Until she goes to university and catches up all that she missed.
What if your daughter got into a relationship before marriage?
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That is the least of their worries for parents in the west. This is why i want to raise my kids in somalia under a tree and send them to dugsi so that they can learn edeb.
You make it sound inevitable lmao. Just have to trust them (and your parenting) at some point
She’s your daughter and you are not the owner of her vagina. Some people here think like middle aged and older Somalis. What about your sons? The best way to help your children is to teach them how to use contraceptives and avoid diseases and unwanted pregnancies..
I don’t know, maybe the computer nerds that never leave their basement, but all of my cousins and their friends who are around my age in mn have girlfriends that are somalis.Maybe this is normalized in the train wreck that is reer UK, but I don't think this is as common in the USA.
You really expect people who ain’t even religious (praying 5 times a day) to just resist temptation until they get married at 25 or even older?
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Hiiraan
its common in the west unfortunately sxb canada america uk etcMaybe this is normalized in the train wreck that is reer UK, but this is not common
in the USA.
Okay so you’re gonna isolate her from other kids by home schooling her so she becomes a loner with social anxiety? Is that really a good parenting? What about social media? Are you gonna ban her from being friends with those kids from near her school?
So why are you focusing on girls only when your cousins and friends are doing the same thing.
The few anecdotes are the people who aren’t in relationships, what I’m describing is the norm.
Unless the girl is raised in a super religious household which she will likely rebel from because she sees all her friends having “fun” and “freedom” whilst she is locked away with “backwards” parents.
Samaalic Era
QurboExit
That's why you don't raise them here and alxamdulillah I don't have any sisters.
Well it’s because they’re more open about it.
How old?
This is still anecdotal, I need some stats sxb. If this was a thing there at the very least would be a rash of teen pregnancies.
He's exaggerating sxblet me give you a little helpful hint, simply telling a kids X is haram doesn’t always work because we have the mindset of sin now, repent later Allah is forgiving. It’s already problematic that you said daughters implying it’s ok if your sons do it
you have to instill them with a sense of pride in their religion that they carry with them
and I can think of a lot of people male, female who have never been in relationships
you have to instill them with a sense of pride in their religion that they carry with them
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and I can think of a lot of people male, female who have never been in relationships
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Hiiraan
ill be 14 at the end of this year sxb
