What to do when father refuses a guy because of his qabiil

[VixR]

first off he's a guy, nobody cares about the wives qabil she inherits yours so that sounds sketchy secondly your grandmother would have no say in that matter it would be grandpas call

It clearly happens both ways. My parents took issue with my brother’s ex.

Woah both of them ? That’s crazy

Yh, but that’s not uncommon around here.

 

[Tukraq]

It clearly happens both ways. My parents took issue with my brother’s ex.

Yh, but that’s not uncommon around here.

why would a women qabil matter? I'm not understanding, technically women don't have qabils as they inherit the husbands qabil and the kids would have the husbands qabil, it literally dosent go both ways

 

[VixR]

why would a women qabil matter? I'm not understanding, technically women don't have qabils as they inherit the husbands qabil and the kids would have the husbands qabil, it literally dosent go both ways

What is this, Christianity? Do they also inherit the husband’s name? I highly doubt a grown woman inherits a new tribe.

 

[QueenSamaale]

why would a women qabil matter? I'm not understanding, technically women don't have qabils as they inherit the husbands qabil and the kids would have the husbands qabil, it literally dosent go both ways

The women have their qabiil. The children inherit the father's qabiil. To some people it does matter. Clan stereotypes arent helping.

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

first off he's a guy, nobody cares about the wives qabil she inherits yours so that sounds sketchy secondly your grandmother would have no say in that matter it would be grandpas call

Grandpa died allah narisxto.

Moms care about that shit cmon man you know Somali moms. There in their sons lives every step. I know a issaq girl that had a rahahween fiancé and the dudes mom said no to the match according to her.

You coming from a logical point of view but when have Somalis ever been logical?

 

[Tukraq]

What is this, Christianity? Do they also inherit the husband’s name? I highly doubt a grown woman inherits a new tribe.

nope but defiantly qabil, in times of war men would even have to fight there uncles from there moms side

 

[SomaliSteel]

Rare in the diaspora, with all the ajanabi unions and gallonimo going around, if a good, clean Somali guy asks for their daughter they accept. Diaspora Somali parents have learned to calm down and face reality

 

[VixR]

nope but defiantly qabil, in times of war men would even have to fight there uncles from there moms side

How’s that any different from the way they operate. They’ll kill their blood when it suits them. How’s killing his mother’s kin any different.

 

[Tukraq]

How’s that any different from the way they operate. They’ll kill their blood when it suits them. How’s killing his mother’s kin any different.

I doubt they kill there own times men outside alshabab

 

[VixR]

I doubt they kill there own times men outside alshabab

We’re not talking about Alshabab. Oftentimes, they’re killing their own kin across tribal lines, so what makes the mother’s kin special? Nothing. Her tribe doesn’t change. It’s just business as usual.

 

[Crow]

why would a women qabil matter? I'm not understanding, technically women don't have qabils as they inherit the husbands qabil and the kids would have the husbands qabil, it literally dosent go both ways

A woman's qabiil is important because you don't want your children to have deadbeat and dysfunctional losers as their reer abtii. It would be a wasted opportunity when you could be growing your family network.

Even as a husband, having a laandheere wife can take you places. Just ask Mr. Ilhan Omar.

 

[Abdisamad]

I was once dumped by an isaq chick after she found out I'm mj

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

I was once dumped by an isaq chick after she found out I'm mj

You must have some bad game. As much shit we talk, diaspora somalis don't give 2 shits about it when it comes to romance. At least not in America.

I have issaq and hawiye friends, whose qabil I didn't know. When I joined Sspot, is when I got curious and asked smh.

 

[Hybrid()]

fake as f*ck. waxay kuleedahay hawiye baa diiday inuu isaaq inantiisa guursado.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

My parents won't care , but tell of they refuse a Somali man first time second time you will bring a AA or white person

 

[Abdalla]

He is hawiye lol

There's an Isaaq out there yelling FA.QASH

 

[HalimaJ]

Ajnabi is too vague. She need to use the J word. Jameeekaaan

That would snap out any tribalism from any father.

 

[Prince Abubu]

Your father is right to be against interracial marriage. Hawiye and Isaaq are two different ethnic groups.

 

[HalimaJ]

first off he's a guy, nobody cares about the wives qabil she inherits yours so that sounds sketchy secondly your grandmother would have no say in that matter it would be grandpas call

We are not Indian or Asian. If your hooyo said no, most Somali guys would obey.

 

[Abdisamad]

You must have some bad game. As much shit we talk, diaspora somalis don't give 2 shits about it when it comes to romance. At least not in America.

I have issaq and hawiye friends, whose qabil I didn't know. When I joined Sspot, is when I got curious and asked smh.

Lool. She told me her brothers would beat her if she brought an MJ home