Where to find a husband

[Hodan from HR]

This sounds unironic coming from the HR lady but LinkedIn bey ka shidantahay these days. The farahs there are husband material albeit on the serious side personality wise and kinda nerdy. You gonna get cuffed within 2 months..

 

[Abdisamad]

Most xalimos are looking for a good husband, but the question is how do you define what a good husband is? And secondly what do you offer a the so called good husband? When I read comments like there aren't many good brothers etc.. Then it sounds like 99% of somali men are bums and 99% of the xalimos are the top 1% of women on earth.. Certainly this can't be the case.

 

[Abdisamad]

This sounds unironic coming from the HR lady but LinkedIn bey ka shindahay these days. The farahs there are husband material albeit on the serious side personality wise and kinda nerdy. You gonna get cuffed within 2 months..

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[Abdisamad]

Most xalimos are looking for a good husband, but the question is how do you define what a good husband is? And secondly what do you offer a the so called good husband? When I read comments like there aren't many good brothers etc.. Then it sounds like 99% of somali men are bums and 99% of the xalimos are the top 1% of women on earth.. Certainly this can't be the case.

Btw lately I've been getting my comments removed and blocked out of threads by an anonymous mod.. I hope my above comment doesn't violate any rules or regulations of sspot.

 

[Taij4an]

YOUR JOB to make her happy?

no its her job to make herself happy but u should try ur best to make her happy in general as long as it doesn't compromise ur own morals

 

[Taij4an]

Is that ur fault or hers?

hers

 

[Taij4an]

according to will smith his wife was responsible for her own happiness, so she went and got August lol.

Thats his fault for choosing a wh0re as a wife

 

[Taij4an]

You are responsible for her entire emotional state, the moment you give up control, is the moment you give the next man his opportunity.

you can never be in full control of a womans emotional state, that is purely impossible

 

[Sigala]

That you don't find any man isn't suprising at all, trust me

You mad because of the last sentence?truth be told is not often we come across successful somali men,

 

[Man with a garuun]

You mad because of the last sentence?truth be told is not often we come across successful somali men,

I once remembered you in another platform dissing Somali guys and stating you were gonna be meeting with a Latina revert guy and wanted people to wish you well that you'll succeed with your moves toward that guy. Then suddenly you stated it didn't work out.

What the heck, your whole Somali men bashing spree was not even good enough for a revert guy from Columbia.

 

[Chase]

I once remembered you in another platform dissing Somali guys and stating you were gonna be meeting with a Latina revert guy and wanted people to wish you well that you'll succeed with your moves toward that guy. Then suddenly you stated it didn't work out.

What the heck, your whole Somali men bashing spree was not even good enough for a revert guy from Columbia.

@Sigala is an unattractive girl, let's be real, that's why she wants to pass on/blame her unfortunate situation on Somali men.

 

[geelhilib]

That doesn’t happen in real life but even if it did good riddance to that hypocrite. Most Somali men have dated ajnabi women so to switch up when it’s the other way around is laughable

yes it does, I doubt any somali guy is going to wife you once you have been used by an ajnabi unless he is looking to use you also for sexual pleasure and then marry a decent women after
I even doubt a somali guy would accept a women who has dated/married an ajnabi as a 2nd wife never mind as his 1st lol this is facts

lot of this generation think its like the older generation where you marry and divorce as you like
if your under 35 you should know that no somali dude is looking your way if you been married and divorced before its going to be really hard for you and you will need to make super compromises just to even be considered as a spouse if you went outside the community forget it lol wallahi no farax tarnishing his reputation or face only option for those types of xalimos is 50+ old men who don't care and just want to smash

 

[AllStarSaciid]

yes it does, I doubt any somali guy is going to wife you once you have been used by an ajnabi unless he is looking to use you also for sexual pleasure and then marry a decent women after
I even doubt a somali guy would accept a women who has dated/married an ajnabi as a 2nd wife never mind as his 1st lol this is facts

lot of this generation think its like the older generation where you marry and divorce as you like
if your under 35 you should know that no somali dude is looking your way if you been married and divorced before its going to be really hard for you and you will need to make super compromises just to even be considered as a spouse if you went outside the community forget it lol wallahi no farax tarnishing his reputation or face only option for those types of xalimos is 50+ old men who don't care and just want to smash

can't u be a little gentle my guy.

