In order to create your own network you must first joined an established one, to learn the tools of the the trade and make connections, for when you are ready to expand.
That’s what the Asians and all the other successful immigrants groups have done.
Asians like Indians in the UK have the lowest IR marriage rates. With East Asians it’s their women who marry out the most, not their men.
Need I remind you, you live in the west too my dear and you have the same rights afforded to you.
Yes, and Somalis have been in the West for how long? 30 years?!
As a millennial man who grew up in the west and who never involved himself in clan warfare. How is any of this my fault or my responsibility. i send money back home every month to my relatives, that’s my sadaqa
It might be not your fault, but you’re stupid enough to compare women who have an established country and heritage compared to refugee immigrant Somalis.
ok they work in care, they work hard and help out their families. That’s great, but how does that serve me in mission to get ahead in life? You’re proving my point lol, it’s her family before me unless I’m ajinabi.
An ajnabi doesn’t need to help her family as she’s from a country in which her family live in peace and have been afforded generational wealth do to that. All of that happened due to cadaan men. Instead of working to secure that for your own people, instead you want to covert what other men worked for.
dear Angie are you currently writing to me from a village somewhere in Somalia, on you iPhone 4 with a smashed screen? Because if your not I would like you to keep things in perspective. We’re both from the west and have all the opportunities you mentioned above. case closed!!
LOL, yes, we’re both the same as Angie and Dave whose parents are established in their own country. No young man, you’re the son of a refugee immigrant who had to leave without anything to start a new life.
People dying in the Mediterranean have paid thousands of dollars and risked their lives to get to Europe. Because of a video they watched of an FOB drinking caffe latte at a cafe in Berlin. While completely ignoring all the videos warning them of the dangers ahead especially for women.
Have you been back home?! People who do Tahrib do so because their virtually hardly any opportunities for them. Very easy for you to say that isn’t it when living in the comforts of the cadaan man and wanting their women.
the money they pay for travel and ransom they could have used to start small businesses back home. It’s a matter of choice because they have the means!!!
And why am I responsible for the single mother raising 7 kids, did I knock her up? No.
Way to go to misunderstand a point? Are you dumb or what. I’m explaining how disgustingshort sighted you are. So you want to compare women who have only 2 kids with women who traditionally not only have 6-7 kids but are also expected to do all the cooking and cleaning.
Since you were comparing apples and oranges please explain how an overworked mother of 7 can be her man’s personal assistant?
Those women are helped by their husbands. Like I said, you want what other men have cherished and looked after thinking you’ll get the same. You won’t. Those men worked for their people.
Again we’re living in the west dear not some dusty town, straight out of the bush.
Yes, but the events of that so called dusty bush follows us. Yes a girls and boy raised in a rough neighborhood with parents who don’t speak English can be compared to upper middle class cadaan who have been afforded the best because cadaan men actually fixed their nation and looked after their own.
Yet you and ilk can’t even do that for you women.
Because you can get half as well.
Nope, get half of what? Firstly, due to Islamic and cultural reasons majority of Somali women do not record their marriages in the UK. They don’t get gaal courts involved. Also, alimony is only common amongst the monied class which is the type of cadaan woman you like. Those women can get alimony from their well paid cadaan husband. What does Farxiyo get from her taxi driver husband?! She’d be lucky to get child support and 9/times they don’t as those men doctor their earning as they’re technically self-employed.
Oh and when Farxiyo husband does make it, will she be able to get half? No. Would be she demonized for it if she tries? Yes.
Culture plays a role and you’re stupid to think cadaan women aren’t amazing partners and motivaters if you think they don’t believe they own what their husbands own. That’s how it works. If you want someone all in, you need to understand that they’ll want to also have it with you such as
joint accounts and the like.
But you have a backwards Abdi mindset and believe you can be with an cadaan woman and not give her your wealth and believe you can walk away with everything like you do with a Xalimo. Cadaan women work with their man because what’s his is hers.
Same as the white women in the west.
Not in the west and you Angie and all the other women on this site know this fact, let stop playing hypotheticals.
No one is playing hypotheticals. You know damn well a Somali woman and an cadaan ain’t the same. Hence why you want an cadaan for better connections. Why does that cadaan woman have better connections? Because one actually grew up in her own country which is stable, actually has generational wealth and has all the benefits due to the hard work of an
Cadaan man. Even the fact that she grew up in a safe and upper class area instead of a rough council house like Xalimo makes them world’s apart and let’s ask ourselves who put Xalimo there? Her men. It’s her men who when causes the ruin of her homeland and now she’s in the Ghetto with parents that send money back all the time.
not when he is a go getter with a mission and a dream, your talking about career men with no real future outside of the rat
Race.
by not having 7 kids, where you see a problem a white woman seeks to find a solution. Because you were raised to look after number one, while most whites women are raised to support the unit.
This is why I genuinely think you’re mentally ill. If Somali women go down the path of cadaan of only having one or two kids, they’re selfish and becoming Western and now you’re blaming the traditional Somali woman for having a lot of kids. Isn’t it mad how you’ll blame Somali women for
traditionalism? It’s because you hate Somali women.
A woman that is mostly thinking of herself wouldn’t have a lot of kids. She’d have one or two. Having kids is painful, the biggest pain humanity can endure.
Now this generation as of now are starting to not have many kids and Faraxs still can’t help but scream that we’re being Westernized since we only want less than 4.
Let me explain to you. Cadaan women get educated, marry later, have less kids, work for a few years, support their husbands, if things don’t work out get half.
The thing is you want all the benefits of a Western wife, but once women start to live by that you’ll demonize it as ultimately the goal post will forever change.
As a Somali Woman living in the west you have the exact same system backing you up, so what’s stopping you from helping a farax build an empire other than that chip on your shoulder.
No, we don’t. Somalis marry other Somalis. Hardly record their marriages. Don’t have the generational wealth and the list goes on.
The newer and younger generation of women are getting there, but what can you really say about them, most of them aren’t even married or have just gotten married so how are you comparing them to cadaan wives?!
Your whole Low IQ dumb post was about the older generation. They are the ones that you were yapping on about and they are the ones whom you can compare and have enough life experiences to see how things of that Gen were. You can’t say anything about Gen Z or younger millennials.
There it is what’s in it for me rather than us, that’s the average Somali woman’s mindset. Other woman take chances with their men why can’t you?
Also, you’re so dumb and living on fantasy land. Educated top class cadaan women actually marry within their class. So what are you on about?!
Those same women don’t take chances and have joint accounts with their man and if things go South take half and slap their man with child support! They also only have 1-3 kids so that they don’t overburden themselves! They also expect their husbands to help them.
Somali women are selfless compared to cadaan women. If we had a what’s in it for us mentality we’d be doing what cadaan women are doing and Alhamdulliah many are starting to.
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