird-brained 22 year old. It's all relative right?
And why isn't anyone taking religion into account? A pious 35 year old is a 100% better as a wife, than a new-age 20 year old dhoocil. That dainty 21 year old might keep your sack warm, but she'll ruin your children and reputation. We pray to Allah SWT to protect us from these young neo-Marxist Xalimo-bots.
I have nothing more to add.
Party of one, what a shame she left. I joined somnet at 27 and they called me 30 until I actually evolved into a smexy crone.
@World is certainly in favour of a femme with a long reproductive life. 30 is not the end unless you are going by Somali 'exaggerations', there is merely a decline in fertility (nothing too substantial. Obviously, younger is preferable in terms of popping out babies. Over 35, is when one proceeds with 'caution'. My guess is that your aim isn't to have a boatload of children if late marriage is your thing.There's more time to budget toward child spacing, that is if you're a proponent of family planning. For those with a heavy case of commitment phobia and close to zero interest in copulating, it's not what you call palatable. I suppose one will settle, in an effort to avoid nursing home smothering.
I would like a lot of children, maybe 7 if I’m blessed, but I think it’s xaasid to want one women give birth to that many children. I will space it out across numerous wives to ease their pain hehe.
There's more time to budget toward child spacing, that is if you're a proponent of family planning. For those with a heavy case of commitment phobia and close to zero interest in copulating, it's not what you call palatable. I suppose one will settle, in an effort to avoid nursing home smothering.
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You are confused bratha - I'm not disputing the logic of any of what you wrote. The problem is you're trying to wedge a square peg into a round hole.
20 year olds in the UK (and probably elsewhere) have infant brains and don't understand the concept of responsibility... at all. Hence why the divorce rate is so bloody high. You are advocating practices ideal for healthy environments, where puberty is seen as step into man/womanhood. Just stop and look who you are using as examples - your GRANNY.
You can't have your cake and eat it. If you want to follow healthy Islamic guidelines like marrying young, Islamic family dynamics, etc. then you have to leave literally Satan's asshole where you currently reside. I used to think there was a middle ground, where you can follow all the guidelines to a tee and still reside here, but there really isn't. Look around you - all of us who live out here are poisoned and far from from ideal, including the males. Either be cognizant of the severe limitations we have here and be pragmatic, or move. There is no middle-ground.
A 27 year old educated Somali lady may be old by those correct standards, but if we are speaking relatively, they are an asset in 2017 UK if only she fears her Lord. Scratch that, any woman whatever age who has a relationship with Allah is gold.
In that case, an over 30 would not suit you. You need something functioning optimally and at its peak. Seeing that polygamy isn't popular in the west, have you considered a PYT from back home?
Ease their pain?
What you really want is a lot of wives. No need to dance around it and act like you are giving charity.
I prefer monogamy, but out of consideration for my wife, I will space out my children so she doesn’t have to suffer from giving birth so much. It really takes a toll on you. And even if I did want a lot of wives(I don’t), it’s a Sunnah and a husbands right. What Allah makes haram, none can make halal, and what Allah makes halal, none can make haram.
I prefer monogamy, but out of consideration for my wife, I will space out my children so she doesn’t have to suffer from giving birth so much. It really takes a toll on you. And even if I did want a lot of wives(I don’t), it’s a Sunnah and a husbands right. What Allah makes haram, none can make halal, and what Allah makes halal, none can make haram.
Speaking of polygamy and what's Haram usually when the husband wants a second wife the first wife doesn't agree to it so they divorce he goes marries the new wife
And here's the thing and it's common in the Somali community when he divorced the first one for a new wife he stops seeing his kids and providing for them
And islamically you must provide for all your kids wether divorced or not
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