 

[Qahwe]

If you are don’t interact with Somali men in real life, try attending (ofc through invitations) non-mixed weddings, sometimes some Somali moms try to look for suitable brides for their sons through that way.

 

[Kane]

I deeply believe women don’t really know what they want in men. Wallahi I do. Ask any girl what she wants in a man, she’ll give you a list.

The list is a fools errand, in truth women want men that arouse them. The first stage of love is lust, that’s why I advocate for the body game, along with choosing signals.

When the same man comes around she don’t wanna get with him. It’s all about how u make a girl feel in this day and age especially. You almost got act like a clown(as Roosh said) giving her that emotional roller coaster, tingling her senses. Most women and men lead boring lives, nothing about them is exciting, they don’t have stories to tell, grew up in one place, lack perspective in life. Sheltered from the realities of this world.

You’re right it is all about how you make her feel, and her first impression of your body will do that for you. All you have to do is look out for choosing signals.

Emotional roller coaster is a real thing but I don’t know about acting like a clown. I also hate everything about P.U.As, they are the panhandlers of the seduction game.

Never ask a woman what she finds attractive, figure it out for her in the moment.

There is no need to ask when you’re getting clear signals to come approach, and the walk…. Oh man you feel like Denzel in training day.

But your gonna have to put in the work first that’s what most men don’t want to do, because it’s easier to sit and complain.

 

[AllStarSaciid]

The list is a fools errand, in truth women want men that arouse them. The first stage of love is lust, that’s why I advocate for the body game, along with choosing signals.


You’re right it is all about how you make her feel, and her first impression of your body will do that for you. All you have to do is look out for choosing signals.

Emotional roller coaster is a real thing but I don’t know about acting like a clown. I also hate everything about P.U.As, they are the panhandlers of the seduction game.




There is no need to ask when you’re getting clear signals to come approach, and the walk…. Oh man you feel like Denzel in training day.

But your gonna have to put in the work first that’s what most men don’t want to do, because it’s easier to sit and complain.

My nigga.

 

[Kane]

Thats his fault for choosing a wh0re as a wife

She didn’t cheat because she was a wh@re, she cheating because she lost respect for him.

you can never be in full control of a womans emotional state, that is purely impossible

If your women chooses to stay within your frame you can, if she doesn’t you let her go.

 

[Taij4an]

She didn’t cheat because she was a wh@re, she cheating because she lost respect for him.

It was both, if she wasn't a wh0re she would have divorced him instead of cheating on him.

 

[Taij4an]

If your women chooses to stay within your frame you can,

Nah a women can't even control her emotions herself you wouldn't be able to control her full emotional state, the only way u could do try to do it is through emotional manipulation where she makes herself extremely vulnerable to you and that is a toxic relationship and she will eventually break as it is not natural for a human to rely on some else for their emotional stability and to be controlled to that level.
If even at all it is possible since most women will not be emotionally controlled that easily

 

[Kane]

Nah a women can't even control her emotions herself you wouldn't be able to control her full emotional state, the only way u could do try to do it is through emotional manipulation where she makes herself extremely vulnerable to you and that is a toxic relationship and she will eventually break as it is not natural for a human to rely on some else for their emotional stability and to be controlled to that level.
If even at all it is possible since most women will not be emotionally controlled that easily

Women are mentally and emotionally stronger than us, when given an incentive there is nothing a woman can’t do. You probably never witnessed the true power of a woman’s will.