I would not blame our beautiful deen but ignorance in our culture, we simply pick and chose.
I was at walmart a while back in a long line, a somali family decide to cut the line on purpose. The woman was wearing a big jilbaab and the adeer looked pretty religious. Everyone was politely letting them know the line didn't end there but they acted deaf and just ignored us while forcing their way to the front. It was embarrassing and a bad image for us as Somalis and Muslims. This is just an example of the problem being ignorance. We can do better and with education, we will