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The thing that healthy families have in common that dysfunctional ones are missing is the parents having respect for one another as adults and recognize the importance of the other, and both parents actively taking in role in upbringing the kids.
In your typical somali dysfunctional family, the husband believes himself to only be there for financial support. Now when the wife makes money of her own and on top of that receives aid, this is a recipe for disaster because she is also already doing household work, caring for the kids etc. In her mind, the husband becomes useless and she loses respect for him. And without a wife having respect for her husband, no marriage is gonna work like that. These kind of men get constantly nagged and belittled by their wives and later, the mom gets full custody and they don't even try. They are too lazy
The amount of fathers who are willing to walk out is probably a very small number, same with women who just want to kick the man out and block their kids dad out of their lives. In the case where a father takes his parenting seriously, do you really think he would get kicked out
The thing that healthy families have in common that dysfunctional ones are missing is the parents having respect for one another as adults and recognize the importance of the other, and both parents actively taking in role in upbringing the kids.
In your typical somali dysfunctional family, the husband believes himself to only be there for financial support. Now when the wife makes money of her own and on top of that receives aid, this is a recipe for disaster because she is also already doing household work, caring for the kids etc. In her mind, the husband becomes useless and she loses respect for him. And without a wife having respect for her husband, no marriage is gonna work like that. These kind of men get constantly nagged and belittled by their wives and later, the mom gets full custody and they don't even try. They are too lazy
The amount of fathers who are willing to walk out is probably a very small number, same with women who just want to kick the man out and block their kids dad out of their lives. In the case where a father takes his parenting seriously, do you really think he would get kicked out