I dont believe any creation of Allah ta'alah is 'ugly'. People have different preferences and find different things attractive. Sounds like a radical idea but its true. Part of growing up and being mature is accepting the fact not everyone will find you attractive or appealing regardless of who you are.
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brakenclaw
Stay real in the everything fake era
i'm sexy asf 
no bidaar and shit im chilling
no bidaar and shit im chilling
Why is bidaar more prominent in somalis at a younger age?u know somali dudes have it rough when niggas in their 20's celebrating not having bidaar
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In this modern world we live in, especially in the west, women no longer need men to provide or to protect them. They have their careers or welfare for provision and police/daddy government for protection. Men in their natural roles have become obsolete. With their newfound power and financial freedom women are now able to choose men based on what "turns them on". This means looks are now of paramount importance for men in attracting a desirable mate.
The sexual liberation of women through feminism and the modern service economy have created a sexual marketplace where the top 20 % of men in looks and overall attractiveness are monopolizing 80% of the women. This unequal distribution of sexual access is a destabilizing phenomenon for society and is a cause of many of the mass shootings in the U.S (eg, Elliot rogers), as involuntarily celibate men take out their frustrations on society by killing. Of course only a tiny percentage of men do something like this, while the vast majority live a life of quiet desperation.
In other words, if ur average or ugly in 2016 in the West ur fucked.
The sexual liberation of women through feminism and the modern service economy have created a sexual marketplace where the top 20 % of men in looks and overall attractiveness are monopolizing 80% of the women. This unequal distribution of sexual access is a destabilizing phenomenon for society and is a cause of many of the mass shootings in the U.S (eg, Elliot rogers), as involuntarily celibate men take out their frustrations on society by killing. Of course only a tiny percentage of men do something like this, while the vast majority live a life of quiet desperation.
In other words, if ur average or ugly in 2016 in the West ur fucked.
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Mohamud
ʜᴀᴄᴋᴇᴅ ᴍᴇᴍʙᴇʀ
What if I told everything you your argument is fundamentally flawed from head-to-toe and the inherent contradiction of correlating female strength to what appears to be girls sharing a small percentage of dudes is not only not empowering but genuinely laughable
What if I told everything you your argument is fundamentally flawed from head-to-toe and the inherent contradiction of correlating female strength to what appears to be girls sharing a small percentage of dudes is not only not empowering but genuinely laughable
U have told me, now explain how.
I have more important things to worry about than my looks.
HalyeeyQaran
Citizen of Southwest State
What if I told everything you your argument is fundamentally flawed from head-to-toe and the inherent contradiction of correlating female strength to what appears to be girls sharing a small percentage of dudes is not only not empowering but genuinely laughable
Now mind you, the bleak picture I paint isn't totally applicable to Somali guys in the west, because most Somali girls are restricted by their families and social pressures to marry a fellow Somali guy. And with so many Somali guys not being suitable marriage partners because of their lifestyles, it allows average or below average Somali guys to punch above their weight since the competition is less stiff. So just cuz what I'm saying may not apply to Somali guys as much doesn't mean what I'm saying is wrong. Nonetheless even for Somali guys looks are more important now than ever, cuz nurse ayaan and human resource director hodan doesn't need ur money.
That in western communities only, but in Somali community girls choose according degree, good job, sweet talking, and finally the look. The Somali men always have option of marrying from back home.
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I agree. Somali guys are lucky.
What if I told everything you your argument is fundamentally flawed from head-to-toe and the inherent contradiction of correlating female strength to what appears to be girls sharing a small percentage of dudes is not only not empowering but genuinely laughable
He's absolutely right. Go and check out the phenomenon of "soft harems". The Pareto principle is so ubiquitous in nature that it is comparable to the bell-curve distribution. For example, 80% of a given company's profits from 20% of its customers. There are even online dating studies that have been done that demonstrate this fact: women find 80% of men to be "below-average.
In a society where men are no longer valued as providers, women will screen only for genetics. Sounds harsh, but it's the truth. Look no further than the AA community as a real example where you have a handful of men siring most of the children.
@Mohamud Check out how this hardened and dangerous criminal in jail was able to turn 4 differenr guards into his baby mommas.
Meet the 4 prison guards that were impregnated by an inmate
And then you have atheists like @AbdiJohnson who can't seem to get any at all.
Meet the 4 prison guards that were impregnated by an inmate
And then you have atheists like @AbdiJohnson who can't seem to get any at all.
Jubba_man, smart man and knows whats up.
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