What if your daughter got into a relationship before marriage?

[World]

Didn't even read the OP, just saw the poll.

Anywho, I'll probably home school my kids if I'm still here as a parent. Rules out the peer pressure that leads to most degeneracy.

Until she goes to university and catches up all that she missed.

 

[Halimo-2018]

That is the least of their worries for parents in the west. This is why i want to raise my kids in somalia under a tree and send them to dugsi so that they can learn edeb.

 

[Webb]

Until she goes to university and catches up all that she missed.

You make it sound inevitable lmao. Just have to trust them (and your parenting) at some point

 

[kickz]

Maybe this is normalized in the train wreck that is reer UK, but this is not common
in the USA.

 

[AussieHustler]

She’s your daughter and you are not the owner of her vagina. Some people here think like middle aged and older Somalis. What about your sons? The best way to help your children is to teach them how to use contraceptives and avoid diseases and unwanted pregnancies..

 

[World]

Maybe this is normalized in the train wreck that is reer UK, but I don't think this is as common in the USA.

I don’t know, maybe the computer nerds that never leave their basement, but all of my cousins and their friends who are around my age in mn have girlfriends that are somalis.

You really expect people who ain’t even religious (praying 5 times a day) to just resist temptation until they get married at 25 or even older?

 

[southside]

Maybe this is normalized in the train wreck that is reer UK, but this is not common
in the USA.

its common in the west unfortunately sxb canada america uk etc

 

[kickz]

You guys are exaggerating, I am not buying a few anecdotes, from what I have seen this is not common in the US.

 

[World]

You make it sound inevitable lmao. Just have to trust them (and your parenting) at some point

Okay so you’re gonna isolate her from other kids by home schooling her so she becomes a loner with social anxiety? Is that really a good parenting? What about social media? Are you gonna ban her from being friends with those kids from near her school?

 

[saredochani10]

I don’t know, maybe the computer nerds that never leave their basement, but all of my cousins and their friends who are around my age in mn have girlfriends that are somalis.

You really expect people who ain’t even religious (praying 5 times a day) to just resist temptation until they get married at 25 or even older?

So why are you focusing on girls only when your cousins and friends are doing the same thing.

 

[World]

You guys are exaggerating, I am not buying a few anecdotes, from what I have seen this is not common in the US.

The few anecdotes are the people who aren’t in relationships, what I’m describing is the norm.

Unless the girl is raised in a super religious household which she will likely rebel from because she sees all her friends having “fun” and “freedom” whilst she is locked away with “backwards” parents.

 

[Samaalic Era]

That's why you don't raise them here and alxamdulillah I don't have any sisters.

 

[World]

So why are you focusing on girls only when your cousins and friends are doing the same thing.

Well it’s because they’re more open about it.

 

[southside]

im a proud virgin wallahi

 

[Degmada waaberi]

im a proud virgin wallahi

How old?

 

[kickz]

The few anecdotes are the people who aren’t in relationships, what I’m describing is the norm. Unless the girl is raised in a super religious households in which she will rebel in because she sees all her friends having “fun” and “freedom”.

This is still anecdotal, I need some stats sxb. If this was a thing there at the very least would be a rash of teen pregnancies.

 

[Degmada waaberi]

This is still anecdotal, I need some stats sxb. If this was a thing there at the very least would be a rash of teen pregnancies.

He's exaggerating sxb

 

[bluebird]

let me give you a little helpful hint, simply telling a kids X is haram doesn’t always work because we have the mindset of sin now, repent later Allah is forgiving. It’s already problematic that you said daughters implying it’s ok if your sons do it

you have to instill them with a sense of pride in their religion that they carry with them

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and I can think of a lot of people male, female who have never been in relationships

 

[southside]

How old?

ill be 14 at the end of this year sxb

 

[Degmada waaberi]

ill be 14 at the end of this year sxb

Really



Thought you were 20 something