When he threatens you..

[Gibiin-Udug]

Somali guys are aggressive, they won’t even divorce you. You can take them out of baadiyo but you can’t take the baadiyo out of them.

You know can get automatic talaq if he refuses to divorce you, just go to the mosque and tell the imaam. Boom you're divorced.

 

[Sophisticate]

These ones are dangerous. Have you tried setting him up with someone else?

 

[Marcus]

I can't comprehend how this would work or the thought process. Somalis are more fucked than I originally thought.

 

[Alexander The Great]

Feminist

 

[bluebird]

With going to your parents if you refuse to date him, and you know your parents will accept him because you're from the same clan.


Him: Let's go to dinner sometime
Me: I would rather die, eww
Him: bet, I will go to your mom and ask for your hand
Me: please dont, fine, I will go to dinner
Him: maxa saas kudiiday
Me: **looks for rat poison on amazon**


How was your Eid guys?

is this a common threat? some guy said the same thing to me.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

That's why it's best not to speak to someone from the same tribe.
They're family

 

[Octavian]

With going to your parents if you refuse to date him, and you know your parents will accept him because you're from the same clan.


Him: Let's go to dinner sometime
Me: I would rather die, eww
Him: bet, I will go to your mom and ask for your hand
Me: please dont, fine, I will go to dinner
Him: maxa saas kudiiday
Me: **looks for rat poison on amazon**


How was your Eid guys?

u Good sir or madam have a wonderful imagination

 

[Addislad]

is this a common threat? some guy said the same thing to me.

It's only a threat if your parents don't respect your choices.

 

[__08]

Sis be safe this dude sounds like a weirdo.

 

[bluebird]

It's only a threat if your parents don't respect your choices.

its a threat because its humiliating. no one wants someone they don't know knocking on their door and putting them on blast in front of their entire family...

 

[Guled111]

Wtf do they really do this?

Your address plz

 

[Guled111]

Somali guys are aggressive, they won’t even divorce you. You can take them out of baadiyo but you can’t take the baadiyo out of them.

Gabar fiican baa tahay

 

[Guled111]

I didn't actually, I'm an independent woman living in the land of free.

I love independent wifes because when you are in need of a 20 you can go straight to her purse

 

[Guled111]

its a threat because its humiliating. no one wants someone they don't know knocking on their door and putting them on blast in front of their entire family...

Real love comes after pregnancy nayaa

 

[SomaliWadaniSoldier]

@Gibiin-Udug I thought you were already married to a Puntite man, what happened?

My b000n Nigga, she is single asf. Waa Nindoon.

Mr Bunani @Abdisamad3 hasnt finished his job

 

[Mercury]

is this a common threat? some guy said the same thing to me.

I've heard about this happening but not that often I think the guys who do this are desperate and won't accept no for an answer and will go against whatever the girl says with the hopes that involving the girls parents will influence her to get married

 

[Advokaten]

Wtf I never knew that this shit happened, Seems to be a good strategy, Inshallah will test it out soon

 

[Mercury]

I never understood the people who do this why even go to her parents for marriage when she's not ok with it

Than you have 2 choices you either give her time and wait or you leave and find someone